forum The Roodeness Shenanigans

Started May 27, 2020 by Deleted user

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I would like to own this carrot.

I would like you to own that carrot too.

everyone should own that carrot

hot take BUT

straight kids are also the victims of homophobic media and homophobia in general and yes i will explain if someone wants to hear

No I agree
The whole "is it gay??" thing, as funny as it is to joke about, is really toxic to straight boys too.

exactly! like yeah i love that joke, but the problem is, boys growing up don't understand the nuances like we, already developed queers, would. a gay boy sees his friends laughing at that and is confused about what is and isn't okay, what's gay and what's just pals, what's normal or not. a straight boy sees it and sees it solely as a joke, leading to interactions with his friends who arent straight that are harmful, or to him developing that little bit of internalized homophobia that most straight boys have

straight kids are victims of casual homophobia because when no one is there to tell them that it's homophobic, they see it as simply a Thing, they treat it as a thing, and they end up harming their relationships with friends and hurting said friends, as well. but they didn't mean to, because they didn't get told what was bad about it

Also people discouraging close friendship between guys because "it's gay" is super toxic.

THAT'S THE POINT I WAS MISSING

i couldn't figure out what it was i really wanted to say but yes! people make so many jokes about guys hugging their friends being gay, so guys are scared to be as close with their friends as girls are

which leads into a whole thing about lesbians and gxg relationships constantly being called friendships because 'girls are just touchy!' but

anyway like yeah, it may not be overt homophobia and obviously damaging, the way a parent kicking their kid out for is, but it's the kind of thing that builds up and does a lot more damage than you think

Also shaming straight guys for having stereotypically feminine interests, like fashion, makeup, etc.

makeup is just pretty face paint, i don't see why it has to be a gay or feminine thing like

Yes to all those points. I’ve been called gay sooo many times. It is extremely irritating. Just because I try to go beyond what is socially acceptable in terms of male friendships.

Though I will say the Is it gay jokes are hilarious.

oh yeah no again. is it gay jokes are fuckin funny, as long as you can look at them and not internalize any issues they may bring up

fellas. is it gay to swordfight pretty girls in a dennys parking lot

I hate that my mind jumped to that exact tumblr post in 0.004 seconds

h a

TIL that she made a series of these

Their outfits and the weather insinuate that they drove around town and dueled in multiple places on the same day and I love her even more for it

fkjfdh that's the gay agenda

okay. no joke. i think i've been in a class with that girl in the striped sweater. or she at least looks exactly like a girl i've been in a class with

OH MY GOD I HAVE. i found her youtube and one of the videos is literally a video she made for our class

OMG

she's super nice and she wore really cool makeup on halloween if i remember correctly. she and i and ronnie from the one video sat in the front of the class and always talked a lot in class discussions, and 90% of what we talked about was like "i'm gay" "yes interesting. i'm gay as well." she also always brought up jjba which if you ask me is iconic. and now that professor is my faculty mentor 4 my research :')

Omg that's amazing!!

^^^^^^^^^^^^!!!

kicks down door

I have no particular reason to be here but here I am. Also who made those videos?? I really want to check them out instead of doing homework

I wish my parents would just fuck off about my internet usage. The thing they're using to control our internet just blocked me from using fucking google docs and I'm so fucking done. I hate it. I just wanna use Notebook and Docs in peace, goddamnit

oof

i
have come to be rude to a particular app
let me present:
wacom desktop center

very much thanks for not detecting that my tablet's plugged in :))))
i just wanted to adjust some settings TwT

it is plugged innnnnn
why wont you let me adjust the settingsssss
;-;

i know that you're still there telling my pc what to do with the pen inputs
so why wont you tell me that the tablet's plugged in