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Started November 14, 2019 by Deleted user

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oh gawd it’s like we all have the same ideals

_{so I’m about to sound super childish, but because of this, you guys are also extremely petrified of rape, right?}

… I'll just say that no offense was taken and move on with my life.

Uh… I'm not sure if I have a vent or not at this point in time. I think it's just a bit of a bad mood so I guess I'll just chill out a bit until it passes.

_{so I’m about to sound super childish, but because of this, you guys are also extremely petrified of rape, right?}

_{i am}

_{so I’m about to sound super childish, but because of this, you guys are also extremely petrified of rape, right?}

_{i am}

_{ok but like, i’ve only met one other person who is afraid of it like I am. like, that’s absolutely nuts}

_{it’s so scary to me and i just———-}

so I’m about to sound super childish, but because of this, you guys are also extremely petrified of rape, right?

I'm petrified of rape. It's a very_traumatizingscary thing to think about.

I wouldn't go as far as saying petrified in my case, but yeah.

Yeah obviously, but not *petrified. I'm more scared of being kidnapped, tortured, murdered, stuff like that. But I think it's because we're all women. I'm like, 90% sure that a significant part of us being scared of men is because we're females

I mean I’m pretty like, terrified to the point where I’m thinking about it too much.

it’s a problem without a reason

I'm not afraid of men.
Have there been times when a specific man has made me scared?
Yes.
But I have no problem with men.

I mean I’m pretty like, terrified to the point where I’m thinking about it too much.

it’s a problem without a reason

Your reason (I'm guessing) is rape culture, and probably some other stuff that I don't know about or can't think of

I'm not afraid of men.
Have there been times when a specific man has made me scared?
Yes.
But I have no problem with men.

Men on the street scare me. Men I know though, don't. Except those times when I'm panicking that they could do something to me and no one would believe and I wouldn't be able to stop it

Is Shuri still taking a break or did she change her username. I can’t find her.

I mean I’m pretty like, terrified to the point where I’m thinking about it too much.

it’s a problem without a reason

Your reason (I'm guessing) is rape culture, and probably some other stuff that I don't know about or can't think of

Most likely, but I haven’t gone through anything traumatic. I mean when I was younger, one of the first videos I watched on my own on Youtube was like, this fictionalized video of a woman being chased down and raped. It might sound like I’m lying but I remember it extremely clearly, and it was a while ago. I still remember my thoughts on it and just everything.

Idk it might be that. I spend a lot of time thinking about why I’m so scared the way I am, but literally nothing else has threatened me to the point where I’d be logically scared of it.

Is Shuri still taking a break or did she change her username. I can’t find her.

They changed their user, and they may still be taking a break.
Their current user is @Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

Is Shuri still taking a break or did she change her username. I can’t find her.

They changed their user, and they may still be taking a break.
Their current user is @Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

Thanks

I mean I’m pretty like, terrified to the point where I’m thinking about it too much.

it’s a problem without a reason

Your reason (I'm guessing) is rape culture, and probably some other stuff that I don't know about or can't think of

Most likely, but I haven’t gone through anything traumatic. I mean when I was younger, one of the first videos I watched on my own on Youtube was like, this fictionalized video of a woman being chased down and raped. It might sound like I’m lying but I remember it extremely clearly, and it was a while ago. I still remember my thoughts on it and just everything.

Idk it might be that. I spend a lot of time thinking about why I’m so scared the way I am, but literally nothing else has threatened me to the point where I’d be logically scared of it.

I listen to a lot of true crime stuff which is where a lot of my fears come from, and my friend was raped by her ex boyfriend. Plus my parents have a general tendency to not believe what I say. I'm also very small and generally nonthreatening which is kinda scary

Rape culture is definitely a bigger issue than people (read: most men and conservatives) think.

I mean I’m pretty like, terrified to the point where I’m thinking about it too much.

it’s a problem without a reason

_{I know this is a bit weird to say but this actually brightened my day a little, knowing I’m not completely alone-}

I mean I’m pretty like, terrified to the point where I’m thinking about it too much.

it’s a problem without a reason

Your reason (I'm guessing) is rape culture, and probably some other stuff that I don't know about or can't think of

Most likely, but I haven’t gone through anything traumatic. I mean when I was younger, one of the first videos I watched on my own on Youtube was like, this fictionalized video of a woman being chased down and raped. It might sound like I’m lying but I remember it extremely clearly, and it was a while ago. I still remember my thoughts on it and just everything.

Idk it might be that. I spend a lot of time thinking about why I’m so scared the way I am, but literally nothing else has threatened me to the point where I’d be logically scared of it.

I listen to a lot of true crime stuff which is where a lot of my fears come from, and my friend was raped by her ex boyfriend. Plus my parents have a general tendency to not believe what I say. I'm also very small and generally nonthreatening which is kinda scary

oof the whole reason I started working out was to feel better about going out without being scared lol
My parents have that same tendency, and considering how courts and stuff handle rape, then thinking how I’ll be after, it’s terrifying

Not to diminish your point, Lizzie, but I think you're pretty intimidating.

Not to diminish your point, Lizzie, but I think you're pretty intimidating.

Awwww clearly you have never seen me in all my 5'3 105 lb glory

Not to diminish your point, Lizzie, but I think you're pretty intimidating.

Awwww clearly you have never seen me in all my 5'3 105 lb glory

My dude, one of my friends is 4'10" and I'm pretty sure she could knock me out if she wanted to

Not to diminish your point, Lizzie, but I think you're pretty intimidating.

Awwww clearly you have never seen me in all my 5'3 105 lb glory

My dude, one of my friends is 4'10" and I'm pretty sure she could knock me out if she wanted to

I don't have enough muscle to hold my arms above my head for more than maybe thirty seconds but I appreciate the sentiment

Is Shuri still taking a break or did she change her username. I can’t find her.

*He’s still here, we’ve talked a bit in some group DMs, he was actually online today
He’s just done with the general forums, something about “not wanting to be a burden to the site” (which is absolutely ridiculous because he was never a burden, he’s a loved and valued member of the community, yet no matter how many times I explain that he refuses to listen-)

and he did change his username a few times, I believe it’s currently along the lines of Shuri-The-Floofy-Doggo

Feels like the only one who doesn't feel that

Same, Nie