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Okay. Um…
So he has a girlfriend and I still like him.
I've known this for…about a month, maybe longer.
I've invited him to my birthday party on Nov 10th and I said we'd be bowling and having dinner with three people (including him), my brother, and my father. Note that we're all in the same D&D group, and I get to introduce some of the players to our DM (who's my crush…)
Anyways, he smiles his goofy/competitive smile and says, "Bowling? Neat," which I respond with, "Oh, I am so gonna destroy you!" And then we talk about bowling, a little about Star Wars (which I don't really follow, sorry!), and a bit of Marvel and DC.
I've been making complaints around him hinting that I want a new (durable) sketchbook because the one I have has duct tape for a spine.
He also says that I'm a good artist…which I disagree, but…eh. He's impressed by my drawings of all of our group's characters.
Almost everyday I walk home with him, leaving me to walk the 1.2 miles to my home (or walk back to the school to be picked up by parents. He lives near the school, I don't-I'm supposed to ride a bus,) even getting me to be almost missing and cops were almost involved before I came home after walking for 45 minutes.
We talk often when we see each other, we have SO MUCH in common, and he makes me so giddy! Like I was giddy for an entire week because of him instead of me being my normal b!tchy self!
He also did this thing where, at Homecoming, he said we could go as friends, when he had a girlfriend (he ended up not being able to go.)
He also is AMAZING at taekwondo (-he kept making me think he was going to kill me…a way of flirting?) and he's in marching band, boy scouts, and (though he doesn't look like it at first) is pretty athletic and fun to be around.
The fact that he's autistic, has ADHD, and has OCD doesn't really bother me-I don't see it in him, having had friends with and without ADHD who are weird but nice.
He listens to me (and I'm chatty-known for just talking to myself.)
He makes me feel like I'm worthwhile, and once, when he was mad, didn't take it out on me.
If I say I put myself down from my art/writing/reading/etc. skills, he calls BS on me, and he makes me feel better of myself.
We both are roleplayers, readers, writers, and artists…
I don't know what to do.
And he might see this because I sent him a link to one of my roleplays for no reason, so J, if you do, god…I'm sorry!

Deleted user

Okay. Um…
So he has a girlfriend and I still like him.
I've known this for…about a month, maybe longer.
I've invited him to my birthday party on Nov 10th and I said we'd be bowling and having dinner with three people (including him), my brother, and my father. Note that we're all in the same D&D group, and I get to introduce some of the players to our DM (who's my crush…)
Anyways, he smiles his goofy/competitive smile and says, "Bowling? Neat," which I respond with, "Oh, I am so gonna destroy you!" And then we talk about bowling, a little about Star Wars (which I don't really follow, sorry!), and a bit of Marvel and DC.
I've been making complaints around him hinting that I want a new (durable) sketchbook because the one I have has duct tape for a spine.
He also says that I'm a good artist…which I disagree, but…eh. He's impressed by my drawings of all of our group's characters.
Almost everyday I walk home with him, leaving me to walk the 1.2 miles to my home (or walk back to the school to be picked up by parents. He lives near the school, I don't-I'm supposed to ride a bus,) even getting me to be almost missing and cops were almost involved before I came home after walking for 45 minutes.
We talk often when we see each other, we have SO MUCH in common, and he makes me so giddy! Like I was giddy for an entire week because of him instead of me being my normal b!tchy self!
He also did this thing where, at Homecoming, he said we could go as friends, when he had a girlfriend (he ended up not being able to go.)
He also is AMAZING at taekwondo (-he kept making me think he was going to kill me…a way of flirting?) and he's in marching band, boy scouts, and (though he doesn't look like it at first) is pretty athletic and fun to be around.
The fact that he's autistic, has ADHD, and has OCD doesn't really bother me-I don't see it in him, having had friends with and without ADHD who are weird but nice.
He listens to me (and I'm chatty-known for just talking to myself.)
He makes me feel like I'm worthwhile, and once, when he was mad, didn't take it out on me.
If I say I put myself down from my art/writing/reading/etc. skills, he calls BS on me, and he makes me feel better of myself.
We both are roleplayers, readers, writers, and artists…
I don't know what to do.
And he might see this because I sent him a link to one of my roleplays for no reason, so J, if you do, god…I'm sorry!

i hope it all goes well for you, i kindof know how you feel, i fell for a similar type of guy

@hollow-boned

goddammit somebody kiss me

I,,, feel this on every level. It'd be even better if the "somebody" was the guy I like…

ok valid
yknow when mitski said 'somebody kiss me, im going crazy' she knew what she was doing

@Elder-God-Whisper work

goddammit somebody kiss me

Ok, I have a BF, but I think he wouldn't mind, because this seems like an emergency. Also, he can't complain 'cause he's Poly.

kisses you lightly

@hollow-boned

goddammit somebody kiss me

Ok, I have a BF, but I think he wouldn't mind, because this seems like an emergency. Also, he can't complain 'cause he's Poly.

kisses you lightly

i think u might be too small but thank you for the gesture

@soupnana group

Spoke to him a couple times yesterday during rehearsal! Just basically me throwing compliments at him but I can't help it especially when he learned to sword-fight just for one scene in the play.

@Rainy_is_back

So… It turns out that the kid I like is dating the younger sister of the guy I used to like for seven years…

This is why I don't leave my house.

Aw I'm sorry

@Rainy_is_back

The guy I like, he's so cute. He is so talented too, I just- ACK!!! He's so sweet. He has a lot of friends, but isn't super popular so he isn't a snob. He's so great! Ahhhhh!!! Okay I'm done sorry.

@Hey_Its_Snowy_And_Im_Generally_Confused

9 times out of 10 it’s extremely obvious when I like someone and my friend can guess immediately, but I’ve been super subtle this year and all my friends just assumes I don’t like anyone
it really sucks bc he only kinda talks to me since his crush is my best friend :(