(i talked about the fact that i used notebook with my parents kind of casually. i just kind of wanted them to trust me with this so i immediately told them about it.) maybe just tell her that a friend of yours talked about some weird chat to you and you wanted to check it out……yh maybe not i give shit advice sry
I solved my problems. I bought a burner phone without her knowing, and I use her Wi-Fi and I bought my own service. It should work for now
Okay then….. that's a little extreme….
Not with my mother. She prayed to God that he would blow up my PlayStation and she's already thrown our tablets off the balcony. She thinks that anything I do online, or me playing games is satanic. There's nothing anyone can do to fix this…
Okay what the heck? And I thought my mom was over the top….
Hey, I have a little over a year left before I ship off for college. I can hold out until then. But then again, she's also threatened to throw me out of the house. Ehh. I could get a way to Alaska, go live with Elias, or just tough it out.
Uhm…….
You can always come live with me in ontario….
I do have a passport. And I do have access to a plane. I'll keep that in mind if she decides to disown me.
Dang… my dad's a pastor and he's not that bad…
My mom is an entirely different person. Recently, I've been on a rebellious streak, where I just won't do chores. She says something's wrong with me, I'm not motivated, and it's ungodly. She's like you need to go to therapy. I don't know what's wrong with you. But I do know something's wrong with you. Flash forward to the therapist, I went, and the therapist literally questions me and is like, you're fine, you're just a teenager, but you are very smart. I nod and I was like I knew I was completely normal. Then I told the therapist about my mom, and she was like let me talk to her. So the therapist talks to my mom and suggests therapy for her, and she blows up in the therapist's face. So now she believes that the therapist was stupid, and needs a second opinion on me, when in reality, she's the one who needs therapy, not me.
…………maybe do your chores?
holy cow thats alot
…………maybe do your chores?
That sounds like a good idea…. like actually…
Yeah but normal people don't send their kids to a therapist for not doing them so it's really not Winter's fault
Well not entirely, but doing them would solve the problem at least for now
But that's clearly not the only problem. The mother needs help simple as that
I'm not denying that, I'm just saying that doing chores doesn't hurt anyone
It would help appease her mother, and help stop things from getting worse for her, that's why.
I do my chores! I've just been slacking because I have too much of them! Normal teenagers are told to clean their room, sweep the floor, maybe do laundry or the dishes. I do all of that. But my mom makes me clean the tub with a toothbrush. Like on my hands and knees, scrubbing it. I cook, I clean, I fix, I do everything and more. She just puts too much on me. Like my normal Saturday is getting up at 8, making and eating breakfast until 9:30, getting dressed and ready by 10, start cleaning the dishes and running the dishwasher until 11:30, then I sweep, vacuum, and steam mop the floors until 1, then I make lunch for everyone, until 2, then I go clean the entire bathroom until 3:30, which consists of scrubbing the tub, floor, sink, and toilet. Then I go upstairs, and sweep, vacuum, and steam mop the floor, until 4:30, and then I clean the entire bathroom up there until 5:30, and then I go back downstairs and make dinner until 7, and then I wash the dishes again from throughout the day until 8, and then I clean my room until 9:30, get a shower and ready for bed at 10:30, and then maybe I'll read or watch tv until 11:30 or 12, and then I just crash, and then get up at 7:30 the next morning to get ready for church, because I play in the band, and I have to be there at 9… I'm just overworked…
So um well then
Maybe tell her that it's too much? Although it seems like that wouldn't do much good, considering, well…
hugs winter im sorry dear
My dad is on my side though. I just have to hold out for another year…
I just have to get away, and I'm trying so hard…
i wish i could do something to help you
Ehh. It's been my life for the past 7 years. I just have to muscle through it for one more. I'll be fine in the long run. As a matter of fact, it's taught me things not to do, that I will hopefully pass down to my kids. So instead of like I don't know, turning into a pity story, I'm going to make the most out of it so I have one heck of a story to tell my kids one day.