I'm gonna punch your dad
That's literally awful and I'm literally furious enough that I can't put it into words other than I'm going to hit him. Actually no maybe punching him wouldn't work, I have the upper body strength of a blade of grass. I'll kick him in the knees with my Hockey Player LegsTM.
Hi yes I would like to join in the destruction.
Just gonna remind you that you’re valid as fuck, Swim, sorry that your dad decided to be an ass :/
hey swim your dad can actually? fall down the stairs with his hands in his pockets
if you guys want i can hire someone to alter his life in miniscule ways until it slowly drives him insane. i know some people
or i can point you towards supply points for things such as diseased rats and/or black widow spiders to put in his underwear drawer 👀
i fucking love you swim and it hurts me SO much to see someone that provides you with life and is obligated to tolerate you disrespect your identity and shit on you like that. i'm not one to wish death on anybody but i'm just saying i wouldn't be distressed if he were to suddenly, say, catch syphilis
forgot to add that you're so fucking valid
.i can feel your validity from across the atlantic my dude
Thanks you guys ;w;
Really, it was silly of me to think it could have been different than it was
It’s not silly of you Swim, you just wanted to be accepted.
There’s a lot of ways he could have been more accepting and more accommodating for you and I’m sorry he wasn’t willing to do that
Well, he did the same thing with my brother when he came out as gay, and his views still haven't changed on that. I just… I expected too much.
No no, they just failed. You expected just enough, you should be holding them to the standard of acceptance of their children. That's what good parents do. And they're not good parents. You didn't expect to much, they failed to meet the bare minimum of being decent people. Of course getting your hopes up can be dangerous, but keep holding them to the standard of decency. That'll help you understand that when they don't meet it, it's on them. Not you.
Listen, even if anything is "just a phase" (not that it is) there's no reason to not support your children unless there are dangerous issues with it. A phase is a part of life, and if it does pass it will still be a part of you that they rejected.
That said, they should respect your decision even if they don't agree with it. It's not that hard to do the bare minimum of not saying mean shit and respecting people's name and body choices. It's all on them, not you, because they can't have the basic decency to be respectful of you.
Oh, trust me, I'm used to them failing me by now. Even they admit that most everyone in my life does or did. Honestly, yeah, it's fucked me up in the head pretty bad, but I can handle it just like I have everyone else that has.
I'm sorry it didn't go well :( It was incredibly brave of you to be able to come out to him
Also I volunteer to join the destruction crew
I know it's no replacement for supportive family, but we are definitely here for you, Swim. I'm glad you were able to get it off your chest at least.
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I just had the most awkward Thanksgiving ever :l
It was just silent and my mom just kept trying to talk, but it was weird and stuff and I never knew what to say so I was just like "uh-huh.." and "yup…" and halfway through my sister ditched me for like half an hour to "use the bathroom"
:l
Very awkward.
Ha and then my dad just came and gave us a stern talking to yelled because I didn't say anything at dinner and didn't eat a lot. Well sorry if I dislike food. Sorry if I don't know what to say. SORRY if I despise getting my picture taken because I hate the way I look in them. Goddamnit I hate family-related holidays.
That sounds really shitty I'm sorry, man I'm glad I only have to see my family once a year, maybe twice if someone gets marries or dies
Also I got invisilines today and restrict me from my 2 main anxious habits but they gave me these like rubber tubes that are supposed to help set the trays in place and I've been chewing on it for like 2 hours its just so nice
My friend came out as bi to their friend group and it went well and I'm so frickin proud of themmm
Are you a Freddie Mercury Gay, David Bowie Gay, or Indigo Girls Gay? I need this for… science.
Indigo Girls all the way. Joking and Least Complicated have the most homosexual vibes that I’ve ever heard, and quite frankly I don’t see why more people don’t appreciate their gay majesty.
Just felt like crying for no reason, then forgot why
Freddie Mercury and David Bowie were both bicons with like opposite energy (in my mind) and I'm here for it
I'm a Freddie Mercury (I think but I'm pan so idk)
I'm a Freddie Mercury Bi lmao
ALSO TomboyX had 25% off (and still does until tomorrow) so I went ahead and bought a compression top (basically binder lite)
N I C E
I went to the mall w/ my sister all day today. We spent 90% of our time in GameStop and Hot Topic. Didn't even buy anything lol
Oh you couldn't have paid me to go out today lmao
I did a little online shopping, managed to find a Christmas gift for one of my roommates.
I’m a… oh my god by g-idle kinda gay