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@Pickles group

She came up behind me and put her chin on my head and her elbows on the back of my chair before band and I was a puddle for the rest of class I'm fucking pathetic I hate it so much

@HouseBryel

She came up behind me and put her chin on my head and her elbows on the back of my chair before band and I was a puddle for the rest of class I'm fucking pathetic I hate it so much

aww thats adorable

@HouseBryel

So I've had a crush on this one dude for a while now, and we are kind of good friends. I feel comfortable around him, and we sometimes hangout and he's so adorable. But, lately, I've been hanging out with one of his friends and have started to catch feeling for him. Now, I'm stuck between the two of them and don't know who I like more. They are both really funny and I love hanging out with them. I mean but its not like either of them like me as more than friends anyways so I'm just here. :/

@larcenistarsonist group

Okay but I think I have feelingsssssssssss

He's in my Honors Geo and Teen Living (it's like the intro to culinary arts class) and he's really sweet and dorky and really smart and we're partners for all of our cooking stuff and we had to stay half an hour after school together yesterday to finish our chocolate lava cookies and AAAAAAAAAA

@CharlesJ02

I remember I had a crush on this really cute girl. She was aesthetically pleasing, very cute. Dark red hair, her smile just made my day everytime. She told me she was bi. She had dated a girl online, and she was devastated after their break-up. I wished I had told her then, but by the time I wanted to tell her, she got a boyfriend online. I'd be lying if I say I don't still have a crush on her. I rarely see her nowadays, but her laugh makes the entire room seem brighter. She's easily excited about her passions. She's good at standing up for herself, which I admire so much.

@furetakunai ac_unit

Most "crushes" I've had were more platonic ones (squishes) than anything. Like, I just really wanted to be their friend. Never happened, but that's whatever. Though occasionally I would get the feeling of "I kinda wanna kiss that person", which is weird because kissing feels gross to me usually, and I often don't even know the person's name.
But like, yeah, I usually get platonic crushes rather than romantic ones. Still waiting for a platonic crush to work out for me. More for the sake of those who talk to me rather than myself. Because apparently not having friends is tragic.

Though currently I do have platonic crush on someone, doubt this one's gonna work out either, but hey, it's something. But like, they seem really nice and like a genuinely good person. They're more talented than they give themself credit for and they need to see that. Despite me meaning little-to-nothing to them, I really just want them to be happy and see their own self-worth. I want badly to make them smile the way that they do for me and for them to consider me a friend and not just a good acquaintance. And right now askfgbdul is the only way I could properly describe my feelings for them in one word.

That and they're on this site so I don't know how much I can say without it being a dead giveaway… if it isn't already.

@Relsey-TheElder

I think the best thing to ever happen to me concerning my love life was when I had a conversation. The premise of it was
(The following is the general Idea from a conversation between two 16 year olds)

Look, we're in high school, We're teenagers with wack emotions. Crushes will happen, Dating happens, Romance all that Jazz goes on and it's pretty normal for people our age. But I think a lot of people our age get really wrapped up in that, they picture themselves with the Disney movie ending. They think they've found true love, they're so busy being committed to and feeding a relationship they forget to feed themselves. They forget that they're just 16. We have so much learning and growing to do and sometimes you do find someone to grow with and that's great for them but finding that fit is unlikely.
We need to let ourselves grow and be independent from people, we need to learn how to exist and rely on ourselves before we can exist and rely on another person. I know I'm not there yet. For me a high school relationship would be stupid.

And My Idiot self had this conversation and developed a Crush on the guy, Such is life. But in all seriousness, a lot of you guy's are young, really young. You don't know how to be you yet much less be you with another person. You haven't learned how to set boundaries or what healthy boundaries are. Go on Dates, have crushes, Have Fun. But remember that you aren't all they way you yet, you have a lot of growing to do, so that Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Partner/ Crush can't be your priority, you need to be. You need to know how to keep you safe and healthy before you can worry about a Significant Other.
So yes I have a crush on the Guy that I had that conversation with, and actually he liked me to, I don't know if he feels that way still and I'm not going to ask. That would accomplish nothing, I know I don't have room in my life for Romance. I have to think about School and getting into College and getting a Job and learning how to be an adult. I don't know how to be me yet, and I think if there is a Man for me out there he'll appreciate me figuring my self out first before getting into a relationship.

@CharlesJ02

she sounds like an amazing person

and hoping things work out for you!

two or so years ago i told her I liked her, so of course rejected my feelings. We agreed to stay friends, but it took my heart a while to register what my mind already knew. She's amazing though, and I'm glad we didn't get into a relationship. I'm glad she's happy.

@larcenistarsonist group

Ajjashjahaka

So our classroom is just a bunch of rectangle tables with two chairs to each. I sit in the front and my crush sits in the seat behind me. Today he walked in late and somebody had sat in his spot and turned the chair around so they could talk to the person who sat behind him. He just looked at me like "really?" and I just shrugged and started laughing. He started laughing too and just sat in the spot next to where he usually sits.

I don't even know why but this small and stupid interaction has me smiling like an idiot under my mask

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Okkkkaaay, ‘tis my first time on this forum, and I’m not 100% sure it’s my wisest move to share this with y’all, but I was never one with very much wit so…

All-day today my best friend (the one I have a crush on) was singing ”For the Dancing and the Dreaming.”
We’ve only heard that song twice before, once while watching *How to Train Your Dragon 2, and the other time we looked it up because we liked it.

Anyway, I don’t know how it happened, but we're on our way home when we begin to dance about like idiots, singing the above-mentioned song and doing the Celtic dance that goes along with it.
Thankfully, we were on an old abandoned road, so I don’t’ think anyone saw, but it was just so thrilling! So I don't think I would have cared if people did see us.
It’s also quite annoying because I don’t know if he likes me.
He hides his feelings really well so, I don't know if he was messing around just being himself, and I was melting into this puddle of…and I was just hmm…

I’m not one for dwelling on things like this, thinking it's something more than it really is. It's just who he is, happy-go-lucky and always having a good time… (Ugh, I keep telling myself this but I won't listen!)
We've been friends since we were 6, we're 17 now! So, I've had a crush on him for a long, long, long, while.
I’m not pursuing him or anything, I’m just waiting patiently, waiting for him to see I’m always going to be there for him, and I’m willing to wait for him to be ready…

Just thought I’d share it with y’all. XD

@ElderGod-Winter-The-Renegade-Legionnaire book

Okkkkaaay, ‘tis my first time on this forum, and I’m not 100% sure it’s my wisest move to share this with y’all, but I was never one with very much wit so…

All-day today my best friend (the one I have a crush on) was singing ”For the Dancing and the Dreaming.”
We’ve only heard that song twice before, once while watching *How to Train Your Dragon 2, and the other time we looked it up because we liked it.

Anyway, I don’t know how it happened, but we're on our way home when we begin to dance about like idiots, singing the above-mentioned song and doing the Celtic dance that goes along with it.
Thankfully, we were on an old abandoned road, so I don’t’ think anyone saw, but it was just so thrilling! So I don't think I would have cared if people did see us.
It’s also quite annoying because I don’t know if he likes me.
He hides his feelings really well so, I don't know if he was messing around just being himself, and I was melting into this puddle of…and I was just hmm…

I’m not one for dwelling on things like this, thinking it's something more than it really is. It's just who he is, happy-go-lucky and always having a good time… (Ugh, I keep telling myself this but I won't listen!)
We've been friends since we were 6, we're 17 now! So, I've had a crush on him for a long, long, long, while.
I’m not pursuing him or anything, I’m just waiting patiently, waiting for him to see I’m always going to be there for him, and I’m willing to wait for him to be ready…

Just thought I’d share it with y’all. XD

SWEET JESUS THAT'S MINE AND ELIAS' SONG. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. But I do hope that he finally sees it the way you do. Best friends make the best lovers. They know you have faults and they have already accepted them. I should know… I'm marrying my best friend in a few years, and he's a total goofball.

Deleted user

SWEET JESUS THAT'S MINE AND ELIAS' SONG. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. But I do hope that he finally sees it the way you do. Best friends make the best lovers. They know you have faults and they have already accepted them. I should know… I'm marrying my best friend in a few years, and he's a total goofball.

Awww, that awesome Winter! Congratulations! I wish you love and happiness in the coming years!
Yes, best friends do seem to make the best couples, I just hope it's the same with us…I'm trying to gain enough courage to tell him, but I have no idea how to approach the subject without being awkward. XD

Deleted user

I would tell you who my crush is, but she's no longer my crush any more because……. she's my girlfriend now😁