Ella, think about the future you. Because if you start this habit of self harm now it will fallow you, Scars are permanent, Habits are hard to break and easy to fall back into. You are a smart cookie, I need you to use your head and think logically, does hurting yourself logically solve anything. No the answer is no, it wont solve the problem it will only maybe take your mind off of it for a while, but then every time you look at what you did to yourself you'll be reminded of the problem and it becomes a cycle. Save your self from future regret. Emotions are movable, emotions may be telling you one thing but when it comes to this you need to push those aside and think logically, Because if you look at the facts and the logic they will tell you that this is not the path you want to take.
(I sorry if I sound very harsh I love you and want you to be safe ok)
hi! okay maybe I know you and maybe I don't but
listen I'm not the greatest at this but
it's h a r d
life is hard and it's harder when you don't have access the help you want or need
your emotions are valid and how you feel is valid.
it might not be better for a while. but it does somehow get there. life is weird like that, somehow managing to work out in the end
I'm sorry that your parents make you feel like that. you don't have to be happy all the time. heck, no one here expects that from you cuz no one is happy all the time. but feel free to come here whenever you want and vent really quick or something
Ella, I wish I could be more inspirational than I am, but I need to try. PLEASE. DON'T.
You don't have to always be happy. It's okay, even natural, to be sad. i sound like inside out But YOU CAN'T HURT YOURSELF.
There are people who care about you, even if you don't think so. We care.
Life is hard. And even though it doesn't seem like it, it will get better eventually.
You'll never be able to see it if you die.
Just…don't.
sorry that i can't be inspirational
thank you guys <3<3<3
do i explain or do i not…
So, uhm. I keep getting messages about the military.
I never even thought about joining due to my family situation.
But yet, they ( The U.S. Government ) sent a letter asking if I would like to join for the sake of the country.
I may not like trump, nor do I support his decisions, but if I must join then I will.
I guess you can say this is an advice rant?
send help ;~;
is that even a thing that happens???
i-
ngl after several things that have happened to me
i'm very hesitant to believe things like that
i thought you had to enlist???
So, uhm. I keep getting messages about the military.
I never even thought about joining due to my family situation.
But yet, they ( The U.S. Government ) sent a letter asking if I would like to join for the sake of the country.
I may not like trump, nor do I support his decisions, but if I must join then I will.
I guess you can say this is an advice rant?
send help ;~;
1) Trump banned transgender people from the military
2) The draft no longer exists, and so you can just….not join?
thank you jyn,
i didn't know that
It sounds like an ad. It's just a mailer, they aren't drafting you lol.
If you're a guy you have to sign up when you turn 18 so if we go to war and need more troops, you get drafted. But our military is huge. You're fine.
If you're a guy you have to sign up when you turn 18 so if we go to war and need more troops, you get drafted. But our military is huge. You're fine.
And iirc the draft hasn't been used since Vietnam
3) You’re too fucking young at 17
4) They will not make you join. Drafting is also illegal in this country if war is not imminent (I’m pretty sure).
So, uhm. I keep getting messages about the military.
I never even thought about joining due to my family situation.
But yet, they ( The U.S. Government ) sent a letter asking if I would like to join for the sake of the country.
I may not like trump, nor do I support his decisions, but if I must join then I will.
I guess you can say this is an advice rant?
send help ;~;
1) Trump banned transgender people from the military
2) The draft no longer exists, and so you can just….not join?
That makes more sense, hence why I was so confused. I just figured say it because well my parents were no help on the matter.
do i explain or do i not…
I am ~curious~, Ella dear
So, uhm. I keep getting messages about the military.
I never even thought about joining due to my family situation.
But yet, they ( The U.S. Government ) sent a letter asking if I would like to join for the sake of the country.
I may not like trump, nor do I support his decisions, but if I must join then I will.
I guess you can say this is an advice rant?
send help ;~;
1) Trump banned transgender people from the military
2) The draft no longer exists, and so you can just….not join?
That makes more sense, hence why I was so confused. I just figured say it because well my parents were no help on the matter.
Your parents don't know about the military ban??? Or the draft not fucking existing at the time? Or the difference between an ad and being drafted??
do i explain or do i not…
I am ~curious~, Ella dear
wait what
i missed that
i'd like to know please el
I didn't know it was an ad.
My parents don't know about me being trans.
Like I said, I never really did much thinking let alone wanting to be in the military.
If I had more knowledge about all of that, then maybe I wouldn't have been so confused.
I didn't know it was an ad.
My parents don't know about me being trans.
Like I said, I never really did much thinking let alone wanting to be in the military.
If I had more knowledge about all of that, then maybe I wouldn't have been so confused.
Then as far as they know, you wouldn't be drafted anyways. As far as they know, you're female. Girls didn't and don't get drafted
I just wanted advice on it. >~>
You know, there's this nifty thing called Google that could've solved that. You may have heard of it.
You know, there's this nifty thing called Google that could've solved that. You may have heard of it.
In fact, you may have even used it to find this site! Crazy how far the world has come.
I just wanted advice on it. >~>
You wanted advice on whether you should join an organization that you know nothing about, have no interest in joining, and legally cannot join? Seems like a fairly easy decision to me :/
Welp, issue resolved I suppose.
Ew I had to do actual work yesterday
It was like sitting in a business meeting but it was still kinda fun ig
But at least now we have a game plan for setting up our nonprofit-
sing to the tune of mary had a little lamb
this thing make me want to die, want to die, want to die
this thing makes me want to die, it's stressing me out
i don't actually wanna die i'm just really stressed
i really hate this silver award right now
to the tune of days like this from falsettos it's days like this, i almost want to quit girl scouts
we need 50 hours of working on it. everyone else is already at 50 hours
but because i am a lazy, useless member of the group who never does anything, i don't have 50 hours
so now i need to do everything because i need more hours
AND IT'S REALLY STRESSING ME OUT EVEN THOUGH THIS SHOULDN'T BE THIS STRESSFUL FBSFGJSBJSBDKHS
"hey let's look and see how many hours i am at, i shouldn't need that much more"
i'm at 35.5 hours
I NEED OVER 15 MORE DUCKING HOURS
HOW AM I GOING TO GET 15 MORE HOURS
I HATE THIS
i honestly don't really like girl scouts anymore but i'm not allowed to quit
