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Started April 21, 2018 by @Tylerrr-M-P

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The fucking phantom notifications on this chat will kill me, I swear to God-

bet y'all didn't know i was the actual king of romance

I KID YOU NOT I DO THIS LIKE ALMOST EVERY TIME MY SIGNIFICANT OTHER SAYS THEY LOVE ME OR COMPLIMENTS ME

So my friend thinks I'm gay, and he recently came out as trans, so I jokingly said I loved him and he goes
"…that's straight"
and I died laughing

cis-het-allo people don't have anything on the level of combined irony and genuine appreciation us queers achieve on a daily basis with bs like this and that's that

Facts

cis-het-allo people don't have anything on the level of combined irony and genuine appreciation us queers achieve on a daily basis with bs like this and that's that

So this is great. Now more drama.

Sorry , I'm having a meh week. Due to what I just read. from past responses.

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Sorry if I'm confusing.

Oh no someone doesn't want to get back together with you whatever will you do.

Idc if they do or don't. Honestly, I'm semi over all this shit.

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Definitely sounds like it.

So, Ig on a positive note , me being trans was a phase after this whole pandemic. Finding out girls are so much better than guys sometimes. And that I now prefer girls more.

I just remembered something really obscure-
there was an lgbt book that came out in like
december of 2018 or 2019 and i can't remember what it was called but I remember I was like "oh man I'll hopefully check it out when it comes out" but I don't remember what it was-

What was it about?

I'm having strong feelings. Not dysphoria exactly but adjacent. My new perfume came in the mail today and while I'm super happy excited about it my brain is like nO you're a MAN you gotta do MAN things. Not that I know what man things are I'm just. Being.

I don't even remember anything about it besides wanting to check it out
I probably did read it and I just don't remember

I'm having strong feelings. Not dysphoria exactly but adjacent. My new perfume came in the mail today and while I'm super happy excited about it my brain is like nO you're a MAN you gotta do MAN things. Not that I know what man things are I'm just. Being.

Listen my guy, if cis men can do feminine things and still be men, then trans men can do feminine things and still be men. You get to define what masculinity is to you. If that involves perfume, that's great, personally I think everyone should smell good. Smelling good is a gender neutral fad.

Fad??? Please smell good and have good hygiene even when it's no longer trendy

Yeah I do take good care of my personal hygiene, don't worry.

Wait was that too much information because if so I'm sorry.

Unpopular opinion: Men who smell like flowers/roses, fresh baked pastries, vanilla, chocolate, and the like are so much more “manly” and attractive than guys who smell like sandalwood, gun ranges, and crippling alcoholism