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Started January 17, 2019 by @The-N-U-T-Cracker

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hey gang
The Dude and I are trying to out-heart emoji each other

Conversation with my mum. _{In french}

Me: hey mum, I’ve made an appointment with the school therapist for next Monday.
Her:ok……….
Me and her doing a lot of talking about what would be my objectives in the 8 sessions of counselling I’m getting and at one point ending with this:
Mum: you know, when i was your age we didn’t have much options like therapy so what we would do was we would listen to music that our parents didn’t approve of, or wear clothes that they didn’t like, or stuff like that, and in the end we didn’t really talk to anyone about our feelings because we were already expressing our emotions in rebellious ways !

So this may sound a little exaggerated, but its in total what she said. So i now assume that my mum is suggesting i dig my emotions into a deep hole and go through an emo phase.
This is terrifyingly funny to me.

As the daughter of a foreigner as well lol I relate

It could be she's kind of shaming you for what you're doing, which is wrong
But it also could be that she's being serious and simply telling you about her childhood.

As the daughter of a foreigner as well lol I relate

It could be she's kind of shaming you for what you're doing, which is wrong
But it also could be that she's being serious and simply telling you about her childhood.

Yh I think you're right, she probably just want to explain how she felt at my age, and it's not like I'm going to start thinking differently anyway, but still……..an interesting childhood my mother had….. We actually also talked about my sexuality yesterday, and it was great to finally know her opinion, untill she brought it up today saying how she doesn't feel like anyone would particularly want to go out with someone who would be attracted to BoTh BoYS aNd GIrls. I swear I had to hold down a laugh at that point

As the daughter of a foreigner as well lol I relate

It could be she's kind of shaming you for what you're doing, which is wrong
But it also could be that she's being serious and simply telling you about her childhood.

Yh I think you're right, she probably just want to explain how she felt at my age, and it's not like I'm going to start thinking differently anyway, but still……..an interesting childhood my mother had….. We actually also talked about my sexuality yesterday, and it was great to finally know her opinion, untill she brought it up today saying how she doesn't feel like anyone would particularly want to go out with someone who would be attracted to BoTh BoYS aNd GIrls. I swear I had to hold down a laugh at that point

OH MY GOSH ARE WE THE SAME PERSON???
I'm closeted to my mom, but I'm bi and just the other day she said something similar about it lol

_{i feel like everyone is mad at me…}

I'm certainly not mad at you ruby.
But I totally get how that feels.

_{that sounds sarcastic}

It's very not-sarcastic.

I definitely relate. It definitely sucks and i don't know how to fix it because saying "I'm not ignoring you" doesn't really help me in that moment (sorry shuri ily I promise)

_{i'm sorry about what i said last night…}

Wym?

_{doesn't matter…}

Okay honey
What about Calani?
Can you turn to her? I'm sure she still cares

_{turn to her for what???}

I don't hate you, Ruby!

_{thanks sy aha}

_{turn to her for what???}

Emotional support

_{for what?! i'm not following…}

For emotional support.
She seems like someone who's good to go to when you're facing extreme anxiety or depression

….

Ruby
What're you thinking?

Seems we need some cheering up!

Ruby, text me <3

She's derealizing Mir