someone help me im literally so awkward. Like there's people I want to befriend and when they show interest in befriending me as well I don't know what to say. Like I complimented one of my friends' art and then they tell me u too send me ur art. Like what do i sayyyyy.
someone help me im literally so awkward. Like there's people I want to befriend and when they show interest in befriending me as well I don't know what to say. Like I complimented one of my friends' art and then they tell me u too send me ur art. Like what do i sayyyyy.
Just be yourself; easy as that.
I'm pretending to have a problem with a side character in a campaign I'm in. Why, you may ask?
That NPC has no business being that beautiful.
He's too fucking hot.
He needs to die.
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/671520481832337408/718984285260087326/2f25ac375618d084ecc5fa610718ff33.png.
LOOK
NO MAN HAS ANY EXCUSE BEING THAT PRETTY, FICTIONAL OR NO
I'M GAY AND I'M SUFFERING
OMG He's HOT…..
(This is from the old thread, and Also I've been off for two weeks someone give me an update on what I've missed.)
When you're laughing along to something funny and you're genuinely happy while simultaneously dreading being alive and you're genuinely distressed and you wonder how that's humanly possible but then you remember Schrodinger's Cat applies to a lot of things but that's not a satisfying enough answer to the complex emotional process we go through so you type out this vent as some sort of comfort and you say you're typing it out in the vent just to add a meta flair. Haha mood.
you ever just finish a really good game and you’re not sure what to do afterwards?
that’s me.
that’s me after finishing death stranding
When you're laughing along to something funny and you're genuinely happy while simultaneously dreading being alive and you're genuinely distressed and you wonder how that's humanly possible but then you remember Schrodinger's Cat applies to a lot of things but that's not a satisfying enough answer to the complex emotional process we go through so you type out this vent as some sort of comfort and you say you're typing it out in the vent just to add a meta flair. Haha mood.
Haha definitely never felt that before-
yeah don't know that feeling at all heheh
The youtubers are monetized again :DDDDD
When you're laughing along to something funny and you're genuinely happy while simultaneously dreading being alive and you're genuinely distressed and you wonder how that's humanly possible but then you remember Schrodinger's Cat applies to a lot of things but that's not a satisfying enough answer to the complex emotional process we go through so you type out this vent as some sort of comfort and you say you're typing it out in the vent just to add a meta flair. Haha mood.
Haha definitely never felt that before-
Schrodinger's Satisfaction: So Confusing It Brought The Cat Back
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i forgot about the topic
i told a friend i would ask about therapy (because we had a smol discussion) and first-time-experiences since because of a not-so-great (it wasn't terrible, just not ideal) experience with a therapist in the past, i still get kinda nervous at the idea of maybe going to one
and ig maybe it would help but
like
ella, what was your experiences like, if you even got therapy. even just the getting meds part or whatever, idk
just
i wanna know how it all played out
hi i have something i NEED to get off my chest and every other platform i use is too linked to my irl persona. tw for sexual assault i guess and sex stuff in general. this is a messed up story
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a couple years ago i owed my dad a lot of money and i felt like i was in really dire straits. i vented on my tumblr about how financially stressed i was and i got a strange message from a blank account saying they were someone who “wanted to help me.” i almost blocked them on the spot, but i prodded for answers a little, and they told me they’d give me $100 if i sent them some nudes. i didn’t feel like i was in a position to say no, so i did, no face in them or anything, and sure enough i got $100. but he started coercing me into more and more explicit stuff and would only pay me a good amount when i sent him videos with my face in them. as much as that terrified me, i felt like i needed the money, and i went with it. i got more and more uncomfortable with it, but i went with it. the whole time, i thought this person was a woman (that’s what they told me to throw me off their scent), but about a year ago, i found out it was a guy from my high school, who’d had a crush on me since eighth grade and whose advances i had always been EXTREMELY uncomfortable with, who i was repulsed at having him see me that way. i forgot he had followed my tumblr. i felt physically sick and deeply unsafe. but when he confessed it to me i just told him i was relieved it was him and not a stranger because i was TERRIFIED he’d leak my pics and videos if i got upset. he still messages me and i’m still scared to piss him off to any degree. every time he does i want to die. i feel so weak because everyone on my instagram is sharing their stories as sexual assault survivors and i can’t share mine because 1. it’s really not real sexual assault and 2. i’m too weak and scared. sorry if this makes no sense i’m a little drunk i’m just. UGH. i already feel so empty my mental health is already slipping and i don’t know how much longer i can afford my zoloft and i just feel worthless and i don’t know how to make myself feel again
I have no clue what to say about that…. If you can backtrack and get the evidence of this, do it. Go after his sick butt. After that report and block him.
I have no clue what to say about that…. If you can backtrack and get the evidence of this, do it. Go after his sick butt. After that report and block him.
i have a minor amount of evidence (i deleted most of it so nobody else would find it), but i don’t want it to be more public than it needs to be. if my parents found out about this, i don’t think they’d ever see me the same way again, and we’re finally starting to get along the past few years
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and i really can’t emphasize enough how degrading the acts that he made me do in the videos were. i don’t want another soul in the world to see them, not even a lawyer or a judge or whatever
oh my god i'm so sorry about that charlotte
big hugs @ fren
(thank you izzy you’re so sweet <3)
Your main concern is that he will leak footage if you start saying no correct?
Take everything I'm about to say with a grain of salt I am no legal expert, I just research some random laws in my free time for Book writing purposes. Below is a link to the California laws and that is what I will be what I type up on but you'll have to check what they are for your state do your research first, always do your research first.
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https://www.shouselaw.com/revenge-porn.html That is very very illegal, even more so if he leaks stuff from several years ago when you were a minor, just having those he can get in serious trouble, that's universal. Child Pornography is illegal every where, and you as a minor were technically counted as a child, therefore if he still has the early stuff, he is in big trouble. If he leaks any of it, that is evidence to be used in a case. Now I understand you probably don't want to pursue this in court, if you were the person who felt safe and secure doing so, I probably wouldn't be typing this out. My suggestion, honestly, blackmail. As much as I hate to say it, as much leverage as he has over you, you have over him. If you intend to get out of this, it will be a power struggle, and a giant game of chicken. If you back down you're stuck, if he backs down you're out. If neither of you back down and he posts, you can pursue him legally. If he still has stuff from when you were 17, I am unsure of the specifics but I don't think you'll have to pursue him much, I'm almost positive that is automatic jail time. I could be wrong, educate your self before you do anything. Please do not do anything with out first educating yourself.
And as always, I am so sorry that you are in this situation. It is a scary thing and your fear and lack of action is completely valid. You are Valid. I hope things get better, The Law surrounding things like this are not as public knowledge as they should be and it is disgusting what a lot of people end up getting away with.
Do not blame yourself for this. You were young and impressionable and vulnerable, and once your in you're in. If you are going to blame anyone, blame him for being a creep and preying on someone.
And as always, I am so sorry that you are in this situation. It is a scary thing and your fear and lack of action is completely valid. You are Valid. I hope things get better, The Law surrounding things like this are not as public knowledge as they should be and it is disgusting what a lot of people end up getting away with.
Do not blame yourself for this. You were young and impressionable and vulnerable, and once your in you're in. If you are going to blame anyone, blame him for being a creep and preying on someone.
thank you for the resources and for the support <3 if it comes to a point where i do decide it’s best to cut him off entirely, i’ll take all of that into consideration. i live in pennsylvania but i think the laws are similar here. it’s just so hard right now to even picture myself in a mental space where i could take action beyond sitting quietly and de-escalating
If I ever meet that man I'm going to kick his ass to Tuesday :))
If I ever meet that man I'm going to kick his ass to Tuesday :))
I'll do one better and kick his ass to Wednesday
ooh ooh if we're beating people up can i join? i got stabbiesss