My misophonia's biggest trigger is a baby crying. It's so horrifying to me. I can start panicking. Plane rides with screaming babies are really bad. Like I'm not mad at the parent or baby, the parent is doing their best and babies cry. I get that. But it just makes me want to run away.
Oi, @Divine-Irish-Potato, do you avoid all criticism this way?
That would certainly explain the quality of your writing.
I literally just noticed this and have no idea what you're talking about. Explain
Oi, @Divine-Irish-Potato, do you avoid all criticism this way?
That would certainly explain the quality of your writing.I literally just noticed this and have no idea what you're talking about. Explain
:/
I am, as of right now, rewriting the entirety of my books. I'm doing it on paper and then when i get an actual computer to work on, I will rewrite it there.
I'm sorry if it seems like I avoid criticism. I don't, i just prefer positive, constructive criticism over just telling me what's wrong without telling me whats good.
Oi, @Divine-Irish-Potato, do you avoid all criticism this way?
That would certainly explain the quality of your writing.
Also @DoctorOfTheDead, I would prefer if you didn't insult people just because of their writing skills, I'm only an amateur writer, okay?
fjhffgh my man i am pretty damn sure that's not jyn's only problem with you, but also. what kind of site are we on again?
on a site like this you're gonna get comments on your writing and no, you aren't going to like all of them. no one does.
@crocs-to-a-knife-fight i know that… But I prefer constructive comments rather than destructive comments mate
what kind of site are we on again?
You shouldnt be mean to people because they're beginners and you're a professional, you should help others without being rude or destructively criticizing them
what kind of site are we on again?
We're on a site where we help people become better writers
Waitwaitwait.
I'm confused.
Saying 'hey, put a spoiler tag on this, it's triggering to some people' is a destructive comment?
Same with 'Here are some tips to improve your writing, try to not use x word, it changes how the reader interprets it'
And also 'This isn't what people would do, try changing this'
Oi, @Divine-Irish-Potato, do you avoid all criticism this way?
That would certainly explain the quality of your writing.Also @DoctorOfTheDead, I would prefer if you didn't insult people judt because of their writing skills, I'm only an amateur writer, okay?
And that's just off the top of my head, so yeah, people don't like you. You have to do research if you're going to write something like that, ESPECIALLY if you're going to share it. Or just use common fucking sense because it's really fucking obvious that you don't pressure a friend into talking about a traumatic experience and they certainly would not tell it like that. It's disgusting. Get off your ass and stop being a lazy, vaguely misogynistic writer and do your research about subjects you don't know shit about. You cannot bullshit your way through a sensitive subject like that, and you certainly cannot play the victim card when people say it was very uncomfortable.
y'know what
Pickles said it better
ignore me
Dont put words into my mouth. I fixed the spoiler thing, and I'm currently fixing the rest, okay? I don't feel like getting into a fighting. This site is the one place where i dont get judged, but instead get actual good advice.
alright, first of all hon, no one here is anywhere near a professional. but some of us have been writing for a lot longer than you have, meaning we have advice to give that you actually might appreciate
as for the destructive comments thing, no one was leaving those. all anyone here is saying is that you should have tagged it as spoilers, or at least left a tw, and that you wrote it in a way that isn't accurate to actual survivors
This site is the one place where i dont get judged, but instead get actual good advice.
Really?
Because that contradicts everything else you've said
Oi, @Divine-Irish-Potato, do you avoid all criticism this way?
That would certainly explain the quality of your writing.Also @DoctorOfTheDead, I would prefer if you didn't insult people judt because of their writing skills, I'm only an amateur writer, okay?
- you described a character having a boner in a roleplay with a nine year old. She's. Fucking. Nine.
- you're annoying and rude as fuck
- your sexual assault scene was absolutely terrible, clearly you have no understanding of how any of that works, "panties" has an awful connotation and is very uncomfortable, and you refused to spoiler tag it, despite knowing it's a triggering subject and being asked to several times
And that's just off the top of my head, so yeah, people don't like you. You have to do research if you're going to write something like that, ESPECIALLY if you're going to share it. Or just use common fucking sense because it's really fucking obvious that you don't pressure a friend into talking about a traumatic experience and they certainly would not tell it like that. It's disgusting. Get off your ass and stop being a lazy, vaguely misogynistic writer and do your research about subjects you don't know shit about. You cannot bullshit your way through a sensitive subject like that, and you certainly cannot play the victim card when people say it was very uncomfortable.
You know what? You're right. You're absolutely right. I will change myself and my writing and improve myself. Thank you for being blunt about it.
I was wrong in the past, But i will improve myself and be a better user and a better person.
yeah…improving yourself and your writing is kind of the point of life and a writing site…
is kind of the point of life
That hit kinda hard and I think it's just a me thing but thank you
Now I wanna try and be a better person
I'm gonna go for a run later or something
@Pickles-EmpressOfKangarooRatsAndAceSnail If there's anything else you want to address, please do
This is probably the most mature respectful argument I’ve seen here-???
of course that’s not saying much considering the thread we’re in
This is probably the most mature respectful argument I’ve seen here-???
of course that’s not saying much considering the thread we’re in
Ain't that a fact
is kind of the point of life
That hit kinda hard and I think it's just a me thing but thank you
Now I wanna try and be a better person
I'm gonna go for a run later or something
you gotta take pretty nature photos to commemorate it tho. then you also have photos you can look back on when you aren't doing great mentally and vibe to