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Started April 21, 2018 by @Tylerrr-M-P

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I can't see that picture 😅

I think we all need this. :(

me over here afraid that being in quarantine for the rest of the school year will make me accidentally come out to my mother.

me over here afraid that being in quarantine for the rest of the school year will make me accidentally come out to my mother.

Sits down Well tell me all about it.

me over here afraid that being in quarantine for the rest of the school year will make me accidentally come out to my mother.

Sits down Well tell me all about how this is going to go down.

I can't see that picture 😅

It’s the “sending virtual hug” gif <3

So, conservative christian mother. Not sure how she'd take it and for like 2 years now I have been pansexual and just recently I became nb, but yep, still afraid to tell her.

So, conservative christian mother. Not sure how she'd take it and for like 2 years now I have been pansexual and just recently I became nb, but yep, still afraid to tell her.

nice This is the best thing ever.

So, I've been following this chat for a while and I guess I should probably introduce myself.
Hi, I'm ShyDark_Angel. (You can call me Angel)
I was born female, but you can call me male or female names(dude, bro, girlie, sister, etc.), she/her, he/him or just they/them.
In all honesty, I don't know what my sexual orientation is, but I think I'm straight and possibly ace.
(I do like some girls a lot, but that's more of a best friend or hero worship situation.)

I like girls a lot

Nice

Hey, I have a question, y'all.

If a forehead ends at the hairline, where does a bald person's forehead end?

0.0 That's a good question…

never
it's all forehead
source: dad is bald

I need a hug. I want to cry. I feel bad for venting, because then I make the other person feel like crap :)

I know I’m late but hugs

Sometimes an afternoon when you're supposed to be working is watching 42nd street and starting to choreograph and come up with a 42nd street medly

Hey, I have a question, y'all.

If a forehead ends at the hairline, where does a bald person's forehead end?

it's all forehead.

yeah

me over here afraid that being in quarantine for the rest of the school year will make me accidentally come out to my mother.

That's such a mood. I'm doing a whole project on the LGBT community and healthcare, and honestly I'm surprised she hasn't noticed the subtle gay all over my school stuff (a pin on my bookbag that says "y'all means all" in rainbow letters, rainbow stickers all over my laptop). Plus, actually sitting in my room talking about bisexuality in a class discussion because we've been talking about gender and sexuality in sociology. I'm out to everyone except my family basically.

I'm out to my family, they just keep denying it… they tell me I "can't know for sure" like???
Sorry mom, I want to kiss girls. I've kissed a girl and it was pretty awesome??

Yeah… my mom acts like you can't know until you're older. Like my fiance's family has a lot of LGBT members. They are bi and gender-neutral/something under the nb umbrella that they don't care to label, but my mom doesn't know this. And then their siblings are an nb lesbian and a trans boy. My mom just happened to see a pic of them at our city's pride and asked, "are they gay? How can they know at that age?!" And 1. They are both in high school, 2. You knew you were straight when you were young
Also I haven't even bothered telling her that the older of the two siblings is trans because I know she'll still misgender him and also press me with questions. Some days I feel like just dumping all of my "scandalous" secrets on her at once and watching her face.

Some days I feel like just dumping all of my "scandalous" secrets on her at once and watching her face.

That sounds like it would be hilarious! 😂

Just word it exactly like this:
"Mom, I have something to tell you. I'm a liberal and I won't vote for Trump just because that's what you want. I'm not Christian anymore and haven't been for years. Also I'm a big bisexual."

Mine would go like…
"Mom, I've kissed boys, that wasn't for me. I kissed girls, that is the good kush, my man. All my girl friends you've met I've dated and/or kissed, and I snuck a girl into my room for weeks last year without you noticing at all. Remember that church you made us go to? The one you loved? I kissed a girl in the bathroom there, and I haven't been a Christian for the past two years. Suck it."

Some days I feel like just dumping all of my "scandalous" secrets on her at once and watching her face.

That sounds like it would be hilarious! 😂

Oof, felt that. I hate that quarantine had to happen now, I'd just come out to some of my friends and realized a lot of them are ace too.