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Started April 21, 2018 by @Tylerrr-M-P

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I don't think it's good for either of us…

Yeah, that's probably a good idea. You don't want to jump the gun, but also fighting so early on in a relationship isn't a great sign.

My previous relationships used to last 6 months at least…
But these last two…
Only a bit over one month…

Maybe you should take a break from dating? You are still young, and if you're stressed it might be better for you to surround yourself with friends instead of worrying about a relationship. It's your choice, but that's what I suggest… I said the same thing to somebody else recently who's been having similar issues.

Mm. I was actually thinking of quitting dating for a while…

But you're younger than me, Jensen…

I'm sorry…
You deserve a long-lasting, loving, and healthy relationship. You'll find what you're looking for eventually, even if it takes some not-so-good or short-lived relationships along the way. I agree with @SaltyAppleTea™ on taking a break from dating if you think it's a good idea. You work, and you've already got a lot on your plate, so maybe it's needed. Definitely don't put pressure on yourself to have an SO if that's an issue. Let things happen as naturally as possible. Sometimes good things happen when you aren't actively searching.

I'm aware of all that, honestly…
Like I said I was thinking about it…
We'll just have to see how it goes, for now!

Yeah. Best of luck to you, Shuri. We all care about you a lot!

I care about you guys too…
We'll see how this next week goes!

I never said I was older than you lol. But I consider myself young, and you're only 2 years older than me, so I consider you young too

You're all so amazing!
Live long and prosper!

I never said I was older than you lol. But I consider myself young, and you're only 2 years older than me, so I consider you young too

That makes sense. If ypu ever need anything I'm open…

Hi. I'm new to this chat, and it looks like a great supportive space! I'm a gay girl! I prefer using gay rather than lesbian, so sorry the way I introduced myself sounds weird!

Hi! Nice to meet you!

Welcome to this chat, buddy.

Welcome… I'm Shuri… If you ever need any help, seek me out and I'll try to help ypu as best I can…

Hey! I was so glad to find that Notebook.ai was an accepting place! I was a little timid whem I found it, but it seems very supportive!

Oh yeah, like everyone on notebook is some flavor of gay

I'm ultra-geeky-spicy gay lol

I'm ultra-geeky-spicy gay lol

That's the best kind!

I'm the anxiety-ridden, selective mute gay

Also the best kind!

I'm sorry! I can't relate to the mute part, but I have been diagnosed with G.A.D.. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here.

I’m the overly sensitive, sad gay!
Welcome to the chat 💕💕💕

I'm the anxious and depressed tsundere gay