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Started April 02, 2019 by Deleted user

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Riveting.

Okay I’m not sure if anybody will be able to answer this one but
How do you write non binary sex? I’ve actually never seen it written before, and since I actually have a sexually active non binary main character I thought maybe I could try it

Okay I’m not sure if anybody will be able to answer this one but
How do you write non binary sex? I’ve actually never seen it written before, and since I actually have a sexually active non binary main character I thought maybe I could try it

it's literally the same as cis sex, but the nb person might not want certain areas to be touched because of disphoria, and they might prefer to be top if they're afab

unfortunately hollow-boned is right, biology is biology at that point so the sex is going to be pretty much the same as cis sex. I guess I would focus more on the emotional aspects for them though, especially if their personality/disphoria makes it hard for them to come to terms with their body shape/reactions to arousal and the like.

if that makes sense

yeah agreed

I too agree since body dysphoria is the shit today. Also, another question because I keep asking these: I find myself more interested in reading or writing sexual encounters rather than watching or experiencing them. I would totally have sex with someone if I was in a long term, serious relationship with them and that's what they wanted, heck, I'd probably even initiate some encounters! But I prefer reading and writing smut because my goblin author brain says so and just likes words more than…. you know. Is this wrong or is it perfectly normal or what? I'm currently looking this up to see if it's a thing that I'd rather read it write nsfw than engage in it and that I don't really get turned on by stuff like that. But that I still would have sex. I'm pretty sure this is just wordsy demisexuality but you never know.

Update: I haven't found anything yet but I did find a list of names for certain kinks. I'm reading it all and planning to tell every author of every fanfiction ever that there's a word for the sex in front of mirrors kink cuz tbh I see way too much of that. It's not inherently bad just common. And honestly I just want to tell all fanfic authors there's a name for the kinks they write, and list them. Because I'm a smartass. Should I? (I'm doing it no matter what but my praise starved brain is just fishing for approval tbh.)

Update–the sequel: Lust murder: sexual arousal through committing murder. That's a thing. Help. Why does this exist?

Bojack Horseman has taught me much

apparently it adds to the high. and if you eat a lime it'll make it better. It's called autoerotic asphyxiation if you hang yourself while jackin' it.

never tried it

just watched bojack horseman

Spectrophilia: sexual attraction to ghosts. So… I'm gonna admit to having wrote this. I write shit about ghosts and murder and polyamory and all that, is it so strange? But yeah a character of mine gets a phantom blowjob. Should you question it? Yes. Will you? No.

Somnophilia: sexual arousal from sleeping or unconscious people. So…. wet dream pampering? I could see myself writing some consensual somnophilia sort of writing.

I don't know. I just like writing kinky stuff.

Bojack Horseman has taught me much

apparently it adds to the high. and if you eat a lime it'll make it better. It's called autoerotic asphyxiation if you hang yourself while jackin' it.

never tried it

just watched bojack horseman

I've never seen the show. Is it any good?

yummy blowjob from a ghost.

sorry lmao

It's not that weird compared to stuff I've written in other sex scenes. Ever heard of Plushophilia or Pyrophilia? I nearly kill a character with one of these, and the other they just get walked in on. And then it becomes a threeesome. I'll let you decide which it is. Also: dick maggots. All I'll say because the context is even worse.

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I'm fairness the threesome was just the third partner in the poly group hearing stuff get busy upstairs, decided that paperwork could stuff it, and went to relax and have some fun. So it's all cool.

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B'3 (that's my attempt at text emojis: smug face edition.)

Call me a sicko if you want but you can't say you're not at least somewhat intrigued or I'll fite you.

idek know what to think but I don't think i'm intrigued

cus mate you're talking to an asexual

so no

I'm not intrigued lol

Most of this shit is either because I have sicko friends, I'm a sicko, and I'm a sicko that can write, and they can't, or because I write fanfiction. The second one honestly makes more sense because in the fandoms I'm in, as long as it's somewhat sane anything passes.

so you're calling yourself a sicko

idek know what to think but I don't think i'm intrigued

cus mate you're talking to an asexual

so no

I'm not intrigued lol

Not sexually. I'm not implying that. or even.Outright saying it. And it doesn't have to be intriguing in a good way, ya know? I'm just saying that so far everyone I've met has been terrified but wanted to read at least some of it. Because I know a lot of weirdos but that's besides the point.

so you're calling yourself a sicko

I am. Problem?

You know I should probably just shut up now. You probably think I'm really weird now and i don't want to give that impression. I just write weird stuff and draw weird stuff because it helps me get those thoughts out of my head. I've tried to suppress shit, talk to people about it, but nothing works except writing all the darkness my brain can make up.

idek know what to think but I don't think i'm intrigued

cus mate you're talking to an asexual

so no

I'm not intrigued lol

Not sexually. I'm not implying that. or even.Outright saying it. And it doesn't have to be intriguing in a good way, ya know? I'm just saying that so far everyone I've met has been terrified but wanted to read at least some of it. Because I know a lot of weirdos but that's besides the point.

Okay but that makes me uncomfortable to even think about

like honey

calm the fuck down

You know I should probably just shut up now. You probably think I'm really weird now and i don't want to give that impression. I just write weird stuff and draw weird stuff because it helps me get those thoughts out of my head. I've tried to suppress shit, talk to people about it, but nothing works except writing all the darkness my brain can make up.

mate I already think that because everyone on this dang site is weird. I just… don't know what to think anymore. honestly about anything.