forum Let's Talk The Birds & The Bees >>> (Mature Rating - For Authors Serious About Sensitive Scenes)

Started April 02, 2019 by Deleted user

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I honestly thought someone came in with an awkward question and I had to mentally prepare myself, JYN.
CHRIST

I have a question I'm just awkward asking things

It's cool. Take your time. :)

So if two guys were doing it, how would that work if there was a substantial height difference?

Victor and Henry?

Well– I mean it's not like it wouldn't work, just may be a little awkward to find a position that both are comfortable with and works for them. Unless the smaller is the more–ahem–assertive one of the relationship, then it would get a little Kama Sutra-y if you catch my drift.

Yes
Yeah, the shorter one is the more assertive one.

Of course. lol
Tiny but Mighty

Ah well, like I said before–It certainly still works, just the positions are a little more creative.
Are you looking for me to give you some positions? XD

Hmmm haven't posted one of these in a while

This is beautiful

Also I'd just like to recommend Jenna Moreci's 'How To Write A Sex Scene' video because it's very informative and fucking hilarious.

XD good lord

How does one safely handle the subject of r*pe without offending anyone? I won't include explicit descriptions, but I want to show how the character deals with the trauma and how PTSD from that might affect them?

R E S E A R C H

But remember that everyone's experience is different, they way they handle trauma is different, so they way you write it won't necessarily be right or wrong. Your character has to maintain their personality through it all, so really focus on how they would react and don't worry about how the rest of the world is going to perceive it.

i'd say ask someone who you know who might've gone through assault and other stuff like that
helps if they're a writer

I wouldn't do that. ^^

People don't necessarily want to talk about their trauma, especially if you are just going to use it for research instead of helping them heal. That can be seen as cold and callous

Seconded. Honestly, I wouldn’t bring up rape at all. Maybe insinuate it, but definitely not to the point where you’re describing their trauma because so many women go through experiences like that. Even if they haven’t, it’s still scary for many, many women.

I wouldn't do that. ^^

People don't necessarily want to talk about their trauma, especially if you are just going to use it for research instead of helping them heal. That can be seen as cold and callous

no, of course, it would be done with respect, and only do it if the friend offered to help
i have a friend who said she'll help anyone with ptsd flashbacks bc she experiences them and she wants them to be shown properly

Seconded. Honestly, I wouldn’t bring up rape at all. Maybe insinuate it, but definitely not to the point where you’re describing their trauma because so many women go through experiences like that. Even if they haven’t, it’s still scary for many, many women.

yeah dont describe it

Okay, this is a really wierd question, but, do females have a release? Im a newbie…

Okay, this is a really wierd question, but, do females have a release? Im a newbie…

Do you mean an orgasm? Or do you mean something else?

Yes, i mean that… >////<

Yes, i mean that… >////<

No need to be shy. You did ask after all.

And to answer your original question, yes, of course, females have orgasms. Why wouldn't they?

And to answer your original question, yes, of course, females have orgasms. Why wouldn't they?
Well, I was always confused about it.

I don't think you should be writing this kind of scene. You seem really young and inexperienced.

I have several questions.

How? Like, what would be so confusing about it?
How old are you? Or alternatively, what is your level of Sex Education?