Yeah, probably shouldn't have said that. I just needed to scream all the random shit I've been thinking. I promise, I'm better irl. I sound like I'm lying, and you can think of it that way. But I suppose I maybe needed to? I can't talk to very many people about this stuff and I can't even mention it here because then everything will all go wrong but I suppose it did and now we have this stupid conversation where I just confessed I use a lot of gore and obscure things in my writing and now I guess I'm Satan's child. And I'm saying this wrong. I'm saying I'm sorry for infodumping about my interest in gore. And that I'm sorry that I had to make you uncomfortable. And that I really don't want you to think of me as a terrible person. It's just I've been dealing with a lot of shit and then that all slipped out and I hurt you. So I'm sorry.
Noooo Sparky don't apologize, you can like what you want to write. I'm just saying I think it's just a little too much (because I'm literally 1% of the population), but I'm not saying others won't like it. I'm not accusing you of doing anything wrong. I'm just trying to control you and that's bad, I made you feel bad annnnddd I'm the one at fault. Sorry love.
No, no! Really, it's bad I hurt you. But if it helps I'm not into any of the stuff I write except for characters with squishy bellies and squishy belly kisses– I like characters who are more floofy, I guess, I'm just not as attracted to skinny people. They're pretty, sure, but I like big fluffy bear hugs, even just platonically I like fluff and poof because cuteness uwu. Sorry.
Nah you didn't hurt me at all, not even make me uncomfortable, just kind of bamboozled me I guess. It's just hard to wrap my mind around lol. Also skinny and squishy people 100000000000% all the way.
And you're not at fault at all. I'm not meaning to offend anyone here. Off you're ace, you're valid and I'm sorry, if you're just uncomfortable then shit, I messed up, and if both I feel really sorry that I did that. Really, really sorry. So….. can we just ignore this, pretend this was just a totally normal, not grimdark gory discussion where I fucked up the site, and change the subject?
Nah you didn't hurt me at all, not even make me uncomfortable, just kind of bamboozled me I guess. It's just hard to wrap my mind around lol. Also skinny and squishy people 100000000000% all the way.
Amiright? All body types are cute! Why doesn't the media are this?
ALL BODY TYPES ARE BEAUTIFUL bodies are nice to look at from an artist POV so nice
Seriously tho can we get more chubby models? Everyone I see in popular media is just,,,, twigs,,,, like,,,, from a nursing standpoint,,,, are you okay baby? Cuz you're too skinny to be healthy. That's why I like the song Far Bottomed Girls by Queen because sure, it may have had some weird lyrics and mildly spoopy undertones, but it really helped with body positivity. Fact is, Freddie Mercury was gay. He wasn't attracted to women, fat bottomed or not. And then he wrote that. And suicides, death by diet, and general body hate started to go away quite rapidly! Yasss, Queen, can I get a wahoo?
yessssss freddieeeee yesssss also I'm pretty sure Brian May wrote that song not Freddie, know your Queen honey boo. I love Queen so much the remaining members are such angels <3
Oh, my bro told me Queen wrote that one. I'll look it up.
five seconds later oh, so it was! Still, cool song.
it was Queen who produced it, but their guitar player Brian May wrote it.
I know, thanks! Also, you know how Queen had slightly funky teeth? Well, those actually helped him with his vocal range. Sure, a little buck-toothed look in but it's probably why he had such a good range. He went to see a dentist and was told that he had no promises that it wouldn't affect his singing so he never fixed them. At least, so I've heard, but I could be wrong. Still, it's cool.
Bruh Queen is the band name. Freddie Mercury is the lead singer with the funky teeth and false vocal chords, Brian May is the guitarist, Roger Taylor is the drum boi, and John Deacy was the bassist.
anyway
My friend told me Freddie's teeth was a big part of it, but it was also because he had a really good control over his false vocal chords, which only trained professionals can do.
I'd think it's both. But tbh most people just call Freddie "Queen" as far as I know.
Edit: I'm not in the "fandom" then. I don't know shit about music. But literally everyone I know calls Freddie "Queen" so I'm an idiot. Sorry. What's your favorite song?
My favorite song's probably Innuendo.
I like Don't Stop Me Now the best, it's just so peppy and got a nice beat.
How did this get so off topic
Also from what sparky said way earlier, it might not be relevant now but I want to say this (and it goes for everybody)
Please don’t try to label yourself as asexual if you’re under 18. It’s perfectly normal not to have sexual feelings or to not want casual sex when you’re underage. If you’re not old enough to consent, you’re not old enough to determine that you will never develop sexual attraction. Just because others have developed sexual feelings at your age doesn’t mean you’re abnormal for not being at that stage yet.
Also, wanting a long term relationship before having sex is perfectly normal. Even for adults. You don’t need a label for it, it’s just a personal preference.
(Okay, but it's perfectly healthy and normal to try on different labels to see how they feel. That's like saying to a lesbian you don't know you don't want to have sex with a guy until you've tried it. Like, not experiencing sexual attraction to either gender doesn't make it any different from knowing that you only experience sexual attraction to the opposite gender, even if you aren't old enough to consent. Just from my experience :)
Lets,,,, not to back,,,, to the previous topic,,,, that was awkward,,,,,
Also I'm not labelling myself as ace, I'm just saying I'm questioning whether or not sex is really that important to me even on the basic level of drive. But! Answer us! Which song by the band Queen do you like the most (if you like the music at all)?
I think we should just open this again for sex-related questions.
I didn’t say you had to try sex to know if you’re asexual. What I mean is you should wait until you’re at the age where you should’ve felt sexual attraction first, and if you’re still comfortable with that label, that’s fine. It’s okay to label yourself as lesbian if you’re attracted to women, and it’s okay to feel sexual attraction in your teen years. But it’s also okay to not feel attraction in your teen years and develop them later. I don’t think it’s right for people to label themselves as abnormal when they haven’t even fully matured.
well that was a roller coaster.
