I’m so sorry to hear that, I know it probably won’t mean much but I hope it all works out. Perhaps there’s another excuse you can use to live with your friend? Does he live closer to all of the places you need to be? Maybe a library you would use or the university itself?
it does make me feel better that u care, thank you.
there isn't any excuse and my parents wanna move to the same city either way so i'm staying here. and i've found a different friend to live with if i have to move out.
hahas depression episode again goddammit can i have one(1) day
hello it is one hour later and i feel like i am melting on the bed will this dumb bitch of a brain give me a break
I’m so sorry to hear that, I know it probably won’t mean much but I hope it all works out. Perhaps there’s another excuse you can use to live with your friend? Does he live closer to all of the places you need to be? Maybe a library you would use or the university itself?
it does make me feel better that u care, thank you.
there isn't any excuse and my parents wanna move to the same city either way so i'm staying here. and i've found a different friend to live with if i have to move out.
Maybe you can say that you want practice living without them? For after college? Since you probably won't be living with them.
hello it is one hour later and i feel like i am melting on the bed will this dumb bitch of a brain give me a break
I’m going through a depression episode as well and I hope yours eases soon xx
I'm wearing colour and I'm not happy
I feel like I need to have like a really casual talk with my bf but I get so stressed opening up serious or even semi-serious conversations where I’m like setting boundaries I guess. And maybe that’s a result of my poor boundary skills and the fact that I have none that I can really pinpoint and define. I just know when it bothers me in the moment and then I forget if I like it or not. Does anyone else sometimes like things in theory but not in practicality? Like in theory, physical affection is fine by me, but then in actuality, I start to doubt whether I do actually like it and it’s sometimes after the fact. Like my bf is always asking “Is this okay? Are you comfortable?” And all that, and I’m like yeah. But then later I look back on it and I’m like you know what I didn’t love that and it’s not that it made me uncomfortable, I just would rather not like I’m just not in the mood. And maybe that has to do with my valuing emotions connection far above physical connection. And maybe also that fact that I live with my mom and she had very set ideas and despite the fact that i think she’s wrong, I deep down worry that maybe she’s right and so then being physical with my SO is a little uncomfortable because it all just feels so forbidden and…wrong. She’s got it in my head that it all has one outcome and it’s doing it and I honest to god do not want that, so I’m just so torn and conflicted and confused. I don’t know what I want, so I think that I shouldn’t do the this that make me feel that way until I know what I’m about. thanks for coming to my ted talk.
Oh honey!! I'm not sure if I entirely understood that, but NOT EVERYTHING ENDS IN SEX! seriously I really hate when people try to tell other people that cause like no?? And if your SO doesn't respect you not wanting to do something then NO THATS NOT OKAY. (Too be clear im not tryna say that they don't respect you, just to everyone in general) This has been a PSA by Pickles, k bye
Oh honey!! I'm not sure if I entirely understood that, but NOT EVERYTHING ENDS IN SEX! seriously I really hate when people try to tell other people that cause like no?? And if your SO doesn't respect you not wanting to do something then NO THATS NOT OKAY. (Too be clear im not tryna say that they don't respect you, just to everyone in general) This has been a PSA by Pickles, k bye
Yeah I feel like it’s not like kissing will also mean sex, but I think at this point it’s be ingrained in me and now I can’t quite shake the feeling. And I also know that my boundaries should be respected and I should respect the boundaries of others, and I intend to talk to my bf.
Anyway, thank you it helps to get an outside opinion sometimes and this was in fact one of those times, so much appreciated. I worry that sounds sarcastic but I promise it’s not.
I’m so sorry to hear that, I know it probably won’t mean much but I hope it all works out. Perhaps there’s another excuse you can use to live with your friend? Does he live closer to all of the places you need to be? Maybe a library you would use or the university itself?
it does make me feel better that u care, thank you.
there isn't any excuse and my parents wanna move to the same city either way so i'm staying here. and i've found a different friend to live with if i have to move out.
Maybe you can say that you want practice living without them? For after college? Since you probably won't be living with them.
when i move out, i won't need an excuse, i'll be 18. but thanks for the advice
hello it is one hour later and i feel like i am melting on the bed will this dumb bitch of a brain give me a break
I’m going through a depression episode as well and I hope yours eases soon xx
when did i write this????? i have a vague memory but other than that i????
So one of my friends who I don’t hang out with that often but I am still kind of close with has recently got a boyfriend and a new friendgroup, and I feel like they have kinda bad influence on her… She doesn’t go to the same school as I do either so we mostly just text sometimes but lately since she started in this new school and started hanging out with all those new people I feel like she has changed a lot in a bad way. My other friend agrees with me on this as well. I don’t want her to get in trouble, but if I tell her that I don’t like her boyfriend and new friends she will probably get offended and stuff… and since I don’t see her that often I don’t really wanna tell her that over text since I then have to take the argue/fight that might come over text as well and I don’t want there to be like any kind of misunderstandings where she gets mad at me because of misunderstanding something that I have written… This girl is great, but she does have a lot of opinions and gets offended really easily so…
Does anyone have any advice for me? I don’t even know if this is the right thread for these kinds of things, but still… anyone? Sorry if it was a bit confusing haha…
Oh my gosh I'm so sorry. A similar thing happened to me last year and I'm the first to admit that I didn't handle it well at all and now we don't ever talk to each other. I honestly don't know what to tell you. I'm bad at advice sorry <3 that sucks
Although my one little thing is don't give up on her. If you guys are good friends, then she should eventually realize that you only want what's best for her. Even if it takes a really long time.
Yeah, hopefully she does… thanks
Sad about your friend, though
Okay, do you ever just wanna pull your hair out you're so stressed? Cuz I have 3(three) big projects due, I have to rewrite my entire pitch to the people who sponsor the club I'm president of cuz my vice president isn't coming so it's just me and our secretary/public relations attendant/awesome lady, my dad is leaving the damn CONTINENT in 31ish hours, and to top it off, I have to hecking BABYSIT and get my brother to the neighbor's house intact without missing my bus.
I'm freaking the fuck out.
I'm sorry. It will be okay. Remember, sometimes it's not bad to skip something or to at least take a second to breathe.
I'm sorry. It will be okay. Remember, sometimes it's not bad to skip something or to at least take a second to breathe.
The problem is I can't because each thing is vital to a grade or a club and I can't let anybody down
Coffee, and take each thing one at a time, in order of due dates and/or importance. You can do it
I'm sorry. It will be okay. Remember, sometimes it's not bad to skip something or to at least take a second to breathe.
The problem is I can't because each thing is vital to a grade or a club and I can't let anybody down
I know the feeling. I have two papers to finish, and an 4 pg essay to write. I missed a test. And who knows what else in french, a class I was barely on top of. All because my mom pulled me out of school for a week.
I'm currently missing soccer practice (my passion) because I can't play because my stupid knee
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