Thank-you Izzy, I really, really appreciate it <3 You're really an awesome person, I'm so lucky to know you. If I decide to share, you'll be the first to know :)
And Ciel, that's really not a nice thing to say. You can't know that for sure, and you might hurt someone talking like that.
(I'm going to take this opportunity to just really quickly remind everyone that this is a judgement and heavy-conflict-between-other-people-on-notebook-during-vents free zone! ^^)
just gonna make sure a certain person sees this
Pot calling kettle black
(I'm going to take this opportunity to just really quickly remind everyone that this is a judgement and heavy-conflict-between-other-people-on-notebook-during-vents free zone! ^^)
just gonna make sure a certain person sees this
Pot calling kettle black
Kettle calling pot black
we both need to work on it. chill.
Again… -_-
SunGod– one need only read through this chat to understand who actually uses it to vent versus who uses it for attention. It's quite obvious. Forgive me for pointing it out and hurting soft feelings.
I'm sorry. :)
Okay, maybe that's true, I'm sure it is in some cases, but to be fair, there's really no reason to try and call people out. It's just better to keep that stuff to yourself. It doesn't help anyone.
aheh
LOL
It really seems one can't honestly vent here then. Oh well.
Oh boy
Can we just not be mean to people here? Whether it's for attention or not, a lot of people, (Myself especially,) just want to be able to rant about our problems, (Whether serious or petty) and maybe get actual advice…
I know myself personally, for a lot of my big issues, (The ones that I've ranted about here) I literally have no other outlet. My mom will read my texts, I don't see my IRL friends long enough to talk, and I don't feel comfortable talking to my parents, (Which is something that needs to change, but we're not gonna go there.)
What I'm trying to say here, is that yes, I admit, I rant here partly for the attention, but mostly for the support. Yes, I know that's petty, but for me personally, just to know that someone in the world has heard me when I have problems feels really really comforting when I don't seem to be heard around my own home.
It's a matter of POV for me, but my own family rarely notices when I'm upset or stressed because I hide it. I hide it mostly because I get negative feedback from my mom most of the time when I have tried to talk or deal with it on my own, ad some of it is probably just me.
But here on this cht, even if it's just me complaining about the fact that I have a shit ton of homework, I hate math, or the ice on the sidewalks, or the fact that the zipper on my new coat just broke,
Here people hear me, they offer advice or sympathy, and sometimes just and, "oof" or a "that sounds rough my dude" or "I wanna fite that (insert person here)" is really helpful, if only to help you feel emotionally supported. Because for me at least, you guys on notebook are really the only ones who see me for me. Everywhere else I have some sort of mask to live up to expectations. So to know that someone can hear me? That's helpful, and it's why I came back here aftewr being almost forced to leave permanently.
(this got a bit long and personal, and in no way is this meant to offend anyone.)
"I wanna fite that (insert person here)"
(myself)
I’m just going to make it very clear that I couldn’t care less if a vent is for attention/feedback or just to scream at a wall
It’s fine either way
"I wanna fite that (insert person here)"
(myself)
(ho bitch flutist)
"I wanna fite that (insert person here)"
(myself)
(ho bitch flutist)
(saaaame. lemme help)
I’m just going to make it very clear that I couldn’t care less if a vent is for attention/feedback or just to scream at a wall
It’s fine either way
Hence why I like this chat.
"I wanna fite that (insert person here)"
(myself)
(ho bitch flutist)
(saaaame. lemme help)
(ugh let’s go and beat them up. They might drop next year so hopefully! cus I really want to go for drum major next year .3.)
oh its MARCHING BAND I THOUGHT YOU WERE TALKING ABOUT CONCERT BAND KICK DEM OUT
our band is both lmao
We just switched to Concert band but near the end of this year I’ll be running for DM
we do both, too, but a bunch of people are just in concert, and for us that's usually where all the not-care-y people are because it's not super expensive, so I just kinda figured you were talking about concert
my vent is that marching band is overrrrr and my wrist hurts from trying to learn winter guard stuff
sobbing on the ground at the mention of the end of marching band
ahhhhh i miss it so much already and it ended two weeks ago
Ours just ended last week and I'm so sad and lonely wait I always am (was joke, not cry for help. I'm okay I promise)
Ciel, I would just like to say that if Ella, THE CHAT OWNER, doesn't have a problem with it, it's fine. If all you want to do on this chat is be a bitch and try to start drama, kindly leave.
._.
in her defense, I’d never said that before, so there was no way she would’ve known. Just saying
Thank-you Izzy, I really, really appreciate it <3 You're really an awesome person, I'm so lucky to know you. If I decide to share, you'll be the first to know :)
Awww you're welcome Sunny! I try to be helpful and offer advice to the best of my limited abilities on this chat, and I totally understand when things are personal, because I'm sure everyone here has at least one personal thing they'd really rather not share at the moment, and that's just fine with me.
You're super awesome too, and I'll take this moment to also remind everyone here:
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