i got packman earings on!!!!!

im a frog!

@Simon-Says

@daughter_of_Diameter you're still adorable, and your pacman earrings are fantastic
@DeadAndGone You're not a frog, you have a really strong face shape and it's beautiful!

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What is happening here and why are frogs brought in the conversation so confused

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What is happening here and why are frogs brought in the conversation so confused

No one believes me when I say they’re pretty

@Nie-Huaisang-is-lost-in-the-stars

The things that some people say just make me want to slap the frickin' daylights out of them. Or worse.

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is it smart to tell my best friend that I'm questioning my gender and if so how do I do it

@Nie-Huaisang-is-lost-in-the-stars

Yes, it is smart. Support is a great thing and it's nice to keep your friends informed. And as to how, I don't know. I'd just bring it up and talk to your friend about it. If you ask me, there's no point in beating around bushes. Just get to the point. But I don't know. Shrugs

@Becfromthedead

If you trust your friend and think they'll be supportive, yes, absolutely.

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If you trust your friend and think they'll be supportive, yes, absolutely.

^^^

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Girls of color are wow

@Simon-Says

Yes

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Hi can I appear back onto this chat with a questionato?

Okay so I’m most likely Bi and not comfortable with investigating that right now, but one thing I am squinting at suspiciously is me possibly being on the spectrum of asexuality?

I always called myself a grey ace which makes sense in my relationship right now.

aaah this is really weird to say and please don’t take it weird

I woke up with a nightmare a couple days ago where essentially my bf was “pushing” the boundaries in which I am comfortable with considering physical/sexual stuff.

It wasn’t bad— of course I woke up right in the middle of it so it could’ve gone anywhere— but I can’t stop thinking about it and I really need to talk to Nate about it, but I’m also incredibly confused and don’t want that to happen in real life.

SO NOW i just want to talk about it because I really want to reintroduce being ace to myself again. I had originally told myself I’m just Bi, for I am comfortable with some stuff, like kissing or whatever. . Then after a month and now that I’m more comfortable in this relationship, things are starting to surface that I hadn’t thought of before. Like being terrified of pushing over my boundaries. Like REALLY intimate stuff. Like… Idk if it’s a phobia or aceness or what but yes

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(It definitely sounds like Bi-Ace but take your time, also tread carefully with the guy. If he did it once he’ll almost definitely do it again. )

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Nononono he didn’t do it

I DREAMED he did

which is scary enough on its own

Nate’s a good guy and deep down somewhere I know he wouldn’t do it, but I’m basically being a bitch pansy and anxious that it might come to that

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Sorry, my bad. I read it wrong o-o. You should definitely talk about it if it makes you anxious though. Honesty is important.

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ok thank

thanks for helping with hashing out my feels lmao

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Anytime

@Bre_is_sick_of_school