God I just can't with young kids. I'm not ever having or adopting small children. I do, however, want to adopt/take in older kids, when I'm in a financially stable enough place to do so
Like don't get me wrong, they're adorable and I love them but holy shit maybe don't headbut your brother or drag him by his shirt when he's already crying and after I told you not to????
Yeah exactly. And for me it's. Also just that I'd be a terrible parent for young children. And I don't want to give birth. And I don't want to change diapers. So. Adopting/fostering older children is what I'm thinking I'll do
My fiancé and I aren't going to have kids. We've decided we'd rather have dogs and cats and guinea pigs, things like that.
Yeah….. I feel like that could be resolved a little better depending on how the kids were raised though. Aggressive behavior in boys always seems to go unchecked because of the whole “boys will be boys” thing.
My fiancé and I aren't going to have kids. We've decided we'd rather have dogs and cats and guinea pigs, things like that.
Fair choice! Honestly, that sounds like a pretty good life.
not to be dramatic but children are gross and i hate them.
My fiancé and I aren't going to have kids. We've decided we'd rather have dogs and cats and guinea pigs, things like that.
Fair choice! Honestly, that sounds like a pretty good life.
Yessssssssss. He thinks so too.
Gah I just want covid to be over so we can get married already -
I'm never having kids. I like babies and younger children in small doses (like, when I see my younger cousins at Christmas and stuff) but sustained interactions? No.
Guinea pigs are needy enough, thank you. I've had three, and I can assure you that even the Lawful Good one was a handful. My current one, Captain, is Chaotic Neutral, and good stars he's a turd sometimes. He tipped his little house on end twice last night so he could get my attention, and he wakes me up in the middle of the night sometimes, and he squeaks at me all the time, and he pees on me sometimes. Granted, he's adorable. He's also considerably less of a handful than my fiancé
My fiancé and I aren't going to have kids. We've decided we'd rather have dogs and cats and guinea pigs, things like that.
Fair choice! Honestly, that sounds like a pretty good life.
Yessssssssss. He thinks so too.
Gah I just want covid to be over so we can get married already -
I wish you a happy wedding, and congratulations!
sits in my corner of lonely
He's also considerably less of a handful than my fiancé
Lmao, I feel this in a personal level.
Apparently Elias and I are on crack…
We want 4 kids…
Apparently Elias and I are on crack…
We want 4 kids…
I support you, I also want kids I just also have witnessed first hand that parenting is just, no sleep and constant vigilance.
If I had kids (which I won’t because fate hated me), I’d only have one or two, preferably two so they don’t get spoiled or lonely, because I want to be able to focused my attention on them better and be involved in their lives.
Apparently Elias and I are on crack…
We want 4 kids…
I support you, I also want kids I just also have witnessed first hand that parenting is just, no sleep and constant vigilance.
That sounds about right….
Apparently Elias and I are on crack…
We want 4 kids…
I support you, I also want kids I just also have witnessed first hand that parenting is just, no sleep and constant vigilance.
That sounds about right….
So basically what I'm hearing is that having kids is very similar to living in Alaska in the dark season. Interesting. I could do that. I used to go full weeks on like 14 hours max.
Apparently Elias and I are on crack…
We want 4 kids…
I support you, I also want kids I just also have witnessed first hand that parenting is just, no sleep and constant vigilance.
That sounds about right….
So basically what I'm hearing is that having kids is very similar to living in Alaska in the dark season. Interesting. I could do that. I used to go full weeks on like 14 hours max.
Ha ha ha. Yeah, I think my insomniac ass would be up for it.
I just want to go on my honeymoon already -
I just want to go on my honeymoon already -
Where have you guys decided to go, if you don’t mind answering?
I just want to go on my honeymoon already -
Where have you guys decided to go, if you don’t mind answering?
We haven't. We're definitely going somewhere far awa-
oh stars our love song just started playing on my Pandora
Apparently Elias and I are on crack…
We want 4 kids…
I support you, I also want kids I just also have witnessed first hand that parenting is just, no sleep and constant vigilance.
That sounds about right….
So basically what I'm hearing is that having kids is very similar to living in Alaska in the dark season. Interesting. I could do that. I used to go full weeks on like 14 hours max.
Ha ha ha. Yeah, I think my insomniac ass would be up for it.
Welcome to the gang! Unending darkness makes it hecka bad but you know what, the bears will keep you vigilant and awake.
Yeah….. I feel like that could be resolved a little better depending on how the kids were raised though. Aggressive behavior in boys always seems to go unchecked because of the whole “boys will be boys” thing.
Even with strict parents boys are more aggresive based on what I know. My strategy is to try and communicate that I'm listening to whatever problem they're dealing with.
I just want to go on my honeymoon already -
Where have you guys decided to go, if you don’t mind answering?
We haven't. We're definitely going somewhere far awa-
oh stars our love song just started playing on my Pandora
Ooooo what is it? Also me and Elias know our honeymoon already. We're gonna buy a big sailboat, and we're gonna try to find the lost colony of Roanoke. (I have theories, shhhhhhh…..) But if you hear of two idiots dying somewhere in the waters off of North Carolina, on a sail boat, it's us, and we lost to the sea.
I just want to go on my honeymoon already -
Where have you guys decided to go, if you don’t mind answering?
We haven't. We're definitely going somewhere far awa-
oh stars our love song just started playing on my Pandora
Lol, awww!
silently cries in the corner
I just want to go on my honeymoon already -
Where have you guys decided to go, if you don’t mind answering?
We haven't. We're definitely going somewhere far awa-
oh stars our love song just started playing on my Pandora
Ooooo what is it? Also me and Elias know our honeymoon already. We're gonna buy a big sailboat, and we're gonna try to find the lost colony of Roanoke. (I have theories, shhhhhhh…..) But if you hear of two idiots dying somewhere in the waters off of North Carolina, on a sail boat, it's us, and we lost to the sea.
Nooooo!!! You were my friend!!! Don’t die!
