forum Your personal venting space.

Started January 17, 2019 by @The-N-U-T-Cracker

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So keep at it.

Keep in mind that stepping back and deciding it's out of your hands doesn't make you a bad friend.

thank you @ moon. i just feel like he's gna be That Friend who goes off the deep end and ends up in the hospital or dead in a ditch somewhere

Maybe you can get him to therapy?

already is in therapy
oh he just told me hasnt been taking his MEDS

Of course you don't want that, and I understand. You get used to it after dealing with an alcoholic for 13 years

Yea, I recommend therapy or talking to him about rehab if he is addicted. But you have to enter yourself into rehab. And if he's not addicted…

so he hasnt taken his meds in a bunch of months and he's WONDERING WHY HE'S FEELING LIKE THIS

Or ask him what's wrong.
Even if you already know what it is

so he hasnt taken his meds in a bunch of months and he's WONDERING WHY HE'S FEELING LIKE THIS

So monitor him hun.
Make sure.

Right

But don't like, helicopter over him

he's like 300 km away

Hi I'm here uhm…I know I'm interrupting stuff so i'll vent once this is over. Just know that I need some major hugs…

Oof mood
Just talk to him.

i'm tryin
ok sry ev ur turn

what did i just come back to??!

no no this is still going…it's fine…

No go ahead Ev
hugs

what did i come back to?! who do we need to help

No really dad…they have bigger problems then I do…I'll just…I'll just go.

ev srsly i'm done tell us what's wrong

Ok hun
But I'm here in PM for you.
Evs. We love you so, so, so much

No babe! If you aren't comfortable here, I'll PM you. Ev, please.

Alright…it's not THAT big of an issue but

I was face timing my boyfriend right? And we're goofing around and teasing eachother and just generally enjoying eachother's company. And he like turns the computer away for a little bit and I just start crying for no reason, whispering to never leave me. And he didn't even freak out or anything like he normally does, he just made sure to reassure me that he would never leave me…and I guess part of that was the fact that he was exhausted which is understandable…I also am sort of really highly emotionally unstable cause mental stuff and I dunno what the fak to do.