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Started July 31, 2020 by Deleted user

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Trust me this discussion isn't fun. And if you really want me to block you, then fine, I'll do it, and I advise everyone else to do so as well because this is getting us nowhere.

Oh my god, Julia, we are all so damn sick of you making everything about you. E V E R Y T H I N G. You come on this chat, which has absolutely nothing to do with you, and then make everything about you and distract from the real issue at hand. If you hate this site so much, then log the fuck off and don't come back. It isn't that fucking hard

Haven't heard any of that before so original. The real issue at hand is this website is toxic and Sy is another victim of it.

sy transcribed the whole thing himself, Julia. he sat there and read what he was putting out, to post. he read something that he knew was outdated, that he knew was harmful stereotyping and presented misinformation. and still, he posted it.

and when someone who was directly affected by that information told him that they were affected, he blamed them.

he never once apologized for the information, only for the 'drama' it caused. he blamed us for being upset about being demonized, called attention seekers, and painted himself as someone not at all at fault.

and still, he sits there and 'apologizes' while blaming those who didnt like it. who felt misrepresented. sorry, but theres nothing to forgive about that. not that someone who wont accept their own flaws could ever understand that

Oh my god, Julia, we are all so damn sick of you making everything about you. E V E R Y T H I N G. You come on this chat, which has absolutely nothing to do with you, and then make everything about you and distract from the real issue at hand. If you hate this site so much, then log the fuck off and don't come back. It isn't that fucking hard

Haven't heard any of that before so original. The real issue at hand is this website is toxic and Sy is another victim of it.

That's not the fucking issue, stop ignoring things to fit your narrative that everyone else is the bad guy.

Guys come on just block them already, we won't see their posts and this can be over and done with I stg. Not that I'm upset with y'all! You guys are awesome! I'm just tired.

now, I'm gonna go back to ignoring you, with one last parting thing to say

the things he posted mocked you, too, Julia. this wasnt just about us. it was about everyone that could be effected

Oh my god, Julia, we are all so damn sick of you making everything about you. E V E R Y T H I N G. You come on this chat, which has absolutely nothing to do with you, and then make everything about you and distract from the real issue at hand. If you hate this site so much, then log the fuck off and don't come back. It isn't that fucking hard

Haven't heard any of that before so original. The real issue at hand is this website is toxic and Sy is another victim of it.

No, the issue is that you're a whiny bitch that likes drama. Stop hiding behind your so-called mental illness, because guess what? A lot of other people on this site have the same or similar issues, and yet you're the one that's like "omg i'm neurodivergent stop bullying me!!1!!". I'm neurodivergent too, though not in the same way. I have ADD, does that mean I should use it as an excuse to make sure no one can criticize me ever? NOPE. I don't actually have any emotions half the time; a good chunk of my day I'm either numb or angry and I don't know why. Do I use it as an excuse to lash out at people? NOPE. So shut the fuck up. As I said earlier, if you think this site is just so tOxIc and you don't like it, then

LOG OFF AND DON'T COME BACK

It isn't really that hard (:

sy transcribed the whole thing himself, Julia. he sat there and read what he was putting out, to post. he read something that he knew was outdated, that he knew was harmful stereotyping and presented misinformation. and still, he posted it.

and when someone who was directly affected by that information told him that they were affected, he blamed them.

he never once apologized for the information, only for the 'drama' it caused. he blamed us for being upset about being demonized, called attention seekers, and painted himself as someone not at all at fault.

and still, he sits there and 'apologizes' while blaming those who didnt like it. who felt misrepresented. sorry, but theres nothing to forgive about that. not that someone who wont accept their own flaws could ever understand that

But how do you know that he KNEW it was harmful stereotyping and misinformation? It sounds like he just didn't know. Nobody ever educated him politely at first, they just made a callout for him. He felt defensive for a reason that makes sense. It seems like he's accepting his own flaws because he said it in the first line that he knows what he was doing was wrong.

sy transcribed the whole thing himself, Julia. he sat there and read what he was putting out, to post. he read something that he knew was outdated, that he knew was harmful stereotyping and presented misinformation. and still, he posted it.

and when someone who was directly affected by that information told him that they were affected, he blamed them.

he never once apologized for the information, only for the 'drama' it caused. he blamed us for being upset about being demonized, called attention seekers, and painted himself as someone not at all at fault.

and still, he sits there and 'apologizes' while blaming those who didnt like it. who felt misrepresented. sorry, but theres nothing to forgive about that. not that someone who wont accept their own flaws could ever understand that

But how do you know that he KNEW it was harmful stereotyping and misinformation? It sounds like he just didn't know. Nobody ever educated him politely at first, they just made a callout for him. He felt defensive for a reason that makes sense. It seems like he's accepting his own flaws because he said it in the first line that he knows what he was doing was wrong.

Like you just stated, he said he knows what he's doing is wrong.

Just wanna say that half the time Rudeness is super chill. We just wanted a place where we could deal with stuff and talk without having to tiptoe to not hurt feelings. That's why there's an age thing.

Oh my god, Julia, we are all so damn sick of you making everything about you. E V E R Y T H I N G. You come on this chat, which has absolutely nothing to do with you, and then make everything about you and distract from the real issue at hand. If you hate this site so much, then log the fuck off and don't come back. It isn't that fucking hard

Haven't heard any of that before so original. The real issue at hand is this website is toxic and Sy is another victim of it.

No, the issue is that you're a whiny bitch that likes drama. Stop hiding behind your so-called mental illness, because guess what? A lot of other people on this site have the same or similar issues, and yet you're the one that's like "omg i'm neurodivergent stop bullying me!!1!!". I'm neurodivergent too, though not in the same way. I have ADD, does that mean I should use it as an excuse to make sure no one can criticize me ever? NOPE. I don't actually have any emotions half the time; a good chunk of my day I'm either numb or angry and I don't know why. Do I use it as an excuse to lash out at people? NOPE. So shut the fuck up. As I said earlier, if you think this site is just so tOxIc and you don't like it, then

LOG OFF AND DON'T COME BACK

It isn't really that hard (:

I don't have the self-control, because, again, I AM ALSO NEURODIVERGENT. YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT MAKES IT HARD TO STOP MY IMPULSES TO LOG ON. Which is why I asked andrew (Our Supreme Lord and Overseer) to delete my account. Did it already.

sy transcribed the whole thing himself, Julia. he sat there and read what he was putting out, to post. he read something that he knew was outdated, that he knew was harmful stereotyping and presented misinformation. and still, he posted it.

and when someone who was directly affected by that information told him that they were affected, he blamed them.

he never once apologized for the information, only for the 'drama' it caused. he blamed us for being upset about being demonized, called attention seekers, and painted himself as someone not at all at fault.

and still, he sits there and 'apologizes' while blaming those who didnt like it. who felt misrepresented. sorry, but theres nothing to forgive about that. not that someone who wont accept their own flaws could ever understand that

But how do you know that he KNEW it was harmful stereotyping and misinformation? It sounds like he just didn't know. Nobody ever educated him politely at first, they just made a callout for him. He felt defensive for a reason that makes sense. It seems like he's accepting his own flaws because he said it in the first line that he knows what he was doing was wrong.

Like you just stated, he said he knows what he's doing is wrong.

Right… He said that in his apology. Where he APOLOGIZED for it.

Take a chillax pill y'all.

Oh my god, Julia, we are all so damn sick of you making everything about you. E V E R Y T H I N G. You come on this chat, which has absolutely nothing to do with you, and then make everything about you and distract from the real issue at hand. If you hate this site so much, then log the fuck off and don't come back. It isn't that fucking hard

Haven't heard any of that before so original. The real issue at hand is this website is toxic and Sy is another victim of it.

No, the issue is that you're a whiny bitch that likes drama. Stop hiding behind your so-called mental illness, because guess what? A lot of other people on this site have the same or similar issues, and yet you're the one that's like "omg i'm neurodivergent stop bullying me!!1!!". I'm neurodivergent too, though not in the same way. I have ADD, does that mean I should use it as an excuse to make sure no one can criticize me ever? NOPE. I don't actually have any emotions half the time; a good chunk of my day I'm either numb or angry and I don't know why. Do I use it as an excuse to lash out at people? NOPE. So shut the fuck up. As I said earlier, if you think this site is just so tOxIc and you don't like it, then

LOG OFF AND DON'T COME BACK

It isn't really that hard (:

I don't have the self-control, because, again, I AM ALSO NEURODIVERGENT. YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT MAKES IT HARD TO STOP MY IMPULSES TO LOG ON. Which is why I asked andrew (Our Supreme Lord and Overseer) to delete my account. Did it already.

I have ADD. I can log off of Notebook and not come back if I want to, and I probably have a harder time with impulse control than you do. But I'm not leaving this site, because I, in general, enjoy it

Take a chillax pill y'all.

^^^ This. I'm partially to blame but hopefully we can all calm down.

fucking hell not this shit again

Posting harmful misinformation isn't unimportant. it's harmful. there's no way that could be considered umimportant.
If you had seen the information, there's no way you could look at it and not go "No, this is wrong and outdated. I shouldn't post this on a site where many people fall under the demonized categories." It was very wrong, Julia, we know because we read it and picked it apart. even at a glance, as a person that wasn't falsely portrayed, i knew it wasn't right. wait, i actually was because it was so full of misogyny and i'm a woman

sy transcribed the whole thing himself, Julia. he sat there and read what he was putting out, to post. he read something that he knew was outdated, that he knew was harmful stereotyping and presented misinformation. and still, he posted it.

and when someone who was directly affected by that information told him that they were affected, he blamed them.

he never once apologized for the information, only for the 'drama' it caused. he blamed us for being upset about being demonized, called attention seekers, and painted himself as someone not at all at fault.

and still, he sits there and 'apologizes' while blaming those who didnt like it. who felt misrepresented. sorry, but theres nothing to forgive about that. not that someone who wont accept their own flaws could ever understand that

But how do you know that he KNEW it was harmful stereotyping and misinformation? It sounds like he just didn't know. Nobody ever educated him politely at first, they just made a callout for him. He felt defensive for a reason that makes sense. It seems like he's accepting his own flaws because he said it in the first line that he knows what he was doing was wrong.

Because it's super obvious?? But you wouldn't know that because you weren't here to see any of it.

Oh my god, Julia, we are all so damn sick of you making everything about you. E V E R Y T H I N G. You come on this chat, which has absolutely nothing to do with you, and then make everything about you and distract from the real issue at hand. If you hate this site so much, then log the fuck off and don't come back. It isn't that fucking hard

Haven't heard any of that before so original. The real issue at hand is this website is toxic and Sy is another victim of it.

No, the issue is that you're a whiny bitch that likes drama. Stop hiding behind your so-called mental illness, because guess what? A lot of other people on this site have the same or similar issues, and yet you're the one that's like "omg i'm neurodivergent stop bullying me!!1!!". I'm neurodivergent too, though not in the same way. I have ADD, does that mean I should use it as an excuse to make sure no one can criticize me ever? NOPE. I don't actually have any emotions half the time; a good chunk of my day I'm either numb or angry and I don't know why. Do I use it as an excuse to lash out at people? NOPE. So shut the fuck up. As I said earlier, if you think this site is just so tOxIc and you don't like it, then

LOG OFF AND DON'T COME BACK

It isn't really that hard (:

I don't have the self-control, because, again, I AM ALSO NEURODIVERGENT. YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT MAKES IT HARD TO STOP MY IMPULSES TO LOG ON. Which is why I asked andrew (Our Supreme Lord and Overseer) to delete my account. Did it already.

I have ADD. I can log off of Notebook and not come back if I want to, and I probably have a harder time with impulse control than you do. But I'm not leaving this site, because I, in general, enjoy it

Okay you should also know not all mental illness is the same. Just because you can doesn't mean I can and it's ableist to assume I should be able to. I've had severe ADHD since I was a toddler and everyone's exeprience is different.

fucking hell not this shit again

Posting harmful misinformation isn't unimportant. it's harmful. there's no way that could be considered umimportant.
If you had seen the information, there's no way you could look at it and not go "No, this is wrong and outdated. I shouldn't post this on a site where many people fall under the demonized categories." It was very wrong, Julia, we know because we read it and picked it apart. even at a glance, as a person that wasn't falsely portrayed, i knew it wasn't right. wait, i actually was because it was so fully of misogyny and i'm a woman

Well send me his upload of it. From the beginning of this chat it sounds like it was written by a woman so how did that happen? I want to see for myself how obvious it is that it's bad.

I have severe autism and adhd and I have terrible impulse control but unlike you, I actually worked through my shit so please stop.

I really need to learn to just let the annoyances go away on their own

but hon. sy is a very smart guy. hes an adult, who's been on here I think longer than I have. hes witnessed what things get certain groups of people upset, such as the horribly ableist things in that book. he knew. I would bet money on it, even if he looked me in the eyes and said he didnt

please, stop defending someone as though they arent at fault for their actions. please, stop acting like you arent either. everyone is well aware that just because your emotions are valid doesnt make them or the actions following healthy or okay. because you choose those. not your mental illness

fucking hell not this shit again

Posting harmful misinformation isn't unimportant. it's harmful. there's no way that could be considered umimportant.
If you had seen the information, there's no way you could look at it and not go "No, this is wrong and outdated. I shouldn't post this on a site where many people fall under the demonized categories." It was very wrong, Julia, we know because we read it and picked it apart. even at a glance, as a person that wasn't falsely portrayed, i knew it wasn't right. wait, i actually was because it was so fully of misogyny and i'm a woman

Well send me his upload of it. From the beginning of this chat it sounds like it was written by a woman so how did that happen? I want to see for myself how obvious it is that it's bad.

Just because something is written by a woman doesn't mean it can't be sexist. Societal norms exist.

Bruh. Chill.

fucking hell not this shit again

Posting harmful misinformation isn't unimportant. it's harmful. there's no way that could be considered umimportant.
If you had seen the information, there's no way you could look at it and not go "No, this is wrong and outdated. I shouldn't post this on a site where many people fall under the demonized categories." It was very wrong, Julia, we know because we read it and picked it apart. even at a glance, as a person that wasn't falsely portrayed, i knew it wasn't right. wait, i actually was because it was so fully of misogyny and i'm a woman

Well send me his upload of it. From the beginning of this chat it sounds like it was written by a woman so how did that happen? I want to see for myself how obvious it is that it's bad.

he deleted it julia. are you reading any of his 'apology' posts or just assuming we're in the wrong?

fucking hell not this shit again

Posting harmful misinformation isn't unimportant. it's harmful. there's no way that could be considered umimportant.
If you had seen the information, there's no way you could look at it and not go "No, this is wrong and outdated. I shouldn't post this on a site where many people fall under the demonized categories." It was very wrong, Julia, we know because we read it and picked it apart. even at a glance, as a person that wasn't falsely portrayed, i knew it wasn't right. wait, i actually was because it was so fully of misogyny and i'm a woman

Well send me his upload of it. From the beginning of this chat it sounds like it was written by a woman so how did that happen? I want to see for myself how obvious it is that it's bad.

he deleted it julia. are you reading any of his 'apology' posts or just assuming we're in the wrong?

I read them but must have missed some. Either way I've been talking to him privately and he seems like he means it.