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@Dayzed business

Ok just need to say this to someone and here feels like a good place so…
I've known I'm ace for a few months at this point, but it was always definitely ace not aro. I get crushes, like romance books, ect. But then today my crush casually mentioned that she has a boyfriend. And out of all the things people usually feel in moments like that- Sad, angry, jealous, disappointed -I felt relieved. RELIEVED. Before I'd felt like I should want to ask her out, hold hands, stuff like that. But I don't? We're sort of friends and I really like it that way, no need for more. I'm n ot sure if this is a one time thing or if my crushes have always been like this and I never noticed. So now I'm doing a bunch of research on aro-spec identities trying to find one that fits and it's all very confusing.
Anyway, thanks, just needed to get that off my chest.

OMG i know this feeling!! (i think at least)
i personally don't identify as aro, but i get so confused because when i really think about it all i want from a relationship is what i would get, and am getting from a really good friendship. with some of my best friends we hug, hold hands, do cheesy flirting and stick together like glue. the only difference is cuddling and exclusivity, but i still REALLY like, and even crave to a degree, the idea of romantic love, and i adore cute romantic media.
is this kinda how you feel, or am i, like, totally off course?

also i felt this in my SOUL cause that's literally what i feel when i get a "crush" though the number of times I've had a crush in my entire life are like two times and I'm like two years off of being in my mid-twenties
(i also just tend to get "squishes" instead of crushes)

SQUISHES ARE THE BEST THING EVER

YESSSSS they really areee 😆

@IcarusFightsTheSun book

My grandpa said “I’m kind of jealous of your new hair” and I said “that funny ‘cause I’m jealous of your beard” and he and my mum laughed but it wasn’t a joke 🙃

@Eli-the-transboi group

My grandpa said “I’m kind of jealous of your new hair” and I said “that funny ‘cause I’m jealous of your beard” and he and my mum laughed but it wasn’t a joke 🙃

stop it that was too much of a mood

Rowan

Hello, my name is Rowan! I'm 16 and would love to have some friends! Also wanna know a fun fact? Bananas are berries, but strawberries aren't!

@IcarusFightsTheSun book

Hello, my name is Rowan! I'm 16 and would love to have some friends! Also wanna know a fun fact? Bananas are berries, but strawberries aren't!

aren't melons(/watermelons) also berries?
(also, i raise your berry fact with; did you know that crows have an IQ roughly equal to that of a 7-8 year old human?)

@IcarusFightsTheSun book

im here, im queer, the ultimate collapse of all reality is ever near

what's up Wisconsin!

(hiya lily, im Wyrm (zie/zir), welcome back to nb^^)

@IcarusFightsTheSun book

so, technically the main character of my little passion project is straight… HOWEVER, what if i just made him a little "road to Eldorado", if anyone understands the reference

@Axel

Okay, everyone! I have something to get off my chest… I'm not part of the LGBTQ community. I'm not saying I don't hate it, I'm just… not part of it.

@IcarusFightsTheSun book

Okay, everyone! I have something to get off my chest… I'm not part of the LGBTQ community. I'm not saying I don't hate it, I'm just… not part of it.

was that a typo? 'not saying I don't hate it' is double negatives, which means you do hate it. anyways, if that's not what you meant then you're all good, i don't see why allies wouldn't be fine here

@IcarusFightsTheSun book

(my favorite is navy blue, but (dark)green is a close second, hbu?)

(Oooo nice choice. Mine is lilac!)

(oh, lilac is pretty good! i think that's my sisters favorite too. new topic, you got any cool stories you're working on?)