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Started January 17, 2019 by @The-N-U-T-Cracker

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silently wonders how to process it as well

To make it worse is that my mom will likely never speak of it again. And if I bring it up I'll be in serious trouble cause she never listens to me when it matters.

Oh jeez. That’s horrible. I’m so sorry :(
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Thanks guys…. I honestly never thought something like this would happen…

Lord have mercy….

I hope you end up ok! I couldn't imagine something like that. :(

I know….

It'll blow over… a d stick in my memory for eternity…

I'm here for you, Starlight!

Thanks Shuri

Your mom has no right to do that! If I were there she would have to physically fight me to get to your stuff! You could try backing stuff up on multiple things like Google Drive and the cloud. Does she know how terribly this can affect your future?!

she has no right to do that. any diety you want me to pray to?

also, i just wanted to let yall know that we aren't gonna be logging on as much due to in-system things. you guys have done absolutely NOTHING wrong, there are just… there's been some shit going down in-system.

Your mom has no right to do that! If I were there she would have to physically fight me to get to your stuff! You could try backing stuff up on multiple things like Google Drive and the cloud. Does she know how terribly this can affect your future?!

She said she'd delete my access to said cloud…. and she probably could go in and delete everything since she knows all my passwords.

And yes she knows how much this scared me. If she doesn't then we have issues.

she has no right to do that. any diety you want me to pray to?

Thanks Mezzo, but I think I have it handled….. as in the fact that it will never come up again

also, i just wanted to let yall know that we aren't gonna be logging on as much due to in-system things. you guys have done absolutely NOTHING wrong, there are just… there's been some shit going down in-system.

Okay. Take care! <3

Your mom has no right to do that! If I were there she would have to physically fight me to get to your stuff! You could try backing stuff up on multiple things like Google Drive and the cloud. Does she know how terribly this can affect your future?!

She said she'd delete my access to said cloud…. and she probably could go in and delete everything since she knows all my passwords.

You change your passwords! If this is the respect she gives you for being open to her than don't be open at all! We'll see how she feels about that!

You change your passwords! If this is the respect she gives you for being open to her than don't be open at all! We'll see how she feels about that!

Unfortunately I can't risk doing that. She'll force me to tell her the passwords again, or I will lose access to the internet entirely. She pays for it. And until I can pay for it she has access.

You should tell her how badly it will affect your future if she erases all of your writing. If she doesn't care then she isn't doing her job.

I think it might be a case of she doesn't realize how big this is to me……
Either way I'm not bringing it up because it's too risky and when my mom has made a decision there is no changing it.

Okay. Lay low and don't bring it up. Only if she brings it up.

That's what I plan on….. Trust me stuff like this NEVER comes up a second time

Unless she decides to do it.

I've had stuff just as serious (At least to me) happen with my mom before, and two things are always the same.
1). No matter how logical/formal/sincere ect. I try to be when I present my side of the issue; Is completely futile.
2). It Never comes up again (Unless I bring it up).
3). Bringing it up myself is as good as a figurative death wish.