thank you
so julian had decided that he was gonna move from america and come to canada to be here with me and go to college here, mostly because he loves me and a little because he's trans and america is going crazy. problem is, yesterday he told me that his parents won't let him and they even said they don't know if they'll send him to college because he's 'immature", which is a cheap excuse, considering they're rich as hell. So we decided he'll try to convince them that it's good to move here, but if they say no, he's moving anyway, because neither of us is willing to wait more than one more year to see each other. And we've sort of worked out how to pay for uni/college with student loans, and how to pay for an apartment, but i'm honestly so worried. my parents might not pay for my uni after i come out to them, so i'll have student loans, and i'll probably move out anyway, and i'll get a job, but there are so many things that could go wrong and i'm so fucking stressed about all this.
i just. hnnnnnnnnnn i'm not even an adult yet and i have finals in less than a month and i'm just, so so tired.
It's so messed up how parents won't pay for education simply because of a child's sexuality. Ya know, something you can't control.
oh fuck i forgot, we're both gonna go on t too, so we have to pay for that too. god fuckin dammit
good grief. that's hella fucked up.
idek how we're gna handle all this
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Yeah that's fucked up that they won't pay for it bc he's 'immature' or whatever. Just remember to save all you earn, or as much as you can. Never miss an opportunity to make money unless your personal health is at stake, or something more valuable is at stake. I have faith in you that you will be able to make this whole situation work, and you, my friend are a king among men.
You got this.
You can do this.
He's got this.
It will work out.
shuri you're a gem, and yeah, i'm gonna get a job this summer, and i get 100 bucks a month from my parents, and i'e been trying to save as much as i can every month (which is not a lot but i'm doing my best)
I don't really know how to respond, but I read the vent and I really wish the best for you two. That sucks and I hope things turn out alright.
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I don't really know how to respond, but I read the vent and I really wish the best for you two. That sucks and I hope things turn out alright.
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Me failing at cooking also a candle fun fact
shuri you're a gem, and yeah, i'm gonna get a job this summer, and i get 100 bucks a month from my parents, and i'e been trying to save as much as i can every month (which is not a lot but i'm doing my best)
Bruh you too fam! That seems decent enough bro! I myself am getting a good job so I can see the person I love, so I get that a lot.
Fortunately my job pays $40+ an hour and I'll get a good workout doing it, but I won't be able to be on here as much
Whenever I feel down I try to remember that somewhere in the world there's an idiot pushing a door that says pull, or vice-versa. I'm great at this whole comforting thing.
shuri you're a gem, and yeah, i'm gonna get a job this summer, and i get 100 bucks a month from my parents, and i'e been trying to save as much as i can every month (which is not a lot but i'm doing my best)
Bruh you too fam! That seems decent enough bro! I myself am getting a good job so I can see the person I love, so I get that a lot.
Fortunately my job pays $40+ an hour and I'll get a good workout doing it, but I won't be able to be on here as much
40 BUCKS AN HOUR??? my parents barely make that much combined???????? how the fuck??
Fortunately my job pays $40+ an hour and I'll get a good workout doing it, but I won't be able to be on here as much
Wait wtf what job do you have…
Whenever I feel down I try to remember that somewhere in the world there's an idiot pushing a door that says pull, or vice-versa. I'm great at this whole comforting thing.
that's hilarious, thank you
Fortunately my job pays $40+ an hour and I'll get a good workout doing it, but I won't be able to be on here as much
Wait wtf what job do you have…
I just realized if you work a 40 hour week that's over $1600 a week
that's my mom's salary from one of her jobs what the fuck
If you worked a year(52 weeks) with that job 40 hours a week that's… hold up…
$83200
shuri you're a gem, and yeah, i'm gonna get a job this summer, and i get 100 bucks a month from my parents, and i'e been trying to save as much as i can every month (which is not a lot but i'm doing my best)
Bruh you too fam! That seems decent enough bro! I myself am getting a good job so I can see the person I love, so I get that a lot.
Fortunately my job pays $40+ an hour and I'll get a good workout doing it, but I won't be able to be on here as much
40 BUCKS AN HOUR??? my parents barely make that much combined???????? how the fuck??
Well ig it's a whole shitton of jobs really! I moved out with my grandparents to the country. It started as helping them move, but then I saw the opportunities here (people need wood split but don't want to do it themselves, people need a handyman for stuff like house repairs and vehicle maintenance, people need someone to manage their 20+ pets for them, and out here we have all the equipment to make dirt roads so I'll be doing that too! Also for a 5'6" guy, I'm ridiculously strong and can help people move in for money!
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