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Started April 21, 2018 by @Tylerrr-M-P

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Ok, so I'm not even sure I'm straight…I have liked a couple girls. Never dated one though. I'm not sure how to feel about this either, because that's not how I was raised. 😓

i get that. it’s ok to not know and you don’t need to feel any kind of pressure to figure it out, you’ll have plenty of time. and whether you’re straight or not, you’re still valid and loved. <3

Thanks. 💜
The real problem is this: I'm a Christian, and the Bible says not to be with the same gender. I do support gays, though, so my beliefs clash. If it turns out I'm not straight, but in fact, bi, gay, pan, etc., then my parents are going to give me hell. 😵

I'm adopted irl, my adopted father drinks a lot so he's always angry and yelling at us children in the house.

Ok, so I'm not even sure I'm straight…I have liked a couple girls. Never dated one though. I'm not sure how to feel about this either, because that's not how I was raised. 😓

i get that. it’s ok to not know and you don’t need to feel any kind of pressure to figure it out, you’ll have plenty of time. and whether you’re straight or not, you’re still valid and loved. <3

Thanks. 💜
The real problem is this: I'm a Christian, and the Bible says not to be with the same gender. I do support gays, though, so my beliefs clash. If it turns out I'm not straight, but in fact, bi, gay, pan, etc., then my parents are going to give me hell. 😵

i’m also Christian, and i completely understand. i just want to you to know that if you ever need to talk or need a friend or whatever, i’m here for you and i support you. <3 <3

Ok, so I'm not even sure I'm straight…I have liked a couple girls. Never dated one though. I'm not sure how to feel about this either, because that's not how I was raised. 😓

i get that. it’s ok to not know and you don’t need to feel any kind of pressure to figure it out, you’ll have plenty of time. and whether you’re straight or not, you’re still valid and loved. <3

Thanks. 💜
The real problem is this: I'm a Christian, and the Bible says not to be with the same gender. I do support gays, though, so my beliefs clash. If it turns out I'm not straight, but in fact, bi, gay, pan, etc., then my parents are going to give me hell. 😵

im here for you Sis/Bro !

-looks around- does anyone wanna adopt me?

adopting you too
your agreement does not matter
i'm still adopting you

auntie?

yes child?

hecc i just realised idrk if i'm actually bi tho, even tho i put so much thought into figuring it out… fsdakjfdakjdf

queer culture is having to laugh loudly at all the lgbtq jokes your tv show makes so your family knows it's okay to laugh

Y'all I hate being at home… my mom hates underage people who "claim to be LGBT" and I'm literally here… gay and my gender is ???? and I'm so uncomfortable here.
I remember when I respected this woman…

I've only been called my deadname since I came home even though I've been Xander for over a year and a half…

I call people by their original name and gender (the one they first told me), even if they legally changed them. It's not that I'm trying to be rude, it's just already hard for me to keep up with names, when they change it just messes with my head. 😫

It's harder for them… they're facing so much every day and the least you could do is make an effort to remember their damn name. It gets easier every time you do it.

It's harder for them… they're facing so much every day and the least you could do is make an effort to remember their damn name. It gets easier every time you do it.

Hey, I'm not forgetful on purpose. No one is. I do try, and it's not my fault that I'm confused. My brain is just wired that way.

Perhaps I should've given context? The people I call by their original names are ok with it, because they know how forgetful I am.
I even forget my own name sometimes. 😂

Perhaps I should've given context? The people I call by their original names are ok with it, because they know how forgetful I am.
I even forget my own name sometimes. 😂

Oh okay! I'm sorry for being kind of an asshole… I just have a lot of friends like me

Perhaps I should've given context? The people I call by their original names are ok with it, because they know how forgetful I am.
I even forget my own name sometimes. 😂

Oh okay! I'm sorry for being kind of an asshole… I just have a lot of friends like me

It's fine. I'll get over it. 😃

Ok, so I'm not even sure I'm straight…I have liked a couple girls. Never dated one though. I'm not sure how to feel about this either, because that's not how I was raised. 😓

i get that. it’s ok to not know and you don’t need to feel any kind of pressure to figure it out, you’ll have plenty of time. and whether you’re straight or not, you’re still valid and loved. <3

Thanks. 💜
The real problem is this: I'm a Christian, and the Bible says not to be with the same gender. I do support gays, though, so my beliefs clash. If it turns out I'm not straight, but in fact, bi, gay, pan, etc., then my parents are going to give me hell. 😵

Technically, the Bible says nothing about being with the same gender.
The closest thing is a passage that says 'Man shall not lay with man'
But it was written in Greek and the original passage is 'Man shall not lay with boy'

Technically, the Bible says nothing about being with the same gender.
The closest thing is a passage that says 'Man shall not lay with man'
But it was written in Greek and the original passage is 'Man shall not lay with boy'

Have you read it? Maybe you have, maybe you haven't.
My dad told me he found where it said not to do that. I think he said one of them was in Psalms.
I don't feel all that comfortable talking about this, so I'm going to drop the subject for now. That cool with you? 😃

Technically, the Bible says nothing about being with the same gender.
The closest thing is a passage that says 'Man shall not lay with man'
But it was written in Greek and the original passage is 'Man shall not lay with boy'

Have you read it? Maybe you have, maybe you haven't.
My dad told me he found where it said not to do that. I think he said one of them was in Psalms.
I don't feel all that comfortable talking about this, so I'm going to drop the subject for now. That cool with you? 😃

That's fine. If you don't feel comfortable, I'll respect that.

That argument upsets me but go off

That argument upsets me but go off

Actually, I'm pretty sure we were just discussing….?

Sorry, I'm done. I don't want to get on anyone's nerves. 😅