forum Question for all you neurospicy besties (also chat ^^)
Started by @Eli-the-transboi group
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hand flaps? y'all… huh?
also, me and my friends call them neurobasic (neurodivergent is neurospicy)

XDDD

i like it

If you don't mind, I'm stealing that. Me and my besties are neurospicy and my bf is neurobasic

im stealing it first. me and my sister are neurospicy and my twin is neurobasic

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hand flaps? y'all… huh?
also, me and my friends call them neurobasic (neurodivergent is neurospicy)

XDDD

i like it

If you don't mind, I'm stealing that. Me and my besties are neurospicy and my bf is neurobasic

im stealing it first. me and my sister are neurospicy and my twin is neurobasic

me and my brother are neurospicy and my other two brothers are neurobasic

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and nobody understands that i cant talk. they just think im choosing not to and its really frustrating.

@Eli-the-transboi group

and nobody understands that i cant talk. they just think im choosing not to and its really frustrating.

Bro literally- I’m very talkative so when I stop talking, everyone freaks out-

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and nobody understands that i cant talk. they just think im choosing not to and its really frustrating.

Bro literally- I’m very talkative so when I stop talking, everyone freaks out-

ya and everyone is just like "talk! why arent you talking? come on, i know you can talk, so just talk!!!"
i cant

@Eli-the-transboi group

and nobody understands that i cant talk. they just think im choosing not to and its really frustrating.

Bro literally- I’m very talkative so when I stop talking, everyone freaks out-

ya and everyone is just like "talk! why arent you talking? come on, i know you can talk, so just talk!!!"
i cant

Actually- like- omg. sigh they mainly just worry something’s wrong. Which they’re not wrong but still

@FRANKtheTritoposaur group

Helo nerospices. I have a question

Go right ahead!

So I regress and sometimes go nonverbal with that. I di not go non verbal other than that. Would I be considered offensive or bad if I used communicator cards when I non verbally regress?

@Eli-the-transboi group

Helo nerospices. I have a question

Go right ahead!

So I regress and sometimes go nonverbal with that. I di not go non verbal other than that. Would I be considered offensive or bad if I used communicator cards when I non verbally regress?

No not at all! I sometimes do the same thing. (though I’m still scared of using communication cards-)

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and nobody understands that i cant talk. they just think im choosing not to and its really frustrating.

Bro literally- I’m very talkative so when I stop talking, everyone freaks out-

ya and everyone is just like "talk! why arent you talking? come on, i know you can talk, so just talk!!!"
i cant

Actually- like- omg. sigh they mainly just worry something’s wrong. Which they’re not wrong but still

Literally. I go nonverbal sometimes too and everyone's like "For once she's being quiet." or they're like "Omg i know you can talk, stop being dramatic" and I'm thinking 'i can't. if i could i would'

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this has turned into a discussion about how we hate what people do when we go nonverbal

@Morals-are-for-mortals language

I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

@Eli-the-transboi group

I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

It could be both. It happens to me too so it could also happen to you. And honestly it’s ok to not speak if you can’t.

@Morals-are-for-mortals language

I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

It could be both. It happens to me too so it could also happen to you. And honestly it’s ok to not speak if you can’t.

Ah, alright. I’m thinking of maybe having something for me to type or write what I’m trying to say for when it happens. Thanks

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I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

It could be both. It happens to me too so it could also happen to you. And honestly it’s ok to not speak if you can’t.

I ALSO HAVE ALL THE WORDS IN MY HEAD. AND THEN PEOPLE MAKE ME TALK BUT I LEGIT CANT!!!

@Eli-the-transboi group

I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

It could be both. It happens to me too so it could also happen to you. And honestly it’s ok to not speak if you can’t.

Ah, alright. I’m thinking of maybe having something for me to type or write what I’m trying to say for when it happens. Thanks

Yeah! ^^