forum Question for all you neurospicy besties (also chat ^^)
Started by @Eli-the-transboi group
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this has turned into a discussion about how we hate what people do when we go nonverbal

@Morals-are-for-mortals language

I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

@Eli-the-transboi group

I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

It could be both. It happens to me too so it could also happen to you. And honestly it’s ok to not speak if you can’t.

@Morals-are-for-mortals language

I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

It could be both. It happens to me too so it could also happen to you. And honestly it’s ok to not speak if you can’t.

Ah, alright. I’m thinking of maybe having something for me to type or write what I’m trying to say for when it happens. Thanks

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I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

It could be both. It happens to me too so it could also happen to you. And honestly it’s ok to not speak if you can’t.

I ALSO HAVE ALL THE WORDS IN MY HEAD. AND THEN PEOPLE MAKE ME TALK BUT I LEGIT CANT!!!

@Eli-the-transboi group

I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

It could be both. It happens to me too so it could also happen to you. And honestly it’s ok to not speak if you can’t.

Ah, alright. I’m thinking of maybe having something for me to type or write what I’m trying to say for when it happens. Thanks

Yeah! ^^

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I have a question myself. Sometimes when I’m really upset (likely crying) it’s very difficult for me to speak. Like I have all the words in my head but everything else doesn’t wanna cooperate. Is this just me having problems speaking while under emotional distress or is this a “Trying to go nonverbal but I’m forcing myself to say stuff because people keep asking me things”

this happens to me too. I have a million things to say and I literally can't say it

@CharlieTheSlayer fastfood

ok i gotta question.
what do you do when you're overstimulated and under stimulated? ill go first-

overstimulated: i kinda just shut down, go nonverbal. i just sit down, watch some youtube in a quiet, darkish room with my security blanket. i will be stimming but its usually with one or two things.

understimulated: i like to drink a soda cause of the flavor and carbonation. ill eat something, maybe do multiple things at once. i also use WAY more stim toys or just move around a lot.

I know im not very active on here but im gonna respond anyway

Overstimulated: cover my face and cry while trying to find somewhere to be alone
Understimulated: I doodle everywhere or stab myself with a pencil (lightly majority of the time)

@Le0_ language

ok i gotta question.
what do you do when you're overstimulated and under stimulated? ill go first-

overstimulated: i kinda just shut down, go nonverbal. i just sit down, watch some youtube in a quiet, darkish room with my security blanket. i will be stimming but its usually with one or two things.

understimulated: i like to drink a soda cause of the flavor and carbonation. ill eat something, maybe do multiple things at once. i also use WAY more stim toys or just move around a lot.

Overstim: I shut down entirely, probably start crying or get violent. Usually it happens from being around too many people or someone seeming upset at me.

Understim: Starving, shaking, and trying to find something to do. All I really need is some propel and maybe some hugs, affection, etc. very cuddly and clingy.