ALSO, how do i get a masculine haircut that makes me look like a dude without looking like a girl trying to smudge gender norms??? (im all for gender equlity btw, i just eeally wanna know how to look masculine T^T)
Ahhshahshahahah I can’t really help you with that, I literally have a mullet right now so I guess that’s fairly masc but it’s ugly as hell idk lol
gasp omg may I simp?
Lol if you must
ALSO, how do i get a masculine haircut that makes me look like a dude without looking like a girl trying to smudge gender norms??? (im all for gender equlity btw, i just eeally wanna know how to look masculine T^T)
Ahhshahshahahah I can’t really help you with that, I literally have a mullet right now so I guess that’s fairly masc but it’s ugly as hell idk lol
gasp omg may I simp?
Lol if you must
giggling
I personally think mullets are nasty…
I personally think mullets are nasty…
Lol me too it’s just what the hairstylist gave me when I asked for a fauxhawk style. It’s stupid but I’m too lazy to fix it so I’m keeping it.
Ok, update!! Wednesday I finally got authorized to go on T, and it’s finally happening!! I just need to wait for prior authorization from my insurance, and then I can finally start!! I’m using testosterone gel for now, and I’m super excited to start!! I’m going to record my experience on here so others can get a good understanding of what happens and what to expect, and I will also hopefully be able to share advice for those who intend to go on T someday. Ultimately it’s very exciting for me and I am so happy I’ve gotten to this point in my life where I can be my full, authentic self. Gender affirming care is lifesaving care, and I’m so excited to be who I’m becoming.
Ok, update!! Wednesday I finally got authorized to go on T, and it’s finally happening!! I just need to wait for prior authorization from my insurance, and then I can finally start!! I’m using testosterone gel for now, and I’m super excited to start!! I’m going to record my experience on here so others can get a good understanding of what happens and what to expect, and I will also hopefully be able to share advice for those who intend to go on T someday. Ultimately it’s very exciting for me and I am so happy I’ve gotten to this point in my life where I can be my full, authentic self. Gender affirming care is lifesaving care, and I’m so excited to be who I’m becoming.
Omg I’m so happy for you!!
that's pretty cool, congrats!
Aww thanks!
this is an extremely rude question that you absolutely do not have to answer.
whats your deadname.
dont answer if you dont want to.
this is an extremely rude question that you absolutely do not have to answer.
whats your deadname.
dont answer if you dont want to.
I probably won’t ever tell people that if I can avoid it. It’s pretty personal for me but I don’t find it rude inherently if you’re not trying to use it against me!!
this is an extremely rude question that you absolutely do not have to answer.
whats your deadname.
dont answer if you dont want to.
I probably won’t ever tell people that if I can avoid it. It’s pretty personal for me but I don’t find it rude inherently if you’re not trying to use it against me!!
i would never. just kinda curious. also how did you find out?
this is an extremely rude question that you absolutely do not have to answer.
whats your deadname.
dont answer if you dont want to.
I probably won’t ever tell people that if I can avoid it. It’s pretty personal for me but I don’t find it rude inherently if you’re not trying to use it against me!!
i would never. just kinda curious. also how did you find out?
That’s fine! Ok, so how I found out I was trans was a process. I’d always felt like my body never really fit, but due to my autism I was kinda always blissfully unaware of gender and biological sex as concepts and I just. Didn’t really care??? About it??? Anyways, eventually I started learning about queer folks at around ten years old as my parents conveniently forgot to mention that as something one could be. I learned more about gay and lesbian and bi at first, I knew what trans was but I never though I could be trans because it just seemed impossible for someone like me to be trans. Ultimately I started identifying at around 12 as bisexual during a session at a mildly homophobic Christian summer camp after a girl confessed she had a crush on me, and I proceeded to question reality for a few weeks before I told my mom about it and we figured out that hey! I might like girls!! Anyways, that eventually led to me figuring that I might be nonbinary because I always wished I’d been born a boy, but constantly called myself a tomboy and felt proud of being a girl as my mom is a hardcore feminist (which is awesome btw, don’t get me wrong) and it was sort of a mourning process to deny myself my femininity in order to feel like a “real man/enby”. However, I eventually came to terms with being an effeminate trans man and I’m honestly happier than ever!! I honestly see my gender as fully male, but I also see my gender presentation as fully fluid and it really just depends on the day how I want to look and feel. I need my body to look masculine as my dysphoria around that is pretty bad hence wearing binders and going on T but also I like pretty clothes and nail polish and stuff and it’s just… complicated lmao.
Ultimately I started identifying at around 12 as bisexual during a session at a mildly homophobic Christian summer camp
same bestie
Ultimately I started identifying at around 12 as bisexual during a session at a mildly homophobic Christian summer camp
same bestie
Oof lmao sorry for your loss-
Ultimately I started identifying at around 12 as bisexual during a session at a mildly homophobic Christian summer camp
same bestie
Oof lmao sorry for your loss-
homephobic christian camps are the worst.
Ultimately I started identifying at around 12 as bisexual during a session at a mildly homophobic Christian summer camp
same bestie
Oof lmao sorry for your loss-
homephobic christian camps are the worst.
Ahh yeah- I went back the following year and came out to a counselor that I wanted to commit suicide because of the bullying I faced for being nonbinary and she said she “didn’t see why I felt the need to take the attention away from god” and “doesn’t support that lifestyle”
Doing better now obv but still… it’s rough.
ya. i hate people like that. if you ever need to talk, my pms are always open
Dude I’m so sorry. I’m also always here if you need me.
Aww thanks! My mental health is at an all time high rn so I think I’ll be fine but I’m definitely happy to chat anytime!!
^^ im glad! You deserve to be happy.
Aww thanks!!
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i did it better eli
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