Okay, sorry! I hope you don't feel uncomfortable, I didn't mean to push boundaries. Switching the topic I guess, how does one write the emotional side of smut versus the actions themselves? Like, if you just mainly wanted to focus on emotions, specifically dealing with some minor trauma in my case but it can be anything, from happy to silly to depressed, idk. Help.
Who was the deleted user??
shrug
y'all kinky bitches
explain two things to me
because I've never hooked up with someone who had either
and with all honesty
it's a lil weird
y'all kinky bitches
explain two things to me
- foot fetishes
- daddy kinks
because I've never hooked up with someone who had either
and with all honesty
it's a lil weird
i don't actually have any clue
i literally don't know either. all i know is–and yes i'm outing my boyfriend here–my boyfriend likes it, and i enjoy the more fluff aspects of age play
now, hear me out on this one. i don't do the sexual stuff with it. even my boyfriend refuses to do the sexual things involved in age play, the only thing is that he just likes being called daddy. it's weird but hey.
for me, i think a decent part of the fluff age play comes from a lacking childhood. i didn't get to be the kid i should have gotten to be, instead forced to mature like super early due to a number of things, including a shit father, adhd and gifted kid syndrome, and being the eldest child. so being able to just…feel like a kid again is such a great thing for me. it makes me feel safe, and i just really enjoy getting to tap into the childlike part of me for a bit, without fear of the whole 'dude that's weird grow up' or mocking. idk it's just nice. i can't speak for people who are into it sexually, though i'd be willing to bet my boyfriend is into it because he likes protecting and his dad was also shit
tdrl people with age play kinks and a lot of kinks in that lineage in general have daddy issues, pun intended
Dang, this thread stayed alive that long?
Hi Jensen! How're you doing?
I lowkey dread when I get notifs for this thread XD
what's to dread? it's very enlightening to see how little people actually know about sex lmao–myself included
somehow the people on this thread who have had sex know just as little about sex as the people who haven't
I blame the school system
Same
consider alternatively, or as well
parents
okay but honestly?? did anybody here ever have "the talk" or did you just kind of learn as you went? because personally, I feel like one day it just became common knowledge.
I didn't get a talk
I got a book and was left to my own devices since I brought it up while I was in 3rd grade
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My health class…didn't really do The Talk? Like, they had the nurse in to discuss contraceptives/birth control and stuff (and one guy admitted to knowing about flavored condoms in front of the entire class lmao) but she never really said anything about how to Do The Do.
on that note, to whom it may concern: flavored condoms are a dangerous thing. a big no from me.
The nurse was like "what are some kinds of condoms?"
And the class goes silent, and one big athletic guy just whispers "flavored…"
To quote an episode of The Predator Chronicles: "You know what guys don't use chocolate-flavored condoms? Guys who buy chocolate-flavored condoms!"
i actually did get the talk, when i was like pretty young and some kid brought a condom to school and thought it was a balloon. it wasn't horribly detailed, because again, kid, but it was realistic enough and as i grew up i was told more and more, ykno, to match me growing, cause what a thirteen year old should know is a lot different than what a nine year old should know
also y'all saying this shit reminds me, unfortunately, of the flavored condoms sitting in my top drawer of my nightstand that'll literally never get used because a) fuck boys but don't if you know what i mean and b) ew
We got The Book in…middle school? Don't remember which year, and it might've been a Catholic School Thing but we never learned sex ed, they just trusted the parents to read the books to us and mine didn't. So I've gleaned my info from this chat and also reading.
I also did get some of my sex knowledge from One Direction fan fiction
I didn't get a talk
I got a book and was left to my own devices since I brought it up while I was in 3rd grade
Did we have the same childhood?