Okay, so I need help with something:
So basically I have a bf, and we hung out on Saturday. (We haven’t been dating for very long btw) He had to come back to mine to check bus times so he could get home but he ended up making out with me but like grabbing everything he could and I mean everything. At the time I though I liked it but after he left I felt really uncomfortable about the whole thing.
Now there’s this girl, she’s a year older then me and we’ve just started talking. I know she liked me and I may like her (she is currently planning a date for us, yes she knows about my bf)
From what happened this weekend I know I’m not comfortable being in a relationship with a guy but we’ve just started dating and I don’t want to be a nonce and break up with him.
Um… HELP?
Okay, how long have y'all been dating?
Okay, first off, that is not long enough for him to touch certain places.
And if you want, I can help you work on a script to break up with him.
Just tell him you felt uncomfortable that day, and that it would be too weird between you guys now to continue?
Just tell him you felt uncomfortable that day, and that it would be too weird between you guys now to continue?
But I hate confronting people, that’s the thing, I don’t want to make him feel bad.
Ok but like, he made you uncomfortable and you're clearly not in to guys. Which is fine. He should understand if he has a head screwed on to his shoulders.
I think as long as you’re kind, and gentle when you explain, you’re fine
Okay, first off, that is not long enough for him to touch certain places.
And if you want, I can help you work on a script to break up with him.
Yes, please, thank you
Okay!
How do you want to start? I can help but you need to give me some ideas.
Also, do you want to move this to Pms?
lex you won't be able to make a PM unless you add an @ to your name
Ok but like, he made you uncomfortable and you're clearly not in to guys. Which is fine. He should understand if he has a head screwed on to his shoulders.
That’s true, yeah.
Did I mentions he’s a Christian and I’m an atheist?
Ok but like, he made you uncomfortable and you're clearly not in to guys. Which is fine. He should understand if he has a head screwed on to his shoulders.
That’s true, yeah.
Did I mentions he’s a Christian and I’m an atheist?
:L
No you didn't. I'm not suggesting you should bring up religion (if you're male idk) but hey there's a few boys who are just pushed into Christianity
Ok but like, he made you uncomfortable and you're clearly not in to guys. Which is fine. He should understand if he has a head screwed on to his shoulders.
That’s true, yeah.
Did I mentions he’s a Christian and I’m an atheist?
:L
No you didn't. I'm not suggesting you should bring up religion (if you're male idk) but hey there's a few boys who are just pushed into Christianity
Yeah, I’m female and he knows I’m bi (ha, I don’t really think so anymore) and said he wasn’t going to judge me for it… same with me being an atheist
Oh alright. I think you and Lex can plan something like a script but you should try and calm down and be careful. If he tries to corner you into doing something you don't like, push him the fuck off.
Yeah, I will. Thanks Emi.
ugh i know how easy it is to type rather than do but please be careful
Yw Carrots. Good luck.
Oh my gosh. This is wrong. Honestly in this day and age I would hardly expect better but that is messed up. And compound that with the dude supposedly being a Christian retch. Listen Carrots, you deserve far better than this dude. No one should force themselves on someone else like that especially after such a short time. Cut this dude out of your life and never look back.
I am also willing to help if you need to write a break-up script.
Thanks Dom, I’ve already broken up with him so it’s fine. I keeps beating himself up over it and saying he feels like it’s his fault and shit… he sent me like twenty messages before I finally replied as I was trying to do work but… ugh, I feel kind a bad but I’m glad we’re over.
Normally I would feel sympathy because breaking up sucks, (Well, I sympathize for you.) but this guy was doing things he should never have done. The culture makes me so sick.
Yeah. But this experience has taught me that I’m a hard core lesbian so that’s a good thing.
You go with your gay self!
He keeps spamming me with all this shit about him being sad and depressed and as much as I feel bad for him it's really annoying… Like, we said we would sill be friends but…
Yeah, I agree. That's probably best.
