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Personally, I'm terrified about whether or not I'll ever find the right person.
I really am.
I've been surrounded by love-gone-wrong all my life and I am so fucking scared that'll be me.

Felt that
This was brought to you by the scared of commitment gang

and that's another thing
i'm the opposite of afraid of commitment
i'm afraid of people not being as committed as I am

@Pickles group

Personally, I'm terrified about whether or not I'll ever find the right person.
I really am.
I've been surrounded by love-gone-wrong all my life and I am so fucking scared that'll be me.

Felt that
This was brought to you by the scared of commitment gang

and that's another thing
i'm the opposite of afraid of commitment
i'm afraid of people not being as committed as I am

Is it weird to be afraid of both? In a non-romantic way

@Moxie group

Personally, I'm terrified about whether or not I'll ever find the right person.
I really am.
I've been surrounded by love-gone-wrong all my life and I am so fucking scared that'll be me.

Felt that
This was brought to you by the scared of commitment gang

and that's another thing
i'm the opposite of afraid of commitment
i'm afraid of people not being as committed as I am

We've probably just had different experiences
My ex-bf was planning on going to a different college than where he wanted to go just because I wanted to go there. He was planning on us moving into an apartment together basically the day I turned 18

That kind of shit scared me. Especially when I was still trying to figure out if I'm romantically attracted to people

@actual-fandom-trash

I missed the percy jackson convo :((
also hot take: PJO was better than HP but people saw that it was more marketed towards children and immediately decided it was "lesser"

also, love is weird but I think that's a little bit of its beauty. I don't think there's necessarily a "right person" cuz honestly it gets to how much effort you're willing to put into it

@Moxie group

Oh the percy jackson convo is permanently ongoing please feel free to share any and all thoughts with the calss

@The-N-U-T-Cracker

My mom met my father in late high school, didn’t get married until around college
i may not be an expert on relationships but considering their 25th anniversary was a few months ago, they’re nearing their 50s, and mom still exclusively picks her favorite songs based on how much they remind her of my dad, refuses to let him leave without goodbye hugs, and still fangirls over his guitar playing like a 16-year-old at a kpop concert, while i still hear dad whisper “how did i get so lucky” to himself sometimes and constantly doing everything he can to make mom smile
…i say they’re doing pretty well

@actual-fandom-trash

y'alls parents be in love and it's really wholesome and I'm happy for them while there's a fair chance that my parents had an arranged marriage especially since dating is kinda against our religion

@Fraust

When your parents got married at 19 and are both 41 when their oldest is 21 and their youngest is almost 16

@Althalosian-is-the-father book

Also. Love isn't just some magical feeling. It takes time. It takes work. But if you're both committed to the relationship and you're both committed to hearing each other and making it work then I think it could work.

Yes! This is the tea! Love is wayyyyy more than a feeling. The feeling always cools at some point or another. Love is being willing to be caring for that person on the bad days that might stretch out for a while. But the thing is, in my meager personal experience. The passion is great, but after that is even better. It's just… it's like more of a groove where you can chill in pjs and do dumb crap or nothing.

@Althalosian-is-the-father book

Personally, I'm terrified about whether or not I'll ever find the right person.
I really am.
I've been surrounded by love-gone-wrong all my life and I am so fucking scared that'll be me.

Okay. There is no such thing as The One. Very disappointing for me to understand, as I am a romantic. But you can make it work with anyone if you both put in the work. So as long as you find someone that's willing to sacrifice for you, and you aren't a jerk to them, you're grucci. I mean, try to find someone like you, but yeah.

@actual-fandom-trash

Okay Dom is giving solid advice but he misspelled gucci as "grucci" and all I can think about is Despicable Me's Gru saying "it's not gucci, it's grucci"

@actual-fandom-trash

Okay Dom is giving solid advice but he misspelled gucci as "grucci" and all I can think about is Despicable Me's Gru saying "it's not gucci, it's grucci"

That was on purpose.

I love that

@Althalosian-is-the-father book

My mom met my father in late high school, didn’t get married until around college
i may not be an expert on relationships but considering their 25th anniversary was a few months ago, they’re nearing their 50s, and mom still exclusively picks her favorite songs based on how much they remind her of my dad, refuses to let him leave without goodbye hugs, and still fangirls over his guitar playing like a 16-year-old at a kpop concert, while i still hear dad whisper “how did i get so lucky” to himself sometimes and constantly doing everything he can to make mom smile
…i say they’re doing pretty well

Reminds me of my parents. They have a lot of issues bc human. But they have this whole relationship thing down. They still stare at each other and it's so beautiful because you can see how much they love each other.