Honestly, I really wish there was more Ace representation in the media, because seven year old me who kept faking having crushes on boys and felt like a weirdo for not really feeling anything towards anyone, could have really used an Ace role-model.
I guess all of it is scary. I wish I had a family like Chuck's or Collin's sometimes, or at least their openmindedness
I totally get the process your going through too, Collin. (Like Kat said though, not with the gender bit, I can't imagine how hard that must be).
I thought I was straight, then bi, then pan, and it was honestly so confusing. For two whole years I just couldn't figure out what my sexuality was and it left me more then a little messed up.
I finally found out was Asexuality was, and it just clicked.
My point is, you might feel really confused right now, but you just gotta hang in there. You WILL eventually figure everything out,. :)yes def
you will find a click point
I felt a whole lot more comfortable id-ing as ace and biromantic than as bisexual
Even the words "Bi and Pan" didn't feel right. Ace did. You just gotta find the one that feels right.
Honestly, I really wish there was more Ace representation in the media, because seven year old me who kept faking having crushes on boys and felt like a weirdo for not really feeling anything towards anyone, could have really used an Ace role-model.
yeah me too
I didn't get my first crush until I was 14
and I was totally faking it
and then my first real crush I was like 15
but my crushes rarely last more than a few months (and I've had 4 total)
Oh, hey, that actually kind of sounds like me.
My family isn't really open-minded at all, but I think they would probably be ok if I came out as Ace. Just know Collin, even if they don't except you, there is a heck of a lot of people who will, including us.
Oh, hey, that actually kind of sounds like me.
Really?
YEp
And if they give you crap, let me know. I will end them
I guess all of it is scary. I wish I had a family like Chuck's or Collin's sometimes, or at least their openmindedness
oof I def get it
I'm closeted as heck
but like (idk how old you are, I'm guessing around the same age)
once you're financially independent and moved out of your parents house
I hear it gets much easier
like it's never easy
but you know
you're less likely to have your life fall apart if your fam doesn't support you
ALSO:: your family is on a learning curve too
I had a really big one when my older brother came out to me
as did my parents
It's less of a sexuality thing that a gender thing… The sexuality is confusing but I could tell my parents rn that I was gay… my gender would affect me physically and they dont understand that it wont personally. They would never let me be me if they knew
COLLIN WE ACCEPT YOU AS YOU ARE
violently accepts Collin
heads up I might have to leave in a few minutes and I might not get to say bye
so if I drop off the face of the earth
that's why
(just going to family's house to eat dinner and make my bday cake and then eat it lol :D, even tho my bday isn't until tomorrow)
vicious hugs
COLLIN I ACCEPT YOU MY CHILD
I haven't had a real crush till now, and it was always me telling myself that 'ohhhh I like this boy' or 'ooooh that boy is cute'
Lol
Girls rock, boys rock
But I'm more into girls
COLLIN WE ACCEPT YOU AS YOU ARE
violently accepts Collin
whispers it's Coluck's friend Kim on Collin's account
It's less of a sexuality thing that a gender thing… The sexuality is confusing but I could tell my parents rn that I was gay… my gender would affect me physically and they dont understand that it wont personally. They would never let me be me if they knew
I'm so sorry to hear that!!!
heads up I might have to leave in a few minutes and I might not get to say bye
so if I drop off the face of the earth
that's why
(just going to family's house to eat dinner and make my bday cake and then eat it lol :D, even tho my bday isn't until tomorrow)
Happy early birthday!!!!!!!
Oh, hey, that actually kind of sounds like me.
Really?
Yeah, I've never really wanted to have sex, and I've never really had a crush on someone, unless it was something small.
I haven't had a real crush till now, and it was always me telling myself that 'ohhhh I like this boy' or 'ooooh that boy is cute'
Lol
Girls rock, boys rock
But I'm more into girls
okay same
but I'm more into boys
bi-ness is fluid y'all
COLLIN WE ACCEPT YOU AS YOU ARE
violently accepts Collinwhispers it's Coluck's friend Kim on Collin's account
MY BAD
VIOLENTLY ACCEPTS WHOMEVER IS USING COLLIN'S ACCOUNT
I'm gonna have to leave ._.
Oh, hey, that actually kind of sounds like me.
Really?
Yeah, I've never really wanted to have sex, and I've never really had a crush on someone, unless it was something small.
well in that case
you may be ace!
I'm gonna have to leave ._.
oof bye sly
we love you