forum Anyone want a British friend? https://www.notebook.ai/forum/general-chat/did-you-know-lostboy2
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Deleted user

I'm still going through, trying to read all 41 pages of this thing!

You don't have to do that.

Deleted user

So did Chuck tell you about our one friend that doesn’t feel comfortable being female but she’s trapped because of family stuff?

Deleted user

I know this is a big and strange thing to ask but she’s here rn. Can you guys talk to her about the situation? She’s really been struggling and you guys are good with this kind of thing.

Deleted user

So, Collin's and Chuck's friend, what do you want to talk about? Collin said you're not comfortable being female, can you elaborate?

Deleted user

Pretty much, I was born female and it's just I don't know… Right?

Deleted user

Pretty much, I was born female and it's just I don't know… Right?

So you're not sure about your gender identity basically? Or is it something else?

Deleted user

I wear T-shirts. I'm horribly uncomfortable in girly clothing. Just thinking about it makes me sick but thinking about being trans freaks me out too. I know what my family would think… To put it lightly they wouldn't support it. But I look in the mirror and I don't see what other people see.

@Pandapocalypse

I wear T-shirts. I'm horribly uncomfortable in girly clothing. Just thinking about it makes me sick but thinking about being trans freaks me out too. I know what my family would think… To put it lightly they wouldn't support it. But I look in the mirror and I don't see what other people see.

Well, I think that if you know who you are, you should be that person. Be who you want to be!

@Crisis

Hello, friend! I was also born female, and it isn't right. Although, I'm genderfluid so it's a bit different. Something that's helped me is establishing an identity outside of my home where my parents won't find out, which happens to be on notebook.ai. By establishing an identity, even it's not at all times, you have an outlet to express yourself how you want to, not how you're allowed to. Whether it's a blog, just in a group of friends, etc, it helps to keep balance between what you want and what you are allowed to do.

Deleted user

I can't be him. I can't change. I wish I was born differently but that doesn't mean I can change now and it's hard

Deleted user

I wear T-shirts. I'm horribly uncomfortable in girly clothing. Just thinking about it makes me sick but thinking about being trans freaks me out too. I know what my family would think… To put it lightly they wouldn't support it. But I look in the mirror and I don't see what other people see.

(If you don't mind me asking) why does the idea of being trans freak you out? Is it just because of how your family would react, or is it also the concept?