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Started January 17, 2019 by @The-N-U-T-Cracker

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It sounds like they're doing this to fit in with the 'other people' who do this a lot; maybe they're being peer pressured into it? Unless you can see your best friend doing this on her own…

You should probably call the police, since they're under the legal drinking age. They might hate you for it, but in the end it's what's best for them.

I know I should but I also don't wanna loose them cause I have known them since forever and I don't have that many friends in my school… ugh this is hard

It sounds like they're doing this to fit in with the 'other people' who do this a lot; maybe they're being peer pressured into it? Unless you can see your best friend doing this on her own…

No, they totally want to do this. I don't even know if the others are gonna be at the party.

I get it too. A lot of my friends are into drugs, and the best thing you can do is watch out for them, especially if that means police intervention, and (I don't mean to sound corny) love them even if they're being absolute idiots.

Then why does she want to do it? Does it make her feel cool? Or does it make her forget stuff and feel happy? What type of person is she, that would cause her to turn to alcohol?

I get it too. A lot of my friends are into drugs, and the best thing you can do is watch out for them, especially if that means police intervention, and (I don't mean to sound corny) love them even if they're being absolute idiots.

(Minus the first bit I totally agree….)

You could show them facts and research. And give them warnings. Tell them if they don't stop you will first tell their parents then the cops. It may sound like your a rattle tail but it is for their own good and personal health.

You could show them facts and research. And give them warnings. Tell them if they don't stop you will first tell their parents then the cops. It may sound like your a rattle tail but it is for their own good and personal health.

I agree

You could show them facts and research. And give them warnings. Tell them if they don't stop you will first tell their parents then the cops. It may sound like your a rattle tail but it is for their own good and personal health.

I agree

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Then why does she want to do it? Does it make her feel cool? Or does it make her forget stuff and feel happy? What type of person is she, that would cause her to turn to alcohol?

I don't even know anymore… we live in a pretty rich area (she lives just at the edge of it) and she and her other friends sees us as posh, fancy kids that are just assholes. All I can think of is that she want to not be like us. Her other friends doesn't even know us or care about our personalitys, they just see us as assholes because of the area we live in. That other friends lives in my area too and she has started to act just like them…

You could show them facts and research. And give them warnings. Tell them if they don't stop you will first tell their parents then the cops. It may sound like your a rattle tail but it is for their own good and personal health.

The facts and research part I have done a billion times. And about the other part… I know, I'm a coward, but I would hate to loose them over a fight like that.

If you haven't called the police yet, CALL THEM

I don't even know where the party is gonna be… I can't call the police to tell them that there is a party somewhere…

What about her parents?

Don't have their number

Go over to her house and tell them in person?

Next time you're with them, make sure they're phone batteries are dead and then be like "hey do you guys wanna leave now" or "hey let's go somewhere else" so they have to text or call their parents on your phone. Then add whatever numbers into your contacts

Update on this: I had a pretty bad fight with them and then I called them stupid and they thought I was mean and I said that I don't care if I'm mean or not, they didn't answer me for two hours… I texted them just now and they are crazy drunk but they are okay and things seem fine for the moment… I can't really go over to their house cause it's pretty far from here and I have no transportation. But since it seems fine for the moment I'm gonna text them every fifteen minutes/half an hour or so to check in on them and if things seem to get bad I'll have to find a way to get there…

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I hope your friend's okay and you find a way to make her stop…

Next time you're with them, make sure they're phone batteries are dead and then be like "hey do you guys wanna leave now" or "hey let's go somewhere else" so they have to text or call their parents on your phone. Then add whatever numbers into your contacts

Actually a really smart plan, but they don't have to text or call their parents before they go somewhere.

Hey. I hope everything works out OK for you and your friends dear. I am here for you! And that's a good plan, try to keep in touch with them

I think I'm finally (almost) over my cold. I've had it since last Thursday so for about 4 days

Hey. I hope everything works out OK for you and your friends dear. I am here for you! And that's a good plan, try to keep in touch with them

Thanks Shuri, it means a lot. I'm just so worried, I don't want something to happen to them. I mean, if something happened and I know that I could have stopped them? I dunno. I just wish they thought some more about the consecquences…

Do you have their passwords? Cause you could break into their phones and get it. Or ask them for their parents numbers bc your parents want it

… j don't think you should break into anyone's property