forum What to do when you like a human
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@Crisis

So
I, a human
Like another human
And my friend, who is also a human
Told this human that I like them
And this human said something yesterday that I regret not responding to and now I can´t stop thinking about it
(It was not lovey-dovey human crap, so don´t get excited.)

@Yamatsu

Why'd you come looking for relationship advice out here? We're all antisocial, clueless, a hot mess, or some unholy amalgamation of the three. You'd do better looking in a phonebook!

@Crisis

Why'd you come looking for relationship advice out here? We're all antisocial, clueless, a hot mess, or some unholy amalgamation of the three. You'd do better looking in a phonebook!

Cool, thanks for the advice. But I don't even really want a relationship, I want to know how to get over this and stop my stomach from doing flips every time I think about going to fourth hour because now he knows

@HighPockets group

Why'd you come looking for relationship advice out here? We're all antisocial, clueless, a hot mess, or some unholy amalgamation of the three. You'd do better looking in a phonebook!

I AM ALL THREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FEAR ME!!!!!!

@Becfromthedead group

I mean, honestly, if he knows, just talk to him about it. I was on the opposite side of this situation, and I was anxious to have him talk to me because we were friends and I didn't want things to be awkward.

@Overdoneyanoveltropeyesplease

I believe that if you really want something to happen, you should say something, but only if you are prepared for all the possible outcomes. I have a crush on a friend of mine. I wrote him a letter and I’m considering giving it to him on Friday. I have faith that if we don’t end up together, then we will remain friends. He knows that I have a crush on him, and he hasn’t said anything, so that’s why I think it will be okay.
If you feel like if it ends in rejection you will still be okay, then definitely go for it.

@Yamatsu

Yeah. As hopeless of a romantic I may be, you're better off just being forward about it. Besides, you may be dealing with a dense harem anime protagonist and he is thinking of something else.

@Crisis

just act chill about it. Do you know if this human likes you back or not?

Eep I don't think so
I know who he does like though
And my friend said he's 'chill' about me having a crush on him
Like
What does that mean?
But I really don't think he likes me

@Crisis

I believe that if you really want something to happen, you should say something, but only if you are prepared for all the possible outcomes. I have a crush on a friend of mine. I wrote him a letter and I’m considering giving it to him on Friday. I have faith that if we don’t end up together, then we will remain friends. He knows that I have a crush on him, and he hasn’t said anything, so that’s why I think it will be okay.
If you feel like if it ends in rejection you will still be okay, then definitely go for it.

I really don't know if a relationship is a good idea, though. And congrats! I wish you luck, if you do end up giving him the letter

@Crisis

Do it. Respond. Live your life.

I told him to suck it and he said 'you know you would'
And I just kinda
Froze up and started drawing
I regret not telling him to fuck of bc then I wouldn't seem prissy or cowardly
We act pretty friendly I guess
He says that kinda shit to everyone

@Crisis

Yeah. As hopeless of a romantic I may be, you're better off just being forward about it. Besides, you may be dealing with a dense harem anime protagonist and he is thinking of something else.

That was phrased kinda oddly and the whole sense harem anime protagonist thing threw me off

@faltering_through pets

This isn't advice, but it's something I do when I have a crush on someone. Avoid eye contact, anti stalk them, walk really fast when they get near so I won't have a heart attack and then have a melt down at the end of the day for doing all that

@Overdoneyanoveltropeyesplease

This isn't advice, but it's something I do when I have a crush on someone. Avoid eye contact, anti stalk them, walk really fast when they get near so I won't have a heart attack and then have a melt down at the end of the day for doing all that

Low key high key me in middle school

@SaltyLasagna

just act chill about it. Do you know if this human likes you back or not?

Eep I don't think so
I know who he does like though
And my friend said he's 'chill' about me having a crush on him
Like
What does that mean?
But I really don't think he likes me

that means he just doesn't feel weird about it. He might not like you back, and I know that stings, but it's a good thing he's not going to let it screw up your friendship

@Becfromthedead group

just act chill about it. Do you know if this human likes you back or not?

Eep I don't think so
I know who he does like though
And my friend said he's 'chill' about me having a crush on him
Like
What does that mean?
But I really don't think he likes me

Oof this sounds so familiar. Again, I was on the other side of the situation in my case (aka his side), and talking about it helped. It doesn’t have to end in dating, but it can. Definitely say something to him though. I don’t mean a confession or anything, just like a, “Hey, we’re good, right? Nothing’s awkward?” And if you’re not ready for a relationship that’s cool. If things turn out differently, and you do start dating, that’s cool too.

@Crisis

This isn't advice, but it's something I do when I have a crush on someone. Avoid eye contact, anti stalk them, walk really fast when they get near so I won't have a heart attack and then have a melt down at the end of the day for doing all that

Low key high key me in middle school

Oh my gosh mood

@Crisis

just act chill about it. Do you know if this human likes you back or not?

Eep I don't think so
I know who he does like though
And my friend said he's 'chill' about me having a crush on him
Like
What does that mean?
But I really don't think he likes me

that means he just doesn't feel weird about it. He might not like you back, and I know that stings, but it's a good thing he's not going to let it screw up your friendship

Yeah, I'm kinda glad he doesn't like me back. I like our sort-of-weird-and-rude friendship, and I'd totally screw that up