forum The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :) Part 2!

Started September 25, 2020 by @Moxie group

tune

I just hear whatever i like.
Which would be broadway, pop, meme songs, some rap, etc.

Current vibe is wondering how I was ever happy with long hair

That is a mood. Still waiting to be able to cut my hair. My best friend is doing it for me.

Me: cuts hair, doesn’t like being called anything super feminine, refused to wear makeup for most of my life
My parents: “ah yes, our lovely daughter”
Me: n o

That’s relatable. Except I don’t want to be called either son nor daughter…

I've been dropping small hints by not using any gendered terms when I can get away with it, for me and them
I love my medium length hair, mini ponytail for life, but I want to get a different cut
just
shave the sides off, and have a long floppy cut in the middle top that I could potentially part down the middle to do a bob cut or tie it back like a man or swept to one side like a boss

I take all gendered terms. Just not familial terms. That’s just ew to me. I don’t like being labeled as firmly one thing and one thing only. My gender is a fluctuation, Iwish people who treat it as such. But NO! “PICK SOMETHING, DANI!”

Okay, so I ID as cis female, but I really really hate being referred to as terms like "ms.", "ma'am," etc. It just feels bad and wrong. Is that like a normal thing?

Honestly that’s fair. People experience gender differently and that’s okay.

Honestly, I’m not surprised. A lot of my cis female friends/acquaintances hate being called those terms. I felt the same, but it might just be me being queer.

Yeah, I figured as much lol. It might be a queer thing? Like I'm a cis woman, but I sometimes dress more masculine or neutral, and I have a pretty loose relationship with my femininity. Like I'm just vibing.
I think "ms/mr/mrs" hits me the wrong way the most, and I can't explain why. And I don't like the gender neutral "mx" either. I'd rather be addressed by my first name tbh. Don't really care that it's supposed to show formality or respect.

I'm also a cis female but I've never minded being called other pronouns. I don't like ma'am or miss either cuz it's just too formal for my taste.

I like being called Mx and Doctor, but I don't have a phd so no Doctor for me

Off-topic - I want to work at Discord.

I used to dislike Mx., since I thought it sounded silly being my only option for a title. Then I was still coming to terms with being non binary, and stepping out of the binary was awkward. Now I love it. I like that when I use Mx. people can tell it's purposely not binary. Suits me :)

Personally, instead of Mx., I usually use m'theydy for the nonbinary folks

So my dad has started misgendering me again… yayyyyy sarcasm

Oh yeah, I love gentlethem and m'theydy, but for like formal stuff Mx. is what I can put on papers lol

Sooooooooooo
Guess who just had an amazing night?
My best friend (who’s trans mtf) visited from out of state and we just v i b e d

N I C E

IM GOING TO AN AMUSEMENT PARK TOMORROW SO ROLLER COASTERS HERE I FREAKIN COME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAUNTED HOUSES? HECK YES!! SPINNY RIDES? ALSO HECK YES?? THE BIG UP AND DOWN RIDE THAT MAKES MY STOMACH TO FLIPS?? HECKITY TO THE YESSITY!!!!!

I’m slightly late for the Mx. discussion, but my artist name/tag/pseudonym is Mx. Cosmocrat but I’m still debating on using it as my real life suffix

Me: cuts hair, doesn’t like being called anything super feminine, refused to wear makeup for most of my life
My parents: “ah yes, our lovely daughter”
Me: n o

Me: a n g e r y

Also on the topic of songs
Saline Solution by Wilbur Soot actually hits :)

Also on the topic of songs
Saline Solution by Wilbur Soot actually hits :)

actually
scratch that
his whole album hits

The joy I feel currently is actually quite a lot

One of my favorite fanfics has an asexual main character

And he just so happens to be one of my favorite characters

Am happy with the representation

Guys it got better
The author is ace too

I just spent 5 minutes looking for this so I could tell y'all this