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@kat_i_am

honestly natasha I just read your thing about LGBT+ and I get it and I respect it and thank you for being a v good example of Christ : D

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honestly natasha I just read your thing about LGBT+ and I get it and I respect it and thank you for being a v good example of Christ : D

…Natasha is Christ? (Joking).

@Natasha

honestly natasha I just read your thing about LGBT+ and I get it and I respect it and thank you for being a v good example of Christ : D

You are welcome ^u^

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honestly natasha I just read your thing about LGBT+ and I get it and I respect it and thank you for being a v good example of Christ : D

You are welcome ^u^

What thing?

@kat_i_am

honestly natasha I just read your thing about LGBT+ and I get it and I respect it and thank you for being a v good example of Christ : D

You are welcome ^u^

What thing?

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okay
I'll delete the thing then

What thing are you deleting?

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Honestly I'm going to say this
I don't really believe in LGTB+ and it does make me slightly uncomfortable
But I really don't get why people say that if you fall in that category that you're going to hell
I mean really I just don't get it
I had a really enlightening conversation with a youth pastor recently regarding all that stuff
And all you LGTB+ people, I respect you and will accept you
Because I'm not going to be that jerk who makes life miserable for everyone
Okay my rant is over. Thank you for listening.

I see your rant now, thanks for being okay with people like me! (Heh heh heh smiles) I will try not to bring up anything that might offend you, but sometimes I might slip up, just let me know if I do and I'll fix it.

@Natasha

M'kay, will do
Thanks for also accepting me
The young child who has a lot to say and might not always say it in the right way

@kat_i_am

M'kay, will do
Thanks for also accepting me
The young child who has a lot to say and might not always say it in the right way

no, yeah dude, it's totally okay
I was exactly like you once tbh
but uh then I realized that I am LGBTQ+ so uh yeah that was fun lol
but I totally relate

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How does one know if they are LGBTQ… I am a confuzzled child. I confuse myself.

It's hard to explain……

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How does one know if they are LGBTQ… I am a confuzzled child. I confuse myself.

Um….well….do you feel straight? And cis-gendered? XD sorry, I'm not sure.

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Lol. Nah I know I'm cis gendered. I'm questioning whether I'm aromatic or not.

Welp. I am, so maybe I can help? Describe what you feel.

@kat_i_am

How does one know if they are LGBTQ… I am a confuzzled child. I confuse myself.

We all go through a questioning process (in fact, the Q stand for both queer and questioning)
when I started really learning more about the community (specifically bisexuality) I was like… I kinda might be that? Girls are really cute? so I was questioning for several months (it got really intense during pride month (june) 2017) and then at the end of july, I told my ace best friend that I was questioning. And over the next few weeks things just kinda clicked in my brain and my heart.
As for figuring out that I was asexual, I was actually consciously self id-ing with a sexuality now. But like, the more I thought about having sex with girls I was like… no that's not right for me I'm not into that. but like… they're cute and I wouldn't mind kissing them? And I realized I felt the same way about boys, I just wasn't feeling any sexual attraction towards anyone.
and I also learned about how aces rarely get crushes and often get crushes later in life, and, having a total of 4 crushes in my lifetime, with the first when I was 14 or 15, I was like, yep, this makes sense, this is who I am.
And being Christian and LGBTQ+ I've def had to go through a lot of reconciliation between two sides of my identity.
Anyways, it's a process. Don't rush it. And if you're questioning, and you realize you're cis/het, then don't worry about it- that's cool too =D

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I gtg now y'all

G'night

Night, dad! hugs Sly love you <3

@ShadeStar

Lol it's fine and okay. I've never really been into like romantic relationships and stuff. And my last crush was a few years back, during a weird phase in life. So I figured I might be ace, but then I remembered I've always been a pretty sexual person so I'm thinking romance is more of my no go. So yeah, aromatic is probably me.

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aww thanks lol
good night Alice!

Are you leaving, Kat?