If you want to answer a few basic questions, I want to see what kind of people most writers on here are. Are we similar? Are we all very different?
Q: Are you goal-oriented or people-oriented?
Q: Are you best with learning hands-on, visual (including reading), or listening?
Q: Do you tend to zone out (or daydream) a lot, or are you fairly grounded most days?
Q: Do you like to relax or to be at work?
Q: Do you have very strong empathy, or difficulty connecting with the feelings of others?
Q: Do you prefer being talked to bluntly and to the point, or kindly and understandingly? How do you like to talk?
Q: Do you act differently at home versus in public? Do you act differently with different people?
Huh, I didn't expect a lot of "depends" actually. There's nothing you lean toward most of the time? That last depends technically means "yes" though I think, since either you act the same everywhere or you don't.
What I mean is, I act pretty much however I want, where I want, when I want, with who I want, though my behaviour tends to stay the same, there are times when I'm different.
Yeah I think both makes sense. The reason I asked is because while I thought I was really good at reading people for the longest time, I was pretty insensitive and hurt people's feelings a lot… Which I guess meant I had weak empathy.
A: I believe I am some form of medium leaning more towards goals. I strive to achieve my goals but I also desire that relationship, not particularly a romantic one; that Sam and Dean type of relationship,
A: hands on, no question.
A: I find it difficult to focus on one single thing, that's a reason why writing comes so difficult for me, my mind is constantly spouting all these random ideas and I can't stay straight on one story.
A: I see frustration and peace in both choices.
A: empathy has always been difficult for me, I have a tough time putting myself in others shoes.
A: I try to act understanding and polite but can sometimes come of rude due to the fact that I'm usually too distracted by literally everything else happening around me.
A: around people Iact containted and stiff. At home I relax a lot more but I'm still pretty contained.
- I’m more goal-oriented, but my goals usually have something to do with people.
- I’m best with visual learning.
- I always zone out. Even when I’m daydreaming, my mind will stray from that.
- Most of the time I like staying in bed, but my favorite thing is being productive while in bed. I mean creating stuff or drawing or online shopping.
- I’m really good at connecting with people, but I can’t seem to feel what they’re feeling or imagine what they’re thinking.
- I think I talk bluntly and kindly, and I prefer being talked to kindly. I do like destructive criticism over constructive, because I feel like people are being condescending with constructive criticism.
- I’m crazier at school than at home. When I’m in a group of people that I half know, I won’t talk, but if I’m at a sleepover with my friends, I am the most insane person you will ever meet and I won’t stop talking.
(@Paperok do I see some Supernatural references? 🤔)
