forum For my fellow nonstrait peeps

Started September 12, 2018 by @Bremston

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Hi, I need help, I am going to tell my mom that I am pan and need help, anyone got any advice?

cough i havent come out to my family soo cough

oh, well that's helpful! lol
Well maybe you can ben-a-fit from this too.

I haven't come out to my family either… they would absolutely hate me though, so I can't… they're extremely religious and I'm afraid of what they'd do if I told them I'm bi…

Oh, you poor thing well we all shall help each other, so if you don't mind everyone say your sexuality please

Me, I'm Pansexaual

pan·sex·u·al
panˈsekSH(əw)əl/Submit
adjective
1.
not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.

though i would not date someone I am related too. lol

I'm bi and prob ace too
you guys prob already know what that means so I won't explain

oh hey Gabby I found a site you might want to look at.
http://www.whatisasexuality.com/am-i-ace/teen/

lol i know what ace is im good

I know but still I thought it was cool!

yeah I read through it
sounds like me

There is more than just what it is! It's saying… well a lot of facts and different things. So if someone wants to learn about ace just go to that sight!

I haven't come out to my family either… they would absolutely hate me though, so I can't… they're extremely religious and I'm afraid of what they'd do if I told them I'm bi…

Hey, it's ok so are mine, well other than my step mom and I am going to try to come out to her today that's why I made this! So… we are all here to help each other.

I havn't come out to my parents either, but it's not that I'm scared that they won't be ok with it, it's just…
how do I bring it up in a conversation?

It's hard!

basically my plan is to suddenly have a gf then tell them
then
they'll be like "whatttt a GIRLFRIEND??"
and I'll be like "yeah im bi" then walk away

lol yeah that'll sure work. But thing is when will you get this 'girlfriend' of yours?

idk

prob never lol

I came out to my family in a very low-key way. I first asked my mom what she thought of the community and she legit said she would love me no matter who I date/love, as long as they're a nice and respectful person. I asked my dad the same thing and he said the exact same response that my mother had. I later came out to my family as Demi-pan and explained to them what that meant. They were fine with me and my sexuality.

But I also have super accepting and loving parents so really it depends on what type of people your parents are.

my dad actually casually brings it up in a lot of conversation cause he thiks guys are dicks and I should just be a lesbian… so yeah I have v accepting parents

Thank you. We needed someone who actually came out. lol