So, those of you from the crush post will know about my buddy Tam and how he family-zoned me and now I'm like a sister to him. Yeah, nothings wrong there. No, the problem is his most recent ex. She basically stalks him around school and to his work. Here's the thing… This tart biscuit was maybe a month into a relationship with Tam. Then, and ex of hers, Ty, who had proposed to her before, proposes to her again. This tart biscuit runs off with Ty. Then, when it all goes wrong, she becomes desperate for a boyfriend and runs back to Tam. It's been a couple of months now, and she's still tailing him. Saying, "I said I'm sorry multiple times now! Gosh!" Like, sorry cuts it. She's basically stalking him at this point. I'm going to tell her off and maybe fight her the next time I see her near Tam. My question for you all is, "Does sorry cut it here? Or, do I have every right to tell her off?"
"Yeah I'm a pacifist. Meaning, I'm about to pass a fist across your face." - one of my favorite quotes
I might be a bad person to ask, because I'm all for telling her off. Don't be TOO mean of course, just explain how creepy she's being and ask her to leave him alone. If she refuses, talk to Tam about it. In fact, you might want to talk to Tam about what he thinks about the whole thing anyway… communication is key.
@Masterkey Oh, I have spoken to Tam about it. He's told her to go away so many times. He's straight up trying to ignore her like she's not there now, but she keeps coming back. He's hot headed and aggressive. So, it's getting to the point where he's going to punch her. He's so done with this. I'm so done with this.
Then tell her off, and consider getting a restraining order. XD
@Masterkey I like your style!
shurikenwolfbadass_13 Thanks, haha ;)
I'm not sure how old any of you are (not that it truly matters!) But if this is in high school he can have a 'restraining order' placed on her within the school. Least, that worked for me when I had a tailing ex - long story. If you're beyond high school and it's getting to the super annoying point, maybe have everyone have a sit down with a few other adults and talk about options. Clearly she's not over him and might need a few people to tell her to cool her jets and remind her there's other fish out there etc. If that doesn't work, have the discussion with her that there are other steps that could be taken that could become legal charges against her. At least, that's what Dear Abby said about a similar case, she's full of advice!
@Masterkey Oh, I'm going to.
@Duckie Thanks for the advice, but Tam has tried talking calm with her. None of us are really friends with her; she actually showed up out of nowhere. And, I've heard her talk with her friends, and she's actually just complaining about how she "can't be single". She's beyond reason.
Tell her off. Cut her no slack. One of my friends is dating this girl that I can’t stand, but he won’t listen to me when I tell him she’s not a good person, and it’s SO ANNOYING!!!
@@jynandor Oh, I'm waiting for the moment she does something. Then, I'm going to verbally assault her.
Legal action?
Fully ignore her and report her, I say.
She sounds nuts. Poor Tam.
@Alex Peach Yeah. I haven't seen her around Tam in while, but I'm still ready. Every time I do see her, it puts me on edge.
