We need to fix our site, we really do. We're withering within negativity, doubt, and toxicity. Guys, it doesn't have to be like this
But only so much can happen at once, and right now, I think that the best thing for this site is to 1) Get a blocking feature for trolls/creepy people 2) For everyone to calmly chill off the General Forums.
It is rather upsetting, as others said before, that nothing other then General Chat and Roleplay forums are being used. If some people on this thread focused a small bit of their energy into building each other's abilities up in the worldbuilding and writing chats, I'm certain a lot of toxicity will fade away. The best cure for negative emotions is moving past them. Instead of taking down this website like others have been saying, we should work together to build it back up past all this drama.
Working together, being patient and caring for one another is the best way to clear this all up.
OGs, let's be mentors to the new generations, let's show them how this site works, give them tips on writing and worldbuilding.
New gens, come to us, help each other, use your writing experiences to make this site a better place.
We're all amazing people, we can do this.
Truly inspiring, Constance, and you're right. Things like drama only have power if you acknowledge them. And while negativity needs to get vented out, it should be in a healthy way. I agree wholeheartedly and am here to do my part in the matter. Thank you for this.
E X A C T L Y!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Agreed! Bumping this thread up!
I actually talked to andrew (Our Supreme Lord and Overseer) about this
I don’t consider myself an OG of the site, but I totally agree. I pledge to stop shoving my depression and self doubts in everyone’s faces like I’ve been told I tend to do. I will no longer make jokes that can be somewhat offensive stop referencing the cool cat movies, stay near my home, the Video Games page and back away from other peoples issues as much as possible without making it see, like I’m flat out ignoring the, Which I apologize for.
Hey, it's okay. As long as we all try to do better and divert the attention back to what this site is for, it is okay. No need to be so harsh on yourself.
My nEGATIVITY has been pushing me to do better to become someone better which in return boosted my self esteem a little bit. I miss its former state, it took only 4 months of me being active for the site to take a one eighty…
Yeah, it took actailspin. But I'm truly confident that we can all steer this thing back up to its former glory!
It's not just your fault, everyone is guilty, but everyone can help turn it back around. :)
It's not just your fault, everyone is guilty, but everyone can help turn it back around. :)
You know, I really like your attitude, Constance! You've been a true inspiration to me today! Thank you!
I think the first step would to be restarting the General Chat and Roleplay Chat thing all together then restarting with a fresh new take on everyone. If someone isn’t as skilled, instead of being ignored, they should be helped out a little to push them in the right direction Which I do. No person will have this reputation of Bad RPer or Bad mean person like some do, if anyone should have titles like this it should be me, since I do take things to far and I’m not great at RPing myself.
Huge hecking agree og my gosh this needs to be said
No person will have this reputation of Bad RPer or Bad mean person
You're right, I think sometimes when people criticise others here they forget that there are a lot of young users on this website who are learning to write well and recognise social norms. And some are quite sheltered as well.
Yes, and the general chat forums aren't made for just trolling and making useless chats. Please take that into consideration. This website is for writing and everyone knows that. Just please respect what it's made for. (also i'm not saying you can't give advice or just talk to each other in general, just no trolling please.)
No person will have this reputation of Bad RPer or Bad mean person
You're right, I think sometimes when people criticise others here they forget that there are a lot of young users on this website who are learning to write well and recognise social norms. And some are quite sheltered as well.
Yeah, there are a lot of young, sheltered users here. I notice sometimes older users show disdain towards them too.
Thanks kmart for reminding me of what I was going to say.
Does it seem like that part of the issue is what people expect this website to be? I started using this in the hope it would be a good alternative for /r/worldbuilding on Reddit, while others are here for the roleplaying/socialisation etc.
I think the first step would to be restarting the General Chat and Roleplay Chat thing all together then restarting with a fresh new take on everyone. If someone isn’t as skilled, instead of being ignored, they should be helped out a little to push them in the right direction Which I do. No person will have this reputation of Bad RPer or Bad mean person like some do, if anyone should have titles like this it should be me, since I do take things to far and I’m not great at RPing myself.
I don't think we need to restart the forums, what we need to restart is our attitudes. The forums aren't to blame, they never have been. Fix ourselves so we can help fix our site!
I disagree about restarting everything/purging the chats because there are plenty that are relevant/important, and it's not fair to take those away, but I agree that we should fix ourselves up.
I disagree about restarting everything/purging the chats because there are plenty that are relevant/important, and it's not fair to take those away, but I agree that we should fix ourselves up.
Definitely! We could honestly all use a break or something like that to adjust ourselves!
I disagree about restarting everything/purging the chats because there are plenty that are relevant/important, and it's not fair to take those away, but I agree that we should fix ourselves up.
Agree, there's been lots of good discussion as well as bad. If worst comes to worst, maybe andrew (Our Supreme Lord and Overseer) could create a view only board and put all of the general chat in there?
