@KalamariCakes
I was friends with this person for close to a decade. We're both juniors in high school, and a lot has changed for my in the past year, especially my personality. While I've grown wildly different—from being a shelled introvert to a much more socially relaxed and open one—she has remained relatively the same. Because of this, we grew apart and began to butt heads.
We've led very different lives; her family has been extremely supportive and (overly) positive, and has a tendency to perform responsibilities for her, while on my end I've learned to do most everything on my own and my trust is not so swift. She's hurt much easier by things I would usually not blink twice at, which has been nice in the past in regards to her empathy, but because of it I felt I couldn't be honest with her.
I asked her for space, and our terms were settled (at least I thought) on mutual ground. However, she claimed I was trying to push her away from "all her friends" (two people at our homeroom table; I have seen her talk to them only a handful of times over the course of three years. I asked her to move one seat over. She would have actually been closer to them), and proceeded to eradicate my only ride to the school we go to. Because of that, I struggled to find a way to school for about two months, constantly under the threat of having to move schools. Those aforementioned friends now look at me like a stranger, I don't know what they've been told. She pushed me to the other side of the homeroom classroom.
Even so, she refuses to respect my wishes and cease contact with me. She has hurt my feelings very deeply and I doubt I could forgive her for acting the way she has.
Can anyone help me figure out how to address her constant messaging? It's via notebook, so I can't block her. She won't listen to any of my pleading. Any otheradvice regarding these events would be immensely appreciated.
