forum Wild and Free (closed)

Started January 25, 2022 by @DancingWithMyDemons business

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(oh my gosh i'm so sorry, i totally knew that, i just suck at remembering people's pronouns, i'm so sorry)

(You’re all good! I’m terrible at remembering stuff too lmao)

( i have a friend who goes by they, but they used to go by he, and was a she for the first 14 years of her life— which I knew them for most of, i accidentally called them her the other day and i thought they'd never forgive me)

(it's all good for people to figure stuff out about themselves, I just wish this world was set up in a whay that made it less complicated for people to do so)

(Yeah, honestly I don’t really get mad when I’m misgendered, like I totally get why. It’s kind of hard to remember.)
(Personally, I just wish it was a more open topic so people could it explore it earlier. That way you wouldn’t have to spend most of your life with pronouns you’re not comfortable with?)
(I just wish gender stereotypes didn’t exist so people just felt more comfortable. It kind of sucks when you’re expected to do stuff that you don’t feel like you should :/)

(Random tangent time amiright :’)

(Exactly, and it's probably sad, but because I'm straight and always been comfortable with that, always found guys attractive, I don't have to think about it on a daily or hourly basis, so it can be even harder to remember…)
(true! people should be able to talk about these things! being totally honest…. I still don't know, as a Christian, where I am on the whole right/ wrong thing, but I do know that if God loves me enough to allow me into heaven when I'm a frick up like i am, then there will definitely be LGBTQ+ people in heaven!!! so i don't think it's my place to make that call. )
(another thing is that we should totally be able to talk about body functions in a non-perverted way. As someone who menstruates, it's absolutely ridiculous that I have to fight just to be able to talk about my health! or that I get looked down upon for doing so and told it's not ladylike, or asked if it's "that time of the month" when i have a bad day.)
(And honestly, gender stereotypes, in general, are truly the worst. Just because I'm cis and find males attractive does not mean that my life's greatest ambition is to be objectified and ask to work kitchen duty!!!)

(haha, yeah, but one that matters)

(Yeah! Honestly, I’m a mess lol. I feel like I’m more masculine, but I still like some feminine things as well.)
(As for that kind of stuff, I’m still not sure. Like women?? Mmm… yes. But guys? I only really like, well, Rodrick XD it’s a very specific kind of guy I like)
(I think so too! It’s really a hassle to explain stuff like that.)

(Exactly. Also, Rodrick is hot, let no one tell you otherwise)

(I tried his eyeliner today, and people keep saying that I look like I'm going to kill someone then laugh.)

(Honestly, darling, that's your natural vibe)

(bows it is indeed)