@ColaOfTheCocaVariety
I didn’t know where else to put this question XD
I didn’t know where else to put this question XD
Ahaha yeeah I cry when I see tears.
I think there's something wrong with me.
Hugs, if that's their thing. Silent comfort by just being with them helps, too.
If they're close to me as in emotionally, I'll beat off everyone else trying to smother them with a base ball bat then quietly sit next to them offering words of encouragement and depending on the person gently rub their back until they spill they're gut's or stop crying usually both. If it's just a person I kinda know crying I'll give them a concerned glance then beat every one except a close friend or two of theirs off with a base ball bat and then keep my distance until I'm sure the friends have it under control then I'll leave it to them. If it's a random stranger I'll offer a concerned glance and a few words of encouragement and a complement and depending on they're response I'll either sit and listen or smile gently at them before going on with my day.
At first, I'm like What the F . U ?c ,,,,, k? Why does the water spill from the ball of which you glimpse out of??
Then I activate my mom friend power and try to comfort them. Keyword: try. Sometimes I make it worse. But other times I get them to feel 10 times better about the situation. It really just depends on how well I know them.
At first, I'm like What the F . U ?c ,,,,, k? Why does the water spill from the ball of which you glimpse out of??
Then I activate my mom friend power and try to comfort them. Keyword: try. Sometimes I make it worse. But other times I get them to feel 10 times better about the situation. It really just depends on how well I know them.
“wHy dOeS wAtEr sPiLl fRoM tHe bAll oF wHiCh yOu gLiMpSe oUt oF??”
I laughed way too hard XD
I typically do not know how to deal with anybody crying at all. I’ve been called I’m good at just listening, so I guess “silent comfort” although it might be annoying to the person.
I myself prefer to be alone when I’m upset like that but it might not apply to everyone. I just notice a lot of people’s first reaction is to bombard them with questions like “are you okay?”
Which I do understand why they’d say that but sometimes you just need those moments of silence to gather yourself.
At first, I'm like What the F . U ?c ,,,,, k? Why does the water spill from the ball of which you glimpse out of??
Then I activate my mom friend power and try to comfort them. Keyword: try. Sometimes I make it worse. But other times I get them to feel 10 times better about the situation. It really just depends on how well I know them.
“wHy dOeS wAtEr sPiLl fRoM tHe bAll oF wHiCh yOu gLiMpSe oUt oF??”
I laughed way too hard XD
Guilty, too.
I myself prefer to be alone when I’m upset like that but it might not apply to everyone. I just notice a lot of people’s first reaction is to bombard them with questions like “are you okay?”
Which I do understand why they’d say that but sometimes you just need those moments of silence to gather yourself.
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(I legit hate it when people say are you ok like if you feel the need to ask the question then the answer is probably no)
(Another thing. A person who is crying is probably embarrassed. They don't want the whole fudging world to comfort them, they need close people, ya know?)
(I literally hate that. If I hurt myself or get upset I don't want to answer because I know you can hear the tears in my voice and hmmmNAH.)
(Exactlyyy. Sometimes it makes me cry harder if there are more people watching, than if I was just left alone.)
(Yeah. Most people who have known me for a while kinda realize I need my space, which is good at least.)
(Hence the beating people off with a base ball bat)
(:D I love the people on this site)
(I love you toooo)
(Ehe, yeah, once I sat backstage and started sobbing because I had to sing a solo. I'M A FUCKING ACTRESS. It was a hard song. I couldn't sing it right. I cried. People comforted me. I cried more. I appreciated it through tears.)
(It's a MENTAL BREAKDOWN DOODOODOODOOOOOOO DOODOODOODOODOOOOO DOODOODOODOOOOO0)
(Y'all should we return to no parentheses or no? Loll)
I’m guessing no one ever expected me of all people to say this but…
I usually give them hugs
And then listen to their problems
But mostly hugs
My heart literally drops and I go to them and most of the time in fine but sometimes I have to try not to cry, and I'll sit with them until they want to talk
Panic
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