forum The tired, gay, sad, and confused chat

Started December 04, 2018 by @basil_

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I don't understand why nobody hugs each other anymore. Hugs are so amazing. My friend hugs me all the time when we're just sitting down and its like, the best thing ever. If I wasn't terrified of everyone I would hug everyone. Do you see my problem?

Honestly same but some people I know don't like physical touch. Personally, I'm really sensual so I love hugs but I totally get if people don't like it and I'm always scared that I'm overstepping a boundary and stuff

Same… I understand that a lot of people just don't like it though…

the notification for this isn't going away for some reason and it's driving me crazy

We should have kept the old bell thing…

Yeah I understand and respect if you don't like hugs or anything, then I won't hug you. But hugs feel so secure, even like, having someones arm around you or like, being close to someone. I like being near people, like big crowds and stuff. They make me feel more safe for some reason.

They make me feel trapped sometimes… it's like I get scared because I feel like they won't let go if I want them to, which is ridiculous because I know that's not the case.

Yeah I understand and respect if you don't like hugs or anything, then I won't hug you. But hugs feel so secure, even like, having someones arm around you or like, being close to someone. I like being near people, like big crowds and stuff. They make me feel more safe for some reason.

That's good! It's a good thing that you feel solace in people, KMart it's a good thing!
Well, do you feel warm? Right now?

Aw i'm sorry..I mean..it's different for everyone so I understand.

Yeah I understand and respect if you don't like hugs or anything, then I won't hug you. But hugs feel so secure, even like, having someones arm around you or like, being close to someone. I like being near people, like big crowds and stuff. They make me feel more safe for some reason.

That's good! It's a good thing that you feel solace in people, KMart it's a good thing!
Well, do you feel warm? Right now?

No, not really..

They make me feel trapped sometimes… it's like I get scared because I feel like they won't let go if I want them to, which is ridiculous because I know that's not the case.

Understandable.

They make me feel trapped sometimes… it's like I get scared because I feel like they won't let go if I want them to, which is ridiculous because I know that's not the case.

Understandable.

there was also this one dude that I really hate that thought forcing me to hug him and kiss him and "playfully" not letting me go when I tell him to was an okay thing to do…

Yeah I understand and respect if you don't like hugs or anything, then I won't hug you. But hugs feel so secure, even like, having someones arm around you or like, being close to someone. I like being near people, like big crowds and stuff. They make me feel more safe for some reason.

That's good! It's a good thing that you feel solace in people, KMart it's a good thing!
Well, do you feel warm? Right now?

No, not really..

Huh… Weird… I could swear I was giving you a virtual hug right now… If you don't feel warm I'll just have to virtual hug you harder…

They make me feel trapped sometimes… it's like I get scared because I feel like they won't let go if I want them to, which is ridiculous because I know that's not the case.

Understandable.

there was also this one dude that I really hate that thought forcing me to hug him and kiss him and "playfully" not letting me go when I tell him to was an okay thing to do…

So you didn't elbow him in the ribs?

Yeah I understand and respect if you don't like hugs or anything, then I won't hug you. But hugs feel so secure, even like, having someones arm around you or like, being close to someone. I like being near people, like big crowds and stuff. They make me feel more safe for some reason.

That's good! It's a good thing that you feel solace in people, KMart it's a good thing!
Well, do you feel warm? Right now?

No, not really..

Huh… Weird… I could swear I was giving you a virtual hug right now… If you don't feel warm I'll just have to virtual hug you harder…

ahahaa thanks shuri ^-^

Yeah I understand and respect if you don't like hugs or anything, then I won't hug you. But hugs feel so secure, even like, having someones arm around you or like, being close to someone. I like being near people, like big crowds and stuff. They make me feel more safe for some reason.

That's good! It's a good thing that you feel solace in people, KMart it's a good thing!
Well, do you feel warm? Right now?

No, not really..

Huh… Weird… I could swear I was giving you a virtual hug right now… If you don't feel warm I'll just have to virtual hug you harder…

ahahaa thanks shuri ^-^

No problem, sweetie! You're awesome!

They make me feel trapped sometimes… it's like I get scared because I feel like they won't let go if I want them to, which is ridiculous because I know that's not the case.

that's exactly what one of my friends explained to me
and i get it. I may be super different, but i totally get it

They make me feel trapped sometimes… it's like I get scared because I feel like they won't let go if I want them to, which is ridiculous because I know that's not the case.

Understandable.

there was also this one dude that I really hate that thought forcing me to hug him and kiss him and "playfully" not letting me go when I tell him to was an okay thing to do…

So you didn't elbow him in the ribs?

I did but he's like 7 feet tall and he thought I was just being "cute and playful" when I was actually lowkey terrified

They make me feel trapped sometimes… it's like I get scared because I feel like they won't let go if I want them to, which is ridiculous because I know that's not the case.

Understandable.

there was also this one dude that I really hate that thought forcing me to hug him and kiss him and "playfully" not letting me go when I tell him to was an okay thing to do…

So you didn't elbow him in the ribs?

I did but he's like 7 feet tall and he thought I was just being "cute and playful" when I was actually lowkey terrified

Well there's another place you can try!

eheehee thanks shuri
my friend does this really cute thing where she puts her head in the crook of my elbow and then I hug her head and its so fun 😊

eheehee thanks shuri
my friend does this really cute thing where she puts her head in the crook of my elbow and then I hug her head and its so fun 😊

That's kawaii…

eheehee thanks shuri
my friend does this really cute thing where she puts her head in the crook of my elbow and then I hug her head and its so fun 😊

That's kawaii…

hah no she doesn't know what that is, she just does it. Or randomly lays her head on my shoulder.

They make me feel trapped sometimes… it's like I get scared because I feel like they won't let go if I want them to, which is ridiculous because I know that's not the case.

Understandable.

there was also this one dude that I really hate that thought forcing me to hug him and kiss him and "playfully" not letting me go when I tell him to was an okay thing to do…

So you didn't elbow him in the ribs?

I did but he's like 7 feet tall and he thought I was just being "cute and playful" when I was actually lowkey terrified

Well there's another place you can try!

lol he's gone now
if I had the courage back then I would've but he was kind of crazy and I was afraid he was going to hurt me

eheehee thanks shuri
my friend does this really cute thing where she puts her head in the crook of my elbow and then I hug her head and its so fun 😊

That's kawaii…

hah no she doesn't know what that is, she just does it. Or randomly lays her head on my shoulder.

When I hug my significant other I usually like to put my head in the crook between his shoulder and collarbone… And he'll usually lay his chin on the top of my head…

They make me feel trapped sometimes… it's like I get scared because I feel like they won't let go if I want them to, which is ridiculous because I know that's not the case.

Understandable.

there was also this one dude that I really hate that thought forcing me to hug him and kiss him and "playfully" not letting me go when I tell him to was an okay thing to do…

So you didn't elbow him in the ribs?

I did but he's like 7 feet tall and he thought I was just being "cute and playful" when I was actually lowkey terrified

Well there's another place you can try!

lol he's gone now
if I had the courage back then I would've but he was kind of crazy and I was afraid he was going to hurt me

Understandable… But still… Getting hit there can usually incapacitate anyone, not just dudes…

eheehee thanks shuri
my friend does this really cute thing where she puts her head in the crook of my elbow and then I hug her head and its so fun 😊

That's kawaii…

hah no she doesn't know what that is, she just does it. Or randomly lays her head on my shoulder.

When I hug my significant other I usually like to put my head in the crook between his shoulder and collarbone… And he'll usually lay his chin on the top of my head…

Awwwwww so cute :D I really want a hug now. (its 4:20)