forum The tired, gay, sad, and confused chat

Started December 04, 2018 by @basil_

tune

Shitty.
As expected.

I'm good and happy!

That's good, Rhindy!
Awesome .

Shitty.
As expected.

Oh no….

oof

How are all of you?

Not great becuase my friend is thinking of committing suicide.

How are all of you?

Not great becuase my friend is thinking of committing suicide.

Oh. Which one?

Lex. ~Bee

Tell Lex that I just had someone close to me kill themselves. Tell them how immeasurable the pain is, from grief. It's…
It hurts Bee.
Lex… Please don't…

So, Lex just texted me a bit and told me a bit of what is going on.

So, a few things can be triggers for them. Some of them are loud noises, yelling, and changing something small in their safe space. Two out of these three things happened this morning. Lex has a small little light that they often set in their bed and it's a bit of a tether for them I suppose. Lex's mom came into their room, screaming about how the light was going to cause a fire and burn the house down. Their mom took the light and slammed it into the ground, shattering it and yelling more at Lex. Lex didn't bring any food because they said they "didn't deserve it"

Once I figure out any more info on it I will share. ~Bee

That sucks.
That sounds like total abuse, maybe you guys should reach out…

Thanks for telling us bee

That sucks.
That sounds like total abuse, maybe you guys should reach out…

We usually would, but no one would believe us.

um.. i kissed him…

How'd it go?

he didn't kiss back

Mm.
Sorry.

but he said "oh i needed that"

and then he said he was sorry he didn't kiss back

he told me to wait until 8th period

Ok.

pro tip, tell him about your feelings first (I'm assuming you didn't tell him how you felt before you kissed him)

Will that be your first kiss?

Shitty.
As expected.

Oh Shuri I'm so sorry.

Oh man I hope Lex is okay. Is there any trustworthy adult that could be told about the situation?