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@yeetus

Rant. Scream. Do what you needed to do but getting angry is never the answer. Being angry will not solve this problem. I think you should just not talk to them until you can express yourself calmly then walk away.
Shit I suck at this

@CoolBeanz

Guys. I'm sick as Hell and Dante is very, very fucking sick… He was in the hospital…

Anyway… It is something metal dissolved in the waterways or something and not contagious… Multiple places got it…

I won't be on for a few days… I'm nursing him back to health!

Oh no! I wish you both well and hopefully everything turns out fine!

@CoolBeanz

guys guys guys
I just woke up like an hour ago and I feel a little bit better so I'm going to drink some more tea (and not put salt in it this time)
also, presents from my lola (grandma) just got here and I got a coat that's super super warm, and boots and knee high fuzzy socks and cookies and I'm so happyyyyy

Those all sound great!!!

@CoolBeanz

I’m just so mad at this one person and there was so little communication about the whole thing that i don’t really even know what to be mad at them about but i’m pissed and I want them to feel quilty but i know that if I start to get passive aggressive, they will just get more angry with me but on that hand maybe that could open up another dialogue and we can finally talk even if it’s just hushed yelling at each other and being down right nasty to each other. But on the other hand, I only want to express myself and then I want to stop talking to this person again. I don’t want a relationship of any kind with them except one of distance. I just want to be openly angry and that be the end of that. I want to be mad and be validated for being mad. I want him to be wrong most of all, but that’s not something I can control. So like, I don’t know.

Yeah that's a difficult emotional situation to be in. What's keeping you in a relationship with them? Is there any reason that you can't just drop them? At least on here you'll probably be validated for your anger, I understand not wanting to face backlash in person though. Sorry, I'm not sure how to help, but I'm here if you need support!

@blue_topaz

Guys. I'm sick as Hell and Dante is very, very fucking sick… He was in the hospital…

Anyway… It is something metal dissolved in the waterways or something and not contagious… Multiple places got it…

I won't be on for a few days… I'm nursing him back to health!

Oh no! I wish you both well and hopefully everything turns out fine!

You’ll be in my prayers, I’m wishing you both a speedy recovery!

@Overdoneyanoveltropeyesplease

I’m just so mad at this one person and there was so little communication about the whole thing that i don’t really even know what to be mad at them about but i’m pissed and I want them to feel quilty but i know that if I start to get passive aggressive, they will just get more angry with me but on that hand maybe that could open up another dialogue and we can finally talk even if it’s just hushed yelling at each other and being down right nasty to each other. But on the other hand, I only want to express myself and then I want to stop talking to this person again. I don’t want a relationship of any kind with them except one of distance. I just want to be openly angry and that be the end of that. I want to be mad and be validated for being mad. I want him to be wrong most of all, but that’s not something I can control. So like, I don’t know.

Yeah that's a difficult emotional situation to be in. What's keeping you in a relationship with them? Is there any reason that you can't just drop them? At least on here you'll probably be validated for your anger, I understand not wanting to face backlash in person though. Sorry, I'm not sure how to help, but I'm here if you need support!

Well, nothing is keeping us in any relationship because he told me to leave him alone, and because he pulled me aside and just dumped all of this “I’m so angry with you and I think you misunderstand the nature of our relationship please leave me alone,” I was so confused because I didn’t know what he was talking about, so I just said okay and we went back inside and I grabbed my lunch and went and cried for an hour. Then I avoided everyone I knew for the next day, then the weekend, then I came back and sat with them and it was fine with the (none of them knew). But I still avoided his best friend (whom I am also friends with but far more casually) because she can be a little scary and I didn’t know if she would be mad and I wouldn’t be able to handle that too if she was. But then she found me and told me that she knew I was avoiding her and that she wasn’t mad or anything. The thing is that we have a bunch of mutual friends so we are around each other a lot.

Thanks for talking with me. ❤️

@CoolBeanz

I’m just so mad at this one person and there was so little communication about the whole thing that i don’t really even know what to be mad at them about but i’m pissed and I want them to feel quilty but i know that if I start to get passive aggressive, they will just get more angry with me but on that hand maybe that could open up another dialogue and we can finally talk even if it’s just hushed yelling at each other and being down right nasty to each other. But on the other hand, I only want to express myself and then I want to stop talking to this person again. I don’t want a relationship of any kind with them except one of distance. I just want to be openly angry and that be the end of that. I want to be mad and be validated for being mad. I want him to be wrong most of all, but that’s not something I can control. So like, I don’t know.

Yeah that's a difficult emotional situation to be in. What's keeping you in a relationship with them? Is there any reason that you can't just drop them? At least on here you'll probably be validated for your anger, I understand not wanting to face backlash in person though. Sorry, I'm not sure how to help, but I'm here if you need support!

Well, nothing is keeping us in any relationship because he told me to leave him alone, and because he pulled me aside and just dumped all of this “I’m so angry with you and I think you misunderstand the nature of our relationship please leave me alone,” I was so confused because I didn’t know what he was talking about, so I just said okay and we went back inside and I grabbed my lunch and went and cried for an hour. Then I avoided everyone I knew for the next day, then the weekend, then I came back and sat with them and it was fine with the (none of them knew). But I still avoided his best friend (whom I am also friends with but far more casually) because she can be a little scary and I didn’t know if she would be mad and I wouldn’t be able to handle that too if she was. But then she found me and told me that she knew I was avoiding her and that she wasn’t mad or anything. The thing is that we have a bunch of mutual friends so we are around each other a lot.

Thanks for talking with me. ❤️

Ah okay I see. You're welcome! I hope venting on here at least helped some!

@basil_

I just realized when I was younger I would tell my mom that I was always tired and she always would pass it off as physical problems instead of mental problems even though I always got a good amount of sleep and stuff like that..I feel bad..

@basil_

ihateitsomuch
I was up till 2 am yesterday and i haven't been eating. im not motivated to do anything. at least my family is being bearable..