forum The Miracle family!!
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@Mafureal group

And now everyone hates me….

Pardon? I don't hate you. I don't think any of us hate you. Is there a reason you think we do?

Just… Things aren't in a good place

@TeamMezzo group

And now everyone hates me….

Pardon? I don't hate you. I don't think any of us hate you. Is there a reason you think we do?

Just… Things aren't in a good place

pm's open if you need em <3

@Mafureal group

And now everyone hates me….

Pardon? I don't hate you. I don't think any of us hate you. Is there a reason you think we do?

Just… Things aren't in a good place

pm's open if you need em <3

Thanks…

@TeamMezzo group

And now everyone hates me….

Pardon? I don't hate you. I don't think any of us hate you. Is there a reason you think we do?

Just… Things aren't in a good place

pm's open if you need em <3

Thanks…

of course fren

@Mafureal group

Same thing I told the mezzo system. Well… I decided to take hemophilia lightly… And depression…. One to another leads to blood loss

@ravens

you got this dear, i'm so proud of you for opening up to everyone, you're so brave for doing this!!

I second this!

Thirded!

@ravens

Progress is progress, no matter how small!
-Horton the elephant, slightly paraphrased

Also I was just yelled at…

shit what for?

@Mafureal group

Progress is progress, no matter how small!
-Horton the elephant, slightly paraphrased

Also I was just yelled at…

shit what for?

A poem

@GameMaster group

I don’t like aggressive and unhealthy positivity, and because of that I’m thought of as a mean person. Saying you’ll make it through this or you’ll be okay is such an incredibly awful thing to say to someone. You’re getting better or Ill help you get better are much less…intense. Two days ago my mom asked me why I was always so sad. For obvious reasons this question upset me because of the lovely trifecta of anxiety, depression, and insomnia that affect me daily. Don’t be overly positive. Just please don’t. Don’t make promises that things will get better, because can you imagine how that person will feel when things get worse.

@The-N-U-T-Cracker

Maybe this is me being nitpicky but I have to disagree with the whole "Saying you’ll make it through this or you’ll be okay is such an incredibly awful thing to say to someone." point… Maybe this is just a personal thing, but I find a lot of comfort in those phrases, even if things just continuously get worse afterward. They may be small and overused but they help me realize that no matter how low things get, there's always hope somewhere, and just because things might be getting worse doesn't mean that's the end or that I should give up.

It's also not entirely false, in most cases, unless you give up completely, things will get better and you will be okay. That doesn't mean it's just an easy upward spiral from there, there are going to be times where things do get worse and that's something you have to acknowledge, but you also must acknowledge that worse does not mean hopeless and one day, you will start to notice improvement, and you will eventually be happy again. It may be a tough battle but it's not the end.

That being said, only telling yourself that everything will be okay without doing anything is quite unrealistic, if you keep that "it'll all be alright in the end, no need to worry" mindset and don't work hard to make it happen or simply try to brush off your negative emotions as irrational using those overly positive phrases, it can slowly become destructive. You have to put in effort in order for everything to get better, and if you feel you can't do it alone, then maybe talk to a therapist, find a group of friends to support you, I dunno, do something-
…Am I making any sense whatsoever?
That's probably all just a perspective thing though, and I can see why you might not take those phrases the same way I do.

I do agree with your overall message, unhealthy positivity can be a serious problem, however, so can excessive/unhealthy negativity, for obvious reasons.

I think the best attitude to have isn't a positive or negative one, but a wholesome one, if we're going by my boi Joinen's really long and overexplained definition copied directly from his video "What Is Wrong With "WHOLESOME" Content?"; (btw you all should subscribe to him, he's extremely underrated)

"Wholesome, for me, is not just blind positivity and the avoidance of controversy. Wholesome, and what I encourage on this channel, is a more real outlook; it takes the good with the bad, it can criticize and it can be upset. It's not about some false sense of happiness that makes you believe everything's gonna be alright, no, I wanna strive to call that out. Real wholesomeness is taking what's in front of you, good or bad, and transforming it into something people can learn from, spreading a message, or maybe even impacting the situation itself. Blind positivity and only acknowledging 'good stuff' is not what I'm about, it's not what wholesome is about. Sometimes I make surface-level wholesome content, sometimes I'm critical, most of the time I'm probably just making whatever makes for an interesting video, not really thinking too much about some deeper purpose. It's my belief that any 'business', if that's what I am, should have an ethos, should have core values, and the core value here is a spreading acceptance and hopefully bringing joy to people. The topics I talk about may not always be joyful, but it's less about the subject matter itself and more about the attitude towards whatever the subject matter is. And obviously, I'm going to be wrong sometimes, but I just wanted to clear that out for people who expect me to be making wholesome meme videos every single day- that would be exhausting. So, I'm gonna tie up to something super anti-wholesome here… Give me some money" -insert his Wholesome merch plug here-

…For people who don't understand that rambling, what he meant was to him, wholesomeness is taking the good and bad but using them in a positive attitude that will bring joy to others. Not a false sense of joy, but actual legitimate happiness without all the fluffy little lies.

Wholesome attitudes really prove that constant negativity does not equal realism, something many people tend to forget…

So stay wholesome, my amazing beans! \(^ヮ^)/

@ravens

what would you have us say? "you're not trying hard enough"? bullshit.

anyway we're painting me and my sister's room and it's done but here are some pics i took yesterday