Just to clear things up..
We were talking on the LGBTQ community chat about various things. Emi comes on and tells us something that happened to her that really upset her. Connie responds basically saying she doesn't really see what the big deal is. Emi explains that it really really upset her and that she's really sad. Connie responds still saying she doesn't believe that Emi's current situation is worse then crying yourself to sleep. Then Emi responds with this
Okay, Connie. I want you to realize something. You’re not the only one with depression. Okay? Okay? You’re still 13. Your depression isn’t as developed as other people’s on this site. Don’t go vying for my pity because what you went through might be worse than what I go through.
I’m tired of it.
Okay guys. A lot of you jumped on Emi for this without knowing the whole story. Yeah it was kind of insensitive.
Emi explained to me that she tries to help Connie but she smoothly jumps over it even though Connie complains a lot.
Don’t be insensitive…different things mean more feelings to other people. I melted down the other day becuase I got mud on my sweater. Mental illness is bad for everyone who had it, no matter how you choose to express it.
Someone also said this to Connie making a good point.
Neither of you are to blame.
So let's just let it go.
Please don't attack Emi. Don't attack Connie. Most of us on here are struggling with some sort of depression and we all deal with it differently. This is a safe place for me, and most other people. Emi lashed out and it wasn't good but we all do it okay? Not everyone is perfect.
Emi cares about Connie's mental health and i'm sure Connie cares about hers.
Please don't ban Emi.
I love both of you and I care for all of you.
I hope i've made my point.
Please only respond to this with nice things.
Thanks for understanding
-Claudia/Kmart
Thank you so much for making this point, a lot of people probably needed to hear it
i'm so sorry. i messed up so much. so much
None of you messed up. Everyone who was concerned please please read this
That's right. There's no choosing sides on this site. Most of us are struggling with depression and anxiety, and that's just how it is. Nobody was right in this situation. Connie shouldn't have done that to Emi and Emi shouldn't have done that to Connie. There will be NO MORE IN-FIGHTING, and if I see anymore of this, my foot is going up someone's ass. You're all wonderful people who've been dealt shitty lives, nobody's problems are worse thsn everyone else's, and for this occurrence, everyone involved is equally at fault. You guys can jump at me for this, I really don't care, but it needs to be said… Sorry if I got worked up…
But each one of you is precious to me. For each one of you I have nothing but warm, adamantine love, and a staggering mountain of support. I care more about you guys than I do myself.
But it's over now, snd everything is broken, but still repairable. So why don't we all get to fixong it. You're all such wonderful, incredible people, and this site is supposed to be a safe-haven, is that clear?
Oh and someone who is maybe in contact with Connie, if you could show her this maybe?
I'm in contact with her……
I'm in contact with her……
Please please please show her this
"Clearing up things on my end. I was confused, i was hurt that she would compare that to what me, and others have gone through. It affects us differently, i know that. But it hurt me… because she knew i was going through a lot last night… but… without any context to what exactly was going on, she still compared it to what happened to her… and that hurt… I'm sorry… You guys could've told me my flaws! So i could fix myself for you guys!"-Connie
Tell her it's all blown over…
sorry emi, it's my fault everyone jumped on you
Please tell her we miss her and that we want her to come back
You don’t have to fix yourself for us connie we love you the way you are
Please forget about all of this and come back. We miss you so much!!!
I'm sending her screenshots whenever someone says to tell her something so ye
^^^ all of that
Misunderstandings are much easier to happen over the internet because everyone is behind a screen and you have no way to guess their intentions. No one meant to hurt anyone, I really hope we can all get past this.
I’m super sorry. So sorry. So so sorry
It’s okay connie!! If you want to rant then rant we will listen to you!!
We will listen to you, doll!
